Comments by "Jeremy" (@josiah5776) on "Better Bachelor" channel.

  1. Peak narcissism.
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  2.  @starguy2718  Exactly. Paint the man into a corner with false accusations and he will give up everything just to have them dropped.
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  3.  @Colton-wz5sh  Yes, every day. The charge lasted 10 hours if I was lucky. And I did use an extension cord, so the "moving around" thing had some latitude. Another thing. The chargers were garbage and broke regularly. When they did, I had to go report in or get arrested, then pay $100 for an new charger. They broke three times during the two years. I was not rough with them.
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  4. @MR_THINQ  I did something. I left the West. There are very few whites where I live now, but I am treated far better than I was in the US. I fought the misandrist system twice. Lost massively both times. Money, reputation, even personal freedom. No help or support. Not doing it a third time.
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  5.  @Stubbies2003  That would surely be a good start.
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  6.  @guyincognito394  A remember in the old Snowcrash novel, crimes were tattooed onto the person's forehead as a warning to others ... "False Accuser"
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  7.  @stephengamber7000  100%
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  8.  @clownworld4655  Absolutely. I've seen exactly what you stated over and over again during my 45 years in the corporate and business world ... causing me to do a 180 and reverse my younger opinion on the necessity of a degree.
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  9.  @Limitless_Doom  Good question. Most guys will be perfectly happy with a girl who works at Wendy's, as long as she is pretty and nice.
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  10. Especially in the West
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  11. Same here. Both parents were (later) diagnosed narcissists. I played catch up for almost 30 years … but still nowhere near as clueless as these people. Been drinking from the youtube firehose to learn … practical stuff like building fences and repairing a well … not the stupid, woke content.
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  12. I wonder how deep this will go. DEI under another name has existed in the military since the early 1980s and before. I attended and graduated West Point in the early 1980s ... with the first class that had women. The physical standards were lowered significantly for women. Moreover, women were given multiple do-overs if they failed out ... especially minority women. Most white men were thrown out for failing one class. Minority men could fail one without worry. Women could fail two or three classes without problem. Minority women up to five. Also, women who had failed out of previous class years were invited back in sometimes into one of the following classes. This was not done for men. 99% of the men leading the military kept their mouths shut about all this and enabled it. If you even mentioned it you would be disciplined or even kicked out. The fact that this was happening was buried from view to the public, then the graduation rates for women held up and lauded. To this day, they will still deny everything I just said. In the 23 years I served in the Army afterwards, I saw much of the same dynamic.
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  13. I'm right there with ya.
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  14. @cgsimons1187  Exactly. I witnessed this happening more and more over the past 40 years. First giving some jobs based solely on traits rather than ability. Then most jobs. Now almost all jobs. And the geniuses doing this are surprised things are collapsing.
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  15.  @zaqwerty22  Reminds me of an old song from the Pet Shop Boys: Everything I've ever done, Everything I ever do, Every place I've ever been, Everywhere I'm going to, It's a sin
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  16. Amazing. When I was in my 20s, being "brave" was breaching an enemy minefield under heavy fire. I was born too early. Can you get a Silver Star for going out alone now?
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  17. I do not involve myself with or engage women who are with another man. It has nothing to do with masculine energy deficit or any other such nonsense. Two reasons: 1) Integrity, and 2) if the woman would allow it she is either unfaithful or broken in some other sense.
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  18. @coolgranddad5430  I can relate. I was also falsely accused and jailed for a while. Charges were eventually dismissed when there were so many contradictions that it fell apart, but not before I had to sell my home to pay 300K in legal bills. No action was taken against the false accuser, and no lawyer would take my case against her. Even though charges were dismissed, the arrest record remained. District Attorney refused to expunged. Once again, no lawyer would take my case to fight it. The entire legal community was against charging any woman for false accusations. US legal system is overtly misandrist. I left the US for that reason.
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  19. Men too. DEI was the final straw for me. I packed my stuff and left the USA for nation where I am a tiny minority ... yet treated better.
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  20.  @weaponsman2057  Tell me about it. Years back, my ex would withhold my son from me during court ordered visitation, demanding more money. The cops would do nothing, claiming it was a civil matter. However, if I dropped him off just 5 minutes late on those rare occasions I actually got visitation, it was a criminal matter and they threatened me with arrest. Taking it to court was useless and a waste of money. All the judge did was have her promise not to do it again. Of course, she did it again with the full confidence that she would get away with it. She was right. She raised my son to be a weak, soft, simp, f'nist ally who hates my guts. My story is just one of many, and it is the reality behind the "where are all the fathers" BS the media and government push.
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  21. Exactly, or use the men for any number of reasons. If the media pushes it, there must be a feminist angle beneficial to women at the expense of men.
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  22. Texas is almost blue now. I good friend of mine there has sole custody of his children with his ex required to pay child support. She abducted the kids during visitation and fled to various different states. The kids are not going to school and are panhandling on street corners. My friend has notified police and social services at times he was able to locate them, but the authorities would do nothing. Judges in three states ... Texas, Arizona and Nevada ... would not act to enforce either the court awarded sole custody for him or child support payments. The FBI ignored him, despite the children being abducted across state lines. However, when one of the children broke away and tried to get back to him, they threatened to charge HIM (the father) with child neglect if he did not fly down to get him immediately. The same authorities disregarded the same boy telling them how the other three children were being abused and neglected by the mother. Don't marry ... ever. Men have zero rights with respect to their children.
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  23.  @ricardokojin7  You are 100% spot on. Instead of "held accountable" perhaps "was acknowledged" ... and yeah, if she had not outright confessed to it, the guy would have had much more trouble, even with all the text evidence.
