Hearted Youtube comments on Cole Hastings (@ColeHastings) channel.

  1. Many Red Pillers have father issues, not having or communicating with their fathers. I'm definitely going to break that cycle with my kids
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  2. i really appreciate this vid
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  3. I wish everyone a year filled with close relationships, platonic, and romantic love
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  4. I sometimes wonder if there have always been npcs, it’s just that with the rise of the internet we can finally get a good sense of just how many there are
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  5. 12 critical things you should never tolerate 1. Unhappiness at work. 2. A long commute. 3. An unhealthy lifestyle. 4. Draining relationships. 5. A disordered living space. 6 negativity. 7. To much stuff. 8. Financial problems. 9. Living out of your integrity. 10. Living without fun. 11. Accepting ignorance and inertia. 12. Lack of communication.
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  6. 19 months in, I’ve never been more spiritually, mentally, and physically aligned in my entire life. It’s crazy because it’s only a year and some change.
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  7. It’s embarrassing how fast I clicked this
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  8. Those first couple times you break up, it's hard. Honestly, there's not a whole lot that people can tell you to make you feel better, especially if you're heads-over-heels with your squeeze. My dad always told me, "son, you'll feel better after a while, now go sweep out the shed row." There was a method to his madness, it was to keep me moving. Keep moving, you still have a life. Life goes on. Let it go. Letting go is cathartic. When she/he figures out you let it go, they'll want you back, but you won't care at that point, you have moved on. Begging, rationalizing, creeping, stalking, none of that will work, if it did, you wouldn't want what it will be after that anyway. Just let it go, my friends. You can't go backwards in time, life never moves in a straight line. You'll see, and you will be great.
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  9. This is exactly what I needed today. Keep doing what you're doing.
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  10. Dude I will be straight up with you. I was starting to become disappointed because I felt you were running out of ideas in the channel, as if my opinions matter. I would make my mind up before I even watched the videos. But this one. THIS video is, in my opinion, one of your best videos to date. I think it will resonate with a huge amount of people, especially in their teens and early twenties. Thank you, keep doing what you’re doing
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  11. Cole, you've helped me realize that men have a MASSIVE problem...: To many guys get all their interaction (romantic and otherwise) from their phones and screens. So when a young lady comes along and actually speaks to you, you have no choice but to fall immediately. Your brain registers it as a a scarcity and so it begins to "optimize" for her and obsesses. Thank you for your content, brother! You're a huge inspo for everything I create on mine.
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  12. I hate how masculinity and self improvement is typically judged by how ripped you are.
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  13. If you don’t fit In you’re born to stand out! Be you and always stay authentic
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  14. I understand not wanting to marry in your 20s, but not date? Pursuing romantic relationships, learning about yourself and learning what makes a compatible partner for you is just as important for your personal development as learning skills + money. Theres nothing wrong with pursuing dating and self improvement as long as one side does not overtake or infringe on the other side
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  15. It was so mature of both of you to take time apart and reflect, sometimes that's all we need to realize what's right for us. All the best to you both <3
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  16. Man, this is the first video I‘ve watched of you and I Ioved it! Keep spreading the word. 💯
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  17. Glad you could share your story and perspective. Amazing video bro
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  18. I did ALL THE WRONG THINGS. I begged. I started arguments. I tried to beef with his mama..🤣 I went off the deep end frfr But now I know better!
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  19. I was actually reflecting about this today, and I found out that it's because there's no need to be a part of a community anymore. We got institutions for everything. Back then if you were excluded it was pretty bad, nowadays you can just move places easily and people are too tired these days to make any new or lasting friendships.
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  20. The ones who truly were in a long relationship with self-improvement will perfectly understand this video.
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  21. Self improvement as a coping defense mechanism is a tricky thing to have. I've been doing shadow work for a while and I can say surely that: someone in my past has hurt me in a certain way and my form of running away has been trying to improve myself so others won't hurt me like in the past. So technically, I need to take some time to not improve in order to face the trauma and therefore knowing my true purpose!
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  22. It’s like this guy knows everything that’s going on in my life 😂
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  23. I'm a red pill guy but I'm the rare type who found the red pill without any heartache and already in a very happy marriage. I went a kittle too deep into it and it almost ruined my marriage. I stopped being a gentleman and doing many of the things that made our relationship pill great. In some aspects it helped improve the relationship, so it was about me finding the right balance of the new knowledge and what always worked. Thankfully we're in a great place again but yes, be careful taking it all too literally
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  24. you convinced me to try a day ;)
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  25. Every man needs to see this, and as a 15-year-old, I think every boy needs to see this so that we become great men
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  26. Cole. I'm 23M never had a girlfriend or even sex. The light at the end of the tunnels made me cried. It felt so good to welcome back those emotion and weakness back into my life and accepting them. Your videos help me a lot with getting my life in order. Been working on myself for 3/4 years, trying to pursuit my dream career, improving my social skills... You are the mentor I wish I had met earlier. I have nothing right now but I know the future is bright. I thank you.
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  27. unbelievable how much hard work was put into this video, so underrated
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  28. this guy is literally free therapy......
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  29. Still blows my mind how we get access to content like this for free. Don't take it for granted
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  30. People nowadays don't believe in monogamy. They get bored of their partners and stop putting efforts. And being a girl I agree that coz of social media, our expectations are quite high. Insightful vid, Cole:)
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  31. watching you is like watching a boy slowly go insane at the reality of life. Psychologically analysing yourself to paralysis... slowly losing everyone around you because you're a bore to be with because you lecture everyone.
