Hearted Youtube comments on Cole Hastings (@ColeHastings) channel.

  1. This couldn't have come at a better time, this channel is truly a gem.
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  2. I just searched "nostalgia" on youtube and arrived at this. This is the worst kind of pain
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  3. Nostalgia is interesting because it can make you feel very happy and very sad at the same time
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  4. This channel tends to be more different than all the other self improvement channels out there. Keep up the good content Cole.
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  5. Shout out to everyone who suffers with OCD, probably the most under talked about mental health disorder. If can be horrid to deal with. I had a setback today, but determined to comeback stronger. Never give up ❤
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  6. My problem is “what do I want to do”?? I know I want to leave a mark on society but I have no clue how
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  7. I am currently 27, and my main self-improvement phase was from 22-24 or so. However, in the past year or two, I have shifted to focusing on wanting to build/grow my social life, in terms of number of people and the quality of connections. It's interesting to see you note that this is kind of the 2nd phase of self-improvement after you have gotten yourself to a decent place.
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  8. It cringes me to watch this. Physically. Because this was TOTALLY what I used to do. I like this video.
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  9. “Self-respect is the root of discipline. The sense of dignity grows with the ability to say no to oneself.” 🙏🏽
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  10. Bro just described my life with that intro
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  11. You changed my whole view on the Self Help Community. Keep up the good work!
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  12. I'm pretty sure you figured out some things a lot sooner than many others. I spent 20 years in the military, and we all accept that as a system based on merit (meritocracy, at least it used to be) and we had a saying, "respect is earned." But you've come to a core truth: before anyone else respects you, you have to respect yourself. This means that you respect yourself enough to improve yourself, to gain skills that are respectable, to influence others in a positive way, to do better for society. You will even hear clues, like when you were young and you did something for your dad, and he tells you, "son, you did a respectable job..." This is an affirmation and a clue. Have you ever watched someone do something amazing and think, wow, I would love to be able to do that, in essence, you have respect for them. You respect the hours and hours, maybe thousands of hours they have spent honing their craft. It could be cooking, handling weapons, playing an instrument. Any vocation. I was always in awe of people who handled horses well and I tried to emulate them. Respect shown is a positive for society, respectful people don't do wanton harm to others or animals or property, respectful people contribute, and respect is society's feedback for a job well-done. Some earn respect in unusual ways (innovator), some in more traditional ways (sports star), but it is a feedback loop. Most importantly, it is a give and take. Someone who has no respect for others will certainly gain none for themselves. What some think is respect that they garner is actually fear, and fear is the opposite of love. Do no harm, and much respect to you, sir!
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  13. For cold showers, I usually stand in the shower, take three deep breaths, and don't inhale again until I turn the water on. The rush of cold water combined with the much needed inhale completely wakes me up and leaves no problems for being too cold or trying to escape it.
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  14. Thank you Cole!!!!! Seriously thank you. I'm 23 and been struggling with this for a while and felt like giving up with relationship. On top of that, I never knew how to explain this to others so some people thought I was faking and just hated others. Now I feel empowered to give it another go. I'm showing this video to my parents and relatives so they get what I'm been trying to convey.
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  15. Thinking about this made me way too anxious, but i am trying to liberate myself, thank u so much <3
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  16. this is the best video i’ve ever watched
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  17. This is why I say to never get dating advice from the internet. It makes you believe girls are a hivemind.
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  18. Make self improvement as part of your life, not what defines your whole character
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  19. If you could erase all mistakes of your past. You would also erase all of the wisdom of your present Remember the lesson, not the disappointment.
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  20. Do not let your past ruin your life🙏
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  21. So basically don't tell people what they want to hear but what they need to hear and don't be scared to hurt their feelings by being more authentic and saying what you feel.
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  22. Emotional control is so important for men
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  23. You didn't relapse. Relapse is a term for someone trying to recover from addition, in this case porn addiction, and they give in to their addiction. What you did was a completely natural thing and sounds very healthy. As for me, I'm going to see how.long I can retain for. Currently on 3 weeks today, and am set for the rest of the year to hit my 90 days. I personally wouldn't mind going a whole year though.