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  24. This is just typical female game playing. The average man will run away, and the Chads will game the gamer. When the smoke clears after age 30, she will complain about being alone and blame men. I'm on the far side of 50 and have participated in numerous rodeos. Most of what I have learned came through painful mistakes, as there were not guys like Joker around to warn and educate my generation of men. Below are some red flags that I have identified over time. They are tailored to me, but hopefully some of the younger men out there can take something of value from them: Here are the filters I used for deciding whether to end a casual relationship, or move to a more serious one. Please note these are my criteria and one size does not fit all. Just examples. - Love-bombing. Intense flattery and attention, with a push to rush intimacy very fast. Usually the manipulative set to a later abusive spike. - Drama, defined for me as negative attention for something not my fault. Example: Venting about a bad day at work is cool. Blaming me for it is not. - Extreme extraversion or constant high energy. Nothing wrong with that, it's just not for me. - Frequent criticism. "I'm only trying to help you" has been the battle cry of every toxic partner I've ever had. - Pity plays. Trying to get things from you by making you feel sorry for them. - Manipulation of any kind (pity play is one of these). These are sometimes hard to spot, because they masquerade as legitimate things. However, if you often find yourself feeling uncomfortable about things which you do for or tolerate from her, it is probably manipulation. - Double binds; A subtle, but nasty, way of manipulating you by giving you two choices, both of which are unattainable. This is highly advanced manipulation. If you experience it, run immediately, run fast, and run far. - Actions don't match their words. Also lying. - Future faking. Constantly promising things that are very desirable to you, but never materialize. - Vastly different spiritual and/or political world views. Tried it many times. Don't fool yourself into assuming tolerance and love will overcome it. It will explode one day. - Problems from toxic family members for whom they will not set boundaries. - Getting angry or emotional if you don't respond to texts or calls immediately. - Demanding to know where you are and what you are doing all the time. - Expecting to be inseparably joined at the hip with you in all things. Some people like this and that is fine for them. I am not one of them. - Going silent or disappearing a lot and then expecting to pick up where you left off; I am all for having our own space, but this would be days or weeks at a time; A short, "Hi, hope you're well. I've been really busy" is not difficult to do. - Only contacting you when they need something. The following are not bad occasionally, but red flags if they are the norm, especially early in a relationship: - Constant need of help (often financial, but can be other). - Constant "advice" to you about what you should do, how you should look, what you should wear, how you should act, etc. - Every day is a crisis of some sort (financial, emotional, career, etc.) - Needing lots of attention all the time. - Getting their feelings hurt a lot from everything you do.
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  25. It's hilarious (to me) seeing how boring the lives of these woman become past age 35-40, after all their complaining when they were younger about men being boring. To a man, there are few things more boring than a flabby, shrill, dried up, worn out, twice-divorced single mom with a couple of kids. Good luck with the second halves of your lives, ladies.
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  26. I'm north of 50. Not only do women my age and far below have nothing to offer. Even if they did offer the traditional woman stuff, I still don't need them. I cook, clean, launder and do it all myself. I have for decades. I don't need a woman for that, even if they did offer it.
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  27. In my 25 years in IT, a total of 4 female software engineers, two of whom were competent. To be fair that's about the same percentage as for male software engineers during that time.
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  28.  @MikeG82  Philippines. It was the optimal place for me, for a number of reasons. There are many other options open and the younger you start, the more are available.
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  29.  @consciousbeing1188  Exactly. Something “lawful” can still be evil.
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  30.  @pedrochavez6838  I would shed no tears over them being broken up. Well, maybe a few at lack of availability of some things ... but I'd get over it pretty quick.
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  31. Yes, definitely a win for men ... but I'm not holding my breath for divorce law reform.
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  32.  @name_goes_here-o1w  I totally get what you’re saying. I have the same situation. I don’t need a relationship. I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. Isn’t it funny how the same women who wouldn’t settle for less than a millionaire in their 20s, in their 40s will pursue a guy just because he is debt free.
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  33.  @1439315  How has all that privilege felt these past few decades? Ironically, none the (few) women with whom I graduated computer science grad school became developers. They became managers, business development people and stay at home wives.
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  34. "I'm just following orders." The rallying cry of every common man who enabled despots and oppression. It didn't work at Nuremberg and I hope it doesn't work here either.
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  35.  @Markbell73  Exactly. Runs counter to the message.
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  36. @alexisc7565  It can still be the first home purchased. She just got it in the divorce.
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  37.  @SicketMog Truth.
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  38.  @RedEyeification  That's for sure.
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  39.  @intensifier1346  Which part?
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  40. That one is going in my book of quotes! 😁
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  41. Right? Ooh, ooh! Come look at me complaining about a guy looking at me.
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  42. I have never seen a single woman walk away without cash and prizes, no matter what she says. Most men today won't commit to marriage because they know women won't commit to staying married. Today's combination of technology and culture is creating legions of narcissists, and even pschopaths.
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  43. You were very wise to learn it so early. Took me well past 50, and yes it was a repetitive horror show.
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  44.  @youtubeshadowbannedmylasta2629  Exactly... guilty until proven innocent... but still condemned even if found innocent
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  45.  @brianvanwyk6817  Lost, ancient profession from long, long ago.
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  46. Gen Z men, you are my heroes and my hope. God bless you all!
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  47. AI girlfriends and pr0n did not ruin men. Feminists ruined men. The US legal system ruined men. The US government ruined men. Public schools ruined men. Universities ruined men. Single mothers ruined men. The church ruined men. AI and pr0n are just some of the end game effects.
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  48. Where were the Facebook fact checkers for online sale of an infant?
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  49. ​ @ChaptermasterPedroKantor-kv5yw Yep ... Consulting 101
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  50. This is why I moved out of the city and will do my very best never to set foot in one again.
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