Hearted Youtube comments on Cole Hastings (@ColeHastings) channel.

  1. I WAS WAITING FOR THIS
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  2. Everyone always tells us to remove toxic people from our lives, but no one ever teaches us how to not be toxic ourselves
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  3. dude red bull is horrible for you, you need to switch to monster asap
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  4. you make sick videos man, keep it up
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  5. I disagree with the part of "the why not being strong enough or secretly you don't want the thing after all". Sometimes, unconsciously, you might feel like you don't deserve to achieve what you want and then you'll make everything to sabotage yourself. Your mind can be your best friend or your worse enemy.
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  6. “Maybe once a year for 30 days” November:
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  7. I firmly believe anyone can ENTIRELY transform their life in 4 years. 4 years of complete adherence to new habits that become a lifestyle, and a new mindset that becomes a daily mentality. That's what the first 6 months are for. To get the daily habits and mindset in place that you'll use to carry you through life. In 4 years time, you will be an ENTIRELY different person. This sounds like a lot of time, and it is. But Rome wasn't built in a day....
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  8. Gen Z (and I wouldn't be shocked or surprised if this extends to Millenials or Gen X or even Gen Alpha) are obsessed with nostalgia because there is no inspiration for the future today. There is no Space Race, there is no Atomic Age, and there is no beauty in anything like there was in decades past. The 40s all the way up to the 90s (and the decades in-between) all have some theme or flavor to the entire civilization: culture, music, fashion, art, architecture, automobiles, ect. Today, everything is brutalist and degenerate. Everything is minimalist. Everything is a shade of white, black, or gray. Everything is designed to be mindlessly consumed, then abandoned for "the new thing" with no thought or care to what came before. That's why more and more people from Gen Z (and the generations before AND after) are rapidly embracing the nostalgic times of decades past: they give life to an otherwise lifeless (modern) world.
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  9. My man is built like a ARK Survival Evolved character
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  10. Marcus Aurelius is literally one of my favorite people to read about. Ever since i started following values of stoicism, i’ve gained more respect with not only myself, but also the way of life. one of his quotes that always stuck in my head was “It is not death that a man should fear, but he should fear never beginning to live.” 💫
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  11. Good to see you kids are learning this so early now. Took me into my mid 30s to realize this. Life is way better when you do everything for yourself and not for approval of others.
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  12. One day, maybe not today, you'll realize that you made it through an entire day without thinking of them. ♾
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  13. I can’t control myself from watching a Cole hastings video😩
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  14. I’ll be your friend
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  15. Step 1: See women as human beings.
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  16. Incredible storytelling brother, one thing I will add is doing everything with a sense of love and self compassion. A lot of people take stoicism too seriously and never smile. Smiling and taking life lightly is key. We’re all going to die one day :)
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  17. Before I was consuming a lot of red pill content and I was kinda toxic. I also had a incel friend who was shaping me into an incel too. Glad I got away from that. Now if I watch a redpill video, it is pretty rare and I take the advices with a grain of salt. Most of my life advices and knowledge come from bad experience. And I believe that true self improvement is to make mistakes and learn from them. After you risen up yourselves, rise up others.
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  18. Can't believe my bro is about to get married ❤❤ Lots of love to both of you .
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  19. I want friends that will help me grow. Friends I can go to the gym with, work on YouTube videos with, build businesses, go to church with, etc... Hopefully this year I can make some of those friends.
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  20. I got out of the dating game by deleting all the dating apps and kissing my fellow single homies instead
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  21. Couldn't agree more. You've worded this perfectly. I've been through all of these things within last 3 years or so and only in recent months many aspects of my life started improving drastically as I started questioning my own thoughts and coming to same conclusions as you've mentioned. Remember how not that long ago I lived with this negative perception of people around me and what happened to me multiple times was that I was just shocked by how simply and nicely complete strangers acted towards me while I was pretty much getting ready to fight them. One thing that I've realized is that the way I choose to see others is to a certain extend a reflection of the way I choose to see myself. The more I have questioned my feelings and "hunted down" the negative ones, the more effective I am when it comes to dealing with negative situations and thoughts in the future. And as I've become much more positive person, learning to love and accept myself, my surroundings and others, people just started entering my life on their own. The key really is to not care and enjoy yourself no matter what you're doing. What sometimes occurred to me was that I felt shitty and had no idea why at the moment. And what helps me in such situation is telling myself "You have nothing to regret, nothing to be sorry about, nothing to fear" meaning every single word of it. Cuz really the thing is that no matter what happened to you in the past and what you did. At that time, at that very moment of your life you simply did the best you thought, the best you knew. You cannot blame your past self for not knowing what you know now. And you cannot blame your present self for the past. What you can do is tell yourself that you live now and you wanna enjoy and live your life, not suffer through it. Got a little passionate here xD. if someone reads this whole thing all best to you.
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  22.  @AD-wg8ik  bro it's healthy to bust every now and then. Just don't abuse it to the point where it effects you negatively by hurting your drive and purpose in life.