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  24. An important video for the whole fanatic community in "NoFap" lifestyle. Certainly balance is everything. If you masturbate every now and then, you see, I say "every once in a while"! The benefits are the same as in the first weeks of retention. And in this case, here we are talking about natural masturbation. No dirty sites guys. "The imbalance is found at the extremes" and the same studies that are found for harm, are easily found in defense as well. The central point is the context, which generally talks about an imbalance about pornography consumption to stimulate itself and the daily frequency of semen release (Fap every day / addiction). Everything in excess is bad. Life is simple, we who complicate it. I think there is so much information and stimulation these days that it is difficult for people to have enough focus to pay attention to themselves. Once you can pay more attention to yourself, everything around us starts to change in step with us.
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  25. So true my man. Knowledge isn’t power. The application of that knowledge is power.
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  26. In my opinion, being a man ultimately means taking a greater responsibility over yourself. responsibility over your health, wealth, family and legacy. the other traits such as strength, wisdom and knowledge are just traits that help you take care of those responsibilities.
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  27. Cole's next video -Stop watching my videos, they are ruining your life.
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  28. Yo this is great man, just broke up with my girlfriend of 8 months and am trying to get back to the feeling of being okay with being alone.
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  29. Supplements are only a smell step. Diet will always be King 👑
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  30. bro finally a self improvement channel that encourages you to use your brain instead of just giving you their beliefs and telling you to stick with them, it always felt a bit odd because it feels like theyre trying to make you their ideal person rather than your own which kinda defeats the purpose of self improvement
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  31. This kid must've nailed all his writing assignments.
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  32. "The day you come to the gym is the day you become small forever" - Brofessor Dom.
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  33. When I was 17, I was matured enough to know that love isn’t something you can play around. Love is very important and you can’t think of like it’s a game or something. Now I’m 20, and I’m grateful I stumbled upon your video bro. Thanks for the knowledge Cole.
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  34. i usually dont care about "manosphere" topics like the rise of incels but the fact that you can acknowledge your mistakes and own up to them is honestly really impressive. left a like just for that
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  35. That’s exactly why I go out of my way to listen and help others with their problems.When you experience people that don’t care, change the world by being the one that does.
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  36. Bravery isn’t lacking fear. Bravery is acting despite your fear. Welcome to Austin! Help keep it weird!
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  37. I appreciate this video, quality content
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  38. Imagine being the girl he slept with and coming across this video😳
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  39. Damn Cole I quit my job yesterday because of the stress and dullness my life had taken on sat here alone depressed worried and watching this vide gave me a sense of relief because I know this is just a part of a full story being written and this is what it really means to experience life.
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  40. literally got a gambling ad opening this video
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  41. Why read 50 philosophy books when you can just watch a short video about a guy talk about what he learned from them 😅
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  42. I did this 10 years ago moving from England to Cyprus. I'm an introvert so it was tough for me but made it work in the end. A decade later and I'm still here
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  43. There are only 3 things that are certain in life, death, taxes and Cole posting the exact video I need at the right time.
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  44. you put everything I've been thinking about into words very nicely. I agree. Compassion and general kindness is DOWN massively in society. I also think a big point of this is peoples lack of meaning or disregard for looking for meaning outside of themselves.
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  45. My thoughts exactly bro. We are not these flesh vessels we inhabit, we are the awareness that controls them... that’s it. How they look, what they wear, doesn’t matter.
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  46. honestly vids like this make me feel so much better that I'm not the only one that deals with this
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  47. I thought NoFap was BS until I tried it, and it worked, and I wanted it to fail to prove I'm right...I don't know how it works, whether it is dopamine or placebo, I just know I'm never going back to standard PMO routine. I know I will relapse at times, but I will only come back with longer streaks. If you add healthy diet, sleep, intermittent fasting and exercise you can change your life so much, a work towards your goals with more dedication. Not a Nofap fanatic, just a person with powers of observation and self reflexion...
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  48. This man spoke nothing but facts his mindset is cool asf
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  49. I’m honestly on like 4 months . My original goal was to do it throughout the whole summer but now it has become a lifestyle. The benefits are amazing, it WILL change your life. Become your best self
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  50. Boxing taught me alot of discipline. If I didn't train hard then I would do bad in a fight. And it sucks getting your head bashed in and losing the fight. Lmaoo
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