Hearted Youtube comments on PsycHacks (@psychacks) channel.

  1. One of my sisters is married to a wealthy man. The other sister doesn't understand why she's so agreeable with him and doesn't push back all the time on child rearing and some chores. I told her he gives her the life she wants and she gives him peace, that is the deal.
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  2. Focus on vetting her instead of focusing on getting her.
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  3. I care about a womans body count for the same reasons I care about my financial planners "former" gambling addiction.
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  4. “Honesty does not get you laid” It should be on a t-shirt.
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  5. "Women, if you make men wait, you will end up with the men with time on their hands."
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  6. Just because she's mad doesn't mean I have to be mad. No one gets that much power over my emotions
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  7. If she's not around, don't think about her. Best piece of wisdom I have received in probably 5 years. I'm a mature man and still fall into this trap. It can really F up your day, or week if you start doing it.
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  8. It needs to be understood that women fall in love with a man when they are doing things for you, not the other way around.
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  9. The problem is women want to get with men better than themselves and expect those same men to treat them like they’re the prize. You can’t just negotiate things on your own terms when you’re the one with less bargaining power. The men who would be more than willing to compromise for them are the ones they don’t want.
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  10. “If your shoes are comfortable, you don’t feel them.”
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  11. I have a lot of female friends in their late 30 I would love to send this to but 95% of them would rather die alone than be humbled. Pride comes before the fall
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  12. Damn that last line hit; she’ll either do what you want or show her true colors
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  13. 1. Be a pleasure. 2. Don't make my life harder than it was without you. Don't bring additional problems in my life. That's all.
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  14. Anyone who has worked in sales has a huge advantage in life. You learn very fast that getting results/effectiveness always trumps self-respect. When you're in a "succeed or starve" situation, you quickly learn what really matters in life. Having a small ego is actually a huge advantage because it keeps you stoic, provides mental clarity, gives your better situational awareness, and increases your adaptability to change. You also learn to rarely take things personally because everyone is the hero of their own story.
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  15. In my experiences, it’s honestly the greatest time in history to be a top percent man. Women’s unwillingness to compromise with men they consider of lower value makes the game so more easier. I don’t really have a solution to give the fellas who aren’t in this demographic, but for those that are, enjoy this leverage as much as you want. Women feel like they don’t have the need to compromise, so we shouldn’t feel like we have to either. Fair is fair💯💯
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  16. Some women feel offended by Dr. Taraban, but I'm grateful to have the opportunity to hear some men's point of view. These are thoughts and reflections that not everyone will have the courage or even interest in telling us. This channel is a gem.
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  17. I am a woman, and I love your channel. The way you articulate common sense principles is brilliant.
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  18. When you want to help people, you tell them the truth. When you want to help yourself, you tell them what they want to hear. Thomas Sowell
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  19. The timing of this video is uncanny. Today is the last day at my apartment I shared with my girlfriend of almost 5 years. We lived together for 4. Last month she came to me and said she was leaving and found a new place. She moved out Saturday and I’ve been here alone cleaning and finishing what needs to be done before turning in the keys which I did about 30 mins ago. As I got in my car to leave what was my old life, I looked for something to listen to on my way to get coffee and this video came up at the perfect time. Thank you Orion for your words of wisdom. I wish I had discovered you sooner. Anyone going through loss right now, you aren’t alone. Stay strong 🖤 I will too.
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  20. "You were attractive enough to be hired, but too offensive to be kept." This perfectly summarizes the problem with many modern-day Western women.
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  21. This is why friends, colleagues, associates , mentors, and family are important. Villages are important. Life outside your partner is important.
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  22. Imagine watching a guy get the milk for free, then when it’s your turn you’re expected to pay 400% of market value for the same glass of milk that the other guy took a few sips of and decided not to stick around
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  23. Anyone can fake good behavior but it is difficult to fake bad behavior so mostly good behavior is faked and bad behavior is real. If you can observe; then it would be easier for you to find a right person.
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  24. The masculine frame will always be the best base for a relationship to function. What I’ve come to realize is that it doesn’t matter that women say they want to share equal frame, they are far more loyal to their emotions, than the actual relationship itself, which inherently puts the relationship on constant shaky grounds. It’s up to the man to set order and structure with the masculine around the feminine. That way, the feminine is less prone to being chaotic, with the trust that there’s a healthy masculine surrounding it.💯
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  25. As Tywin Lannister said to Joffery: "Any man who must say, 'I am the king' is no true king"
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  26. Her: "You just want to sleep with me." Him: "Would we exist as a species if I didn't?" We punish ourselves by needlessly complicating things.
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  27. It’s true. As a man I can get disrespected anywhere, I don’t need to buy dinner to get crapped on.
