Comments by "Shipoke (Dn Wybn)" (@inconnu4961) on "PsycHacks"
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No they arent! Dishonest people-pleasers are dishonest people-pleasers. WOMEN are dishonest people-pleasers! Nice guys are men who are trying to straddle 2 different environments with 2 different standards and falling short in both.
The BEST bad-analogy i can suggest is, being taught the rules of America football and the rules of soccer, having the field and the players look similar, then while playing the games, changing the rules during the game. BUT No one tells you the rules have changed UNTIL you have committed a penalty violating the rules! So there is a constant anxiety of which game we are playing so which rules we should be following, football or soccer? I admit, not a perfect analogy but the best one I could think of in 10 seconds. I have seen jerks get away with being jerks, then when the nice guy tries the SAME behavior, get screamed at for it! Once you are labeled a jerk, you get a pass for being a jerk; once you are labelled a nice guy, you are expected to be a nice guy! 2 different standards! We ALSO treat men & women different and call it equality! LOL
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