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  32. Our greatest form of social control is through coerced imitation. We're told to look down upon these original tribal societies as lacking in culture, intelligence, and basically amounting to uncivilized savages, when in reality they often experienced a greater level of freedom and community than we do in the modern day, and many of these ancient tribal societies had great inventions in architecture, mathematics, agriculture, etc. In turn, upper class society since the late 19th century has set the standard for what the "pinnacle of civilization" is "supposed" to be. In doing so, we're slowly being conditioned to accept these stratified aspects of society where the wealthy upper class is something to respect and aspire to, while the lower classes are looked down upon as we might look down upon "lesser" civilizations. Thus, by imitating the upper class and trying to associate with them, and feeling shame when we cannot live up to these ridiculous notions of what it means to be valued according to nothing more than arbitrary factors like wealth and birthright, we are subconsciously being controlled and coerced into behaving within the rigid structures and formalities set in precedent by the 19th and 20th century bourgeoisie. Ironically, these standards were often set on a foundation of racism, as freed slaves and people of color being permitted to participate in business and society might elevate themselves to a respectable status, and so they had to make races/cultures seem "inferior" regardless of wealth and status, creating a Euro-centric pinnacle during a time when Europe was about to engage in one of the most savage catastrophes in human history (WWI and WWII), while trying to make more peaceful, though technologically backward societies seem less civlized and more savage and less desirable to imitate. We sort of broke free of this thinking during the 60's when people actually looked to these communal tribal socieities as a means of escaping the violence and social stigmas of thise Euro-centric imitations, but the world was gradually adapting to this concept on the whole, and modern conveniences started to trickle down into the average household, so that by the 1980's people were being brainwashed with pop culture and television to mindlessly accept these standards, and that trend has continued to the modern day. We're mindless drones in pursuit of a standard set by the racist elite of the early 20th century, and we have to first stop chasing these vapid things before we can redirect ourselves in the right direction, away from the pursuit of wealth and status, and towards a more community-based society.
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  33. Not having a deadline is a procrastinators biggest enemy
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  34. Emotionally intelligent people can often be highly sensitive. Use your traits to your strength!
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  35. “Always preaching but never practicing” wow this hit me
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  36. I recently learned that an introvert is not actually someone who enjoys being alone. It’s actually someone who only likes to hang with a small group of close friends. Whereas an extrovert isn’t necessary someone who loves hanging out all the time, it’s more like someone who likes hanging out with different and diverse groups of people, and is interested in having more acquaintances. Food for thought.
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  37. Maybe entry level jobs shouldn’t need 3 years of experience…
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  38. We haven't NEEDED purpose for a long time. A lot of "purpose" has been thrust upon us and we've been fighting against it. That's what leading lives in quiet desperation is about. You need to "extract" hopelessness from somewhere, and most of it is from the perpetual high school that stuff like social media has become. You don't need to change the world, you just need to make sure that you and those who are important to your life are happy and safe. But because communication is now so constant, we're tricked into believing that if you aren't perfect and trying to make the next groundbreaking new cool thing that will save the world, you're a total degenerate loser.
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  39. It's a figure of speech. By saying someone has no personality, it means they are boring/uninteresting. Obviously everyone has a personality.
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  40. Masculinity and Femininity aren’t toxic, but immature behavior can be.
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  41. The hilarious irony of this facade is that every one of these 'sigma literally me' characters are from films and shows that warn us that they are causes and symptoms of a PROBLEM
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  42. It's funny because the Redpill tells you to be strong and not obsess over women but the content itself is literally obsessing over women.
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  43. after becoming a young 18 yr old bartender I can say it really has opened up my eyes to a lot of different realities, it's so cool meeting a bunch of people all the time and just finding out how odd the universe really can be, and the main way how i get into convos is just observerving and listening then i usually comment or question on the topic then it all just becomes natural from there, just let it flow and see where it ends up, just gotta be open if that makes sense
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  44. I'm a father and have two boys 5 and 2. I see parents all the time on their phones while I'm at the playground playing with my kids. Parents need to put down their phones too when it is time to do so, or kids will learn, and pickup off them.
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  45. look at cole, sharing personal details of his life to make us feel safe and alright. thankyou for the work you put in brother <3
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  46. ❗ 6 GUIDELINES FOR LIFE: 1) When you are alone, mind your thoughts. 2) When you are with your friends, mind your tongue. 3) When you are angry, mind your temper. 4) When you are with a group, mind your behaviour. 5) When you are in trouble, mind your emotions. 6) When God starts blessing you, mind your ego.
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  47. Well... that kind of self control helps sometimes and even often. But not always. I worked for 6 weeks straight on my job and on my channel and had a total meltdown one day before eastern where I did not want to do anything, my head just said "world, leave me alone". No amount of self awareness and control helped me there. I took 3 days off, turned off my phone and just went out into nature hiking and watching nature. Instead of always trying to work on self control, I try to rely more on habits and environmental design. And yes... sometimes it´s okay do watch netflix and do nothing productive, regardless of what hustle culture wants to tell us :-)
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  48. why is this too relatable?
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  49. This couldn't have come at a better time, this channel is truly a gem.
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  50. I believe this discussion will help out both women and men in understanding the real meaning of masculinity. It’s not about the appearances. There’s always a layer to it that needs to be further recognized. Thanks for speaking out on this. We all appreciate your hard work and effort. May God bless you and this channel.
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