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  28. I test women like this all the time and it always works, the ones who are really attracted to you will find a way to show it.. fellas never waste your time and effort on a woman who isn’t interested in you, she will make you regret it
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  29. Don’t burn yourself out. Quality over quantity will always make stronger product
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  30. It seems that most good relationships come down to one single variable: if each party in the relationship believes the other is their best option or close to their best option then they are going to invest with high effort and that high effort will keep the relationship good. Things go sideways whenever each party thinks they can attract someone significantly better than their current partner.
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  31. One of the most profound mental shifts I have had was when I began asking myself “do I want to do this or am I doing this to avoid a person in my life being upset”
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  32. Thomas Sowell said: "The conservative vision is that, basically, humans are flawed from day one, and there are no solutions, there are only trade-offs; and whatever you do to deal with one of man's flaws creates another problem, but that you try to get the best trade-off you can get, and that's all you can hope for."
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  33. Let me simplify this: The mistake I tell my female friends that they make is: stoping their fun, free, sexual adventurous side when the decide to “settle down”. It’s a one way ticket to being unfulfilled. It’s when they find that man who they want to be with the rest of their lives that should and must get their best, freakiest, and wildest side. They will like it. He will like it. And life will be better being nasty with the one you trust.
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  34. Genius episode. Husbands are taller because women select taller men. Husbands earn more because women select richer men. Husbands live longer because women select healthier men. Women do not make husbands taller, do not maker husbands richer, and do not slow down the aging process in husbands.
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  35. "Support the habits initially, and one day those habits will support you" - - Solid advice.
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  36. "You've got to know when to hold 'em Know when to fold 'em Know when to walk away And know when to run" -Kenny Rogers
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  37. “Medical science is making such remarkable progress that soon none of us will be well.” - Aldous Huxley
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  38. As a woman this video was an eye opener, and serves as reminder to me that all conflicts begin as an unmet need/desire. And while understanding can lead to compassion and forgiveness, meeting those needs are still required, beneficial long lasting solutions still need to be discussed. Seeking Understanding will not be used to avoid personal change.
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  39. It's a form of arrogance. It's being so entitled that you think you're above selling yourself. Even the most successful companies have massive sales teams for this reason. No entity is above pitching itself.
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  40. this man needs a medal for services to the community
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  41. Oh Man, This resonates hard, I've considered Women Luxury goods for YEARS!
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  42. The Goat DR. GLOVER Edit: The best way to get out of a covert contract is to be in an overt contract by expressing, stating, or asking what your wants and needs are to her. The goal is not to get the girl, the goal is to see if the women is a good fit in your life.
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  43. I stay calm in dangerous situations (gun shots, accidents, fist fights). Staying calm in chaotic situations is how you "hiss" that you are a dangerous person & not to be messed with. I happened to be a war veteran. This is what makes me calm in these situations.
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  44. Your content, you have no idea how many lives it's changing. A few days ago, I went through a really bad breakup, and it was a tough phase for me. I watched all your content, every single bit of it. It's not that I've completely moved on, but I've reached a point of acceptance and started focusing on what truly matters in my life. And life is rewarding me for it too. I watch all your content, multiple times, and it has made a real difference. Thank you, man. Truly, thank you from the bottom of my heart.
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  45. Spot on. The first time I got laid off while married to my wife, I waited for over a week before I told her. She found that puzzling. I'd done that so that by the time I told her, I'd already fully processed the bad news on my own, and had become ready to fully handle it on my own without expecting any specific reaction from her side (Yes, that includes sticking with me). I was actually transparent with her when I addressed her puzzlement. I told her that it is my belief that men and women are wired differently, and that as a man, life teaches you the hard way that you can't afford to offload your burdens onto anyone else and expect that to go well (a women's privilege that most of them take for granted). My wife belongs to that rare tier that Orion added as a caveat. She's so mature and I never felt her faltering, but I know that I too do my homework, and I doubt it would have gone the same if I had been too complacent. Orion is on point about this. As man, there is that subtext that requires you to be "the rock" in the relationship, whether it is written with visible or invisible ink, you know it is there in the deal between you and your woman.
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  46. Legend says Dr. Taraban is still saying "loooooong" till this very day.
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  47. One of the best pieces of advice my grandfather gave me before he passed was this... "what you're not changing you're choosing"
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  48. I'm so glad I found your channel, as a fellow mental health practitioner and a woman who's deeply invested in the topic of the Redpill. This knowledge has helped me immensely in my own life, and I'm so grateful it helped me find a great partner at my age rather than struggling to find one later.
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  49. Psychacks changed my life, I'm really excited to hear you are writing another book!
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  50. IMHO. When guys are young, most of us are much more emotional than we are willing to admit, or even realize. When we get those first tastes of rejection, it’s a bitter pill to swallow. It can really bring out the worst in us. Jealousy, anger, violence, hopelessness, self pity. It’s terrible, and it seems to last forever. Think of it as one of the many fires you’ll have to walk through on your journey from boyhood, to adulthood. From a fresh faced newbie on the front line, to the weathered, stoic old soldier. Learn from your mistakes. Try not to repeat them.
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