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  23. nice vid, important message
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  24. I feel like having this ultimate “mission and purpose” is a new phenomenon. Men back then could just be a hard worker at their normal middle class job, find purpose at church maybe, and that would be enough. From there finding a woman and staring a family was just easy. Society used to deem those men valuable and worth something. Nowadays it seems like you have to go above and beyond, with the ambition to be in the top 1%, just to be deemed a person of worth by other women and even ourselves as men. It’s hard to just fabricate a sense of self worth when everything in society tells you you aren’t worth shit just because you can’t play along with this rat race, superficial, narcissistic culture.
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  25. We aren’t born with insecurities. People tell us what we are and we slowly begin to believe them.
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  26. I’m 26 and single, and honestly I feel I’m going to stay single for the rest of my life. But dude, the way you look at all this is amazing. I agree with 100% of it.
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  27. i don't see the problem with red pill videos. they literally helped me to get better in a lot of situations, especially with people and my girlfriend. my girlfriend likes me more because i am not as needy and not as indecisive anymore and other people respect me more because i tolerate less bullshit. if you don't overdo this stuff, the results can be great.
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  28. This is something that’s actually really important. There’s a concept in the book “The Way Of The Superior Man” where he talks about leaning just beyond your edge. Instead of pushing WAY BEYOND your own threshold or comfort zone, lean just beyond the edge. If you consistently lean beyond your edge just enough to stimulate growth, you’ll level up constantly. Daily. Then, over time, the growth will compound and consistently lead to feeling proud of your PROGRESS. Lean just beyond your edge, always.
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  29. The confidence you gain from learning to love your own company and be okay okay with being alone, is what will attract a lot friends to your life.
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  30. Bruh I'm 50 days in and when you were scrolling through that insta feed I was like 💀💀💀
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  31. This is low key something every American anime fan wants todo DONT lie
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  32. 1. Jujutsu Kaisen 2. One Piece 3. Demon Slayer
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  33. Monopolies ruin everything they touch. It doesn't matter what industry they operate in.
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  34. There is some actual science behind it. It doesn’t boost testosterone level except on the 7th day. However, it increases your amount of androgen receptors, which means you are more sensitive to testosterone. The big benefits come from not having a huge source of dopamine that you get every day on command, which drops your baseline dopamine levels. Also rewiring your brain so it isn’t just always thinking of porn.
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  35. “He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how.” (c) Friedrich Nietzsche
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  36. Fucking truth. “Life is what happens when you’re busy making other plans”
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  37. Dude sleepovers and Waking Up on saturday or generally on weekends used to be so fun.
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  38. Some people choose not to respect us because of their own insecurities. I know I get respect from the people that deserve to be in my life. Those who know my worth like I do.
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  39. I honestly think this is one of your best videos to date. I'm so happy that you are becoming even a better person with each and every single video
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  40. "We can never get a re-creation of community and heal our society without giving our citizens a sense of belonging." ~ Patch Adams
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  41. Leaving home really does change everything. Perspective, Maturity, even a love for life
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  42. Key point of the video from Cole: "IN ORDER TO LET GO AND MOVE ON FROM PAST EXPERIENCES AND PEOPLE, YOU MUST OUTGROW THE VERSION OF YOURSELF THAT WAS PRESENT WHEN THESE PAST EXPERIENCES OR PEOPLE WERE PRESENT IN YOUR LIFE!" much love Cole!💜 Keep walking the path of God :)
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  43. Pretty incredible how the internet allows us to learn literally anything we want in the shortest and most effective way possible. To say that you learned 15-20% of Japanese in 30 days is pretty incredible! (Top 3 anime's are Tokyo Ghoul, Attack on Titan and Demon Slayer)
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  44. "be yourself" doesn't work when you you're trying to figure out who you are. "Don't force shit" is better advice
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  45. “There are gems of movies sitting in the dark thanks to some rotten tomatoes score and there’s a gem of yourself sitting in the dark thanks to your unwillingness to break conformity” that’s a gem of a saying right there
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  46. Glad I never went down the rabbit hole of hookup culture. So many people when I was in middle and high school wanted to have large amounts of sex with other people and were overhyping it. Now there's issues that are coming from it for both sides and many videos like this are calling it out. Here's to change one day.
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  47. I’m currently engaged in at least 5 of these toxic habits. Definitely an eye-opener. Thanks Cole. Your channel is helping me grow.
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  48. Literally the 1% who is reading this, God bless you, stay safe, and have a wonderful day 😊(my dream is to become a famous YouTuber) thanks!
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  49. This is why I love Kentaro Miura's Berserk. Unlike many stories that I'd watched and read over the years where suffering, apathy, violence and rage were glorified, Berserk has shown how ugly it can get when being consumed by one's inner darkness. The best moments of the story were always those where the main characters showed signs of healing and compassion. I can't recommend Berserk enough.
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  50. I am 29 and currently pregnant with my first child. Recently, there has been an influx of videos on ipad babies and how doomed this next generation is. Thank you for making this and taking something everyone sees as so negative into something optimistic. I can't say I haven't bashed the idea of ipad kids, but this isn't all dooom and gloom as most people portray it as. I am excited to help with the upbringing of this generation and can not wait to see what beautiful innovations they will bring to our world.
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