Hearted Youtube comments on Cole Hastings (@ColeHastings) channel.

  1. I am slowly starting to pay no attention to other people, and set myself first. I feel like our society is revolved around pleasing other people, that we stop caring about things that actually matter.
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  2. A German philosopher Haddaway decribed love as, "Baby, don't hurt me. Don't hurt me. No more."
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  3. It’s ridiculous that people are so easily willing to adopt everything about an ideology rather than actually form a unique opinion. It feels better to be in a group than to think freely I guess.
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  4. you will not know that you are addicted until you decide to quit
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  5. For someone who used to be addicted to his phone but now uses it for less than 30 min a day, life's never been better.
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  6. POST BREAKUP PEOPLE, READ THIS: If someone you love broke up with you, remember: "You only lost someone who doesn't love you anymore. It's them, they lost someone who loved them." Now ask yourself, who has really lost, you or them?
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  7. Being authentic and genuinely paying attention to when others talk will change your life… People can sense when they’re being listened to, and when you listen carefully, your words and conversations become so much more authentic. That’s when your personality will flourish. As always, great video, Cole.
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  8. amazing storytelling. Needs more Jeffery and Adonis
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  9. Guys don't do this it's dangerous. I retained for nearly 3 days and had so much energy I was up at 4 am re shingling the roof.
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  10. If you can go through life being proactive and motivated whilst on the green stuff... then go for it. If you can't and you feel less motivated and lazier... then stop it. Drugs affect everyone differently, maybe just give it a try for a few months and see how you feel. <3
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  11. when medium and hard are the exact same for you
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  12. Coffee is soooo bad for you, it’s crazy how people don’t realize what it does to you. That’s why I only drink Red Bull
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  13. Male virginity rates have increased because every girl only wants Cole
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  14. Asking a girl with pink hair and glasses about relationships is an automatic “women power, men are bad”
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  15. In a time where marriage isn’t taken seriously anymore, this is lovely. You and your lady are such a cute couple 🥰
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  16. Totally nailed it talking about how you have to take an interest you have and work on increasing your skills around that thing. Like when I play/make music. Learning music software is super frustrating. But my enjoyment in making my own music drives me to keep learning what I need to get better. That’s how passions are born
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  17. “It is better being alone than being with someone who makes you feel alone.”
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  18. Probably the highest quality self-improvement content out there.
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  19. That must’ve been a fat load lol. Prayers for her
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  20. I've wanted to learn Japanese for a while now and to be honest this video was really motivational. Even if it was just 10% in 30 days that's still an achievement.
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  21. A mistake not made is a lesson not learned.
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  22. 105 days on semen retention. Big energy, self confidence in full, dont have social anxiety, no more fear of death, no more panic attacks and depression. Still without girlfriend but i dont care and dont need them, my life is better without girlfriend, and i dont need stress, negative energy and loss of my money.
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  23. I’ve fallen into the “depression is cool” trap myself. I feel like it’s more comfortable to make depression my identity, then to actively work to become someone who is no longer depressed
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  24. 5:10 The women who lose attraction to you when you show your authentic emotions were never the women who would have been a compliment to your life anyway. Let them leave. Took me too long to learn this lesson
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  25. Break ups are always super painful...but they always lead to the greatest of glow ups.
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  26. To me, masculinity is simply taking the lead, pursuing life goals, not needing to succumb to societal pressures and taking care of your family, lover and friends.
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  27. if you see a woman in her 20s with dyed hair sitting by herself, any question you ask her, good or bad, her answer will be "its mens fault"
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  28. it's a cruel term that shouldn't be used by serious people. Boiling down an entire person to "you're just mad because you're not getting laid" is messed up.
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  29. Ambitious as hell son, I’m a proud father 👏🏻🇯🇵
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  30. Sometimes when you're in a dark place you think You've been buried but you've actually been planted.💫
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  31. Knowing that social skills are my absolute weakness, I really appreciate videos like this sooo much. Thank you cole!
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  32. The way I see it, the goal isn't to not fap, it's to get to a point in life where you don't feel that you need to do it all the time to be happy. Just like responsible adults can have some beer without being an alcoholic, someone can have sex or fap without their life falling apart. The trick and things girls find attractive is the ability to responsibly find that balance. It's unfortunate that nofap has been simplified to numbers and streaks when truly tempered adults shouldn't need to care about that.
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  33. That's some next level weeb commitment, and I'm all for it.
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  34. The main thing that I learned from the red pill community is that self improvement should come first before anything, then everything else will follow.
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  35. So... when will society stop acting like being a virgin is something bad??
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  36. Not enough forgiveness. Not enough patience. Not enough love. People want shit QUICK, and social media definitely plays a role because people begin comparing their unique relationship to the ones they see online & begin to think the grass is greener. Simply not enough appreciation for your lover, so people take what they have for granted.
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  37. Such good content! The video editing is very authentic and gives vibes.
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  38. It's crazy to me how you even built up the self discipline to learn another language all on your own. and that you shared your 30 day progress even though you only understood 15%. props to you Cole
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  39. This Video Perfect Timing, Im Going Through It Now... Hard To Focus On My Craft
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  40. Boring is very subjective, a scientist could bore to death a musician, a fighter could bore to death an engineer. We all like different things, there are lots of people out there, there are god tips on this video but don´t be to hard to yourself, everyone is interesting in their own way.
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  41. " I feel like the the American diet has really gone downhill in the last decade" * Mid-Roll ad for the McRib plays*
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  42. I never found this video before my transition into a functioning member of society, but I can tell you these were the steps I took for myself. Creating a whole new identity, going from someone who stays in their room for weeks playing nothing but games, avoiding school, and hell even starving myself. I've built such a great life for myself in the span of a few months. I lost 50 lbs, I got a girlfriend, a job, friends, and I never stay home for longer than a week. I'm always doing something. Life gets so much better once you're finally out of your shell. Don't waste it, this is your life.
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  43. I just crossed 20 second.... I'm feeling better
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  44. Bro honestly I'm in the worse spot I've ever been in my life rn. I'm miserable, hate my job, have basically no friends or social life. Ive watched countless videos and talked to people online but for some reason your video is resonating so much more with me. Something about just the bluntness and honesty you give. Talking about how you had a bad relationship and you were in the darkest spot you've been so you decided to set on a quest to improve your life, and how your mind still races from time to time like I feel like most people pretend everything Is good all the time. I think that's what I need. I like goals so I think I need to just commit to the goal of improving my life.
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  45. I think we are in a weird transition period where mental health issues are being de stigmatized and discussed, but our institutions haven’t quite caught up yet. Politicians love to say that we need better mental health but don’t actually back it up with funding for wider access to these services. The cost and barriers to getting a good therapist/psychiatrist are still quite high for many people. Not to mention that something that needs appointments is really hard for someone with dysfunction 😅
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  46. ‼️“Being sober is so underrated.” ‼️YES
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  47. This was really well made — leaves a lot to think about.
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  48. Modern relationships fail because people are always looking for short term stuff and no one is ready to push through the ups and downs of a relationship. They quit easily
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  49. Honestly, just taking time out of your day to appreciate the things life has given us can be a real eye opener
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  50. "The chains of habits are too light to be felt but too hard to be broken"
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