Hearted Youtube comments on Charisma on Command (@Charismaoncommand) channel.

  1. My charisma on command is like a cat: I give it commands and it does what it wants.
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  2. It's too bad youtube does not promote channels like this, it's clear that you care about your audience and want to add value to them, oppose to the other money grubbers on YouTube. If you ever want an animation done for you you, let me know :) Keep up the great work Charlie
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  3. Best piece of advice my therapist gave me as a young anxious man. Stop concentrating on how your feeling/thinking and pay attention to what the person is actually saying and THEIR body language. Takes a bit of practice but it pulls you out of your head and allows you to start being more relaxed, authentic and socially confident. You'll start noticing other people's little signals and it'll help connect you to them much quicker.
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  4. this is why your channel is great, instead of like a lot of other people dogpile on this debacle. you made a teachable moment out of it
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  5. The guy just looks like he's having a lot of fun! Everyone loves to be around people who are having a good time.
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  6. Hands up if you're still single
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  7. Will I become more charismatic/confident if I buy 30 black v-neck tee shirts and throw away the rest of my wardrobe?
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  8. 6. Tiege Hanl- Oh wait wrong channel
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  9. I think it would be really cool if you said what you would have done differently in each situation.
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  10. 1) Make everyone feel important and that they matter 2) Be a team player 3) Create lieutenants: encouragement 4) Solicit and accept feedback 5) Empathy 6) Celebrate other people’s wins 7) Create belief 8) Don’t deny reality
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  11. The problem isn't nerdiness: the problem is being one-sided. If the only thing you can talk about is nerdy stuff, that's cool but not very unique. If you're a total nerd, but you also have several other hobbies and a life full of interests that people don't often associate with the stereotypical nerd, now you're a rare and interesting person to be around. Even if you don't look like Henry Cavill / are not a famous actor. Point 3 in the video is absolutely fundamental.
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  12. loved chatting to you my friend - deeply moved me, deeply valuable, and I told so many people about our convo, I really can't relate to you saying something ..."went wrong" honestly. Thank you and I hope we can talk again sometime!
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  13. Whoa, super cool to see this pop up in the feed today. 💚 Love hearing this perspective. Thanks for the shout-out!!
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  14. "Your deepest confidence is not based in controlling the perceptions of others, but embracing the truth of who you are" This is amazing!
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  15. I can now tell with 85% certainty that my wife is attracted to me. Thank you
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  16. Years ago I realized how often I thought positive things about people but NEVER spoke them. I later made the New Year’s resolution to “never withhold a compliment”. If I thought something positive about anyone be it a stranger or someone I knew I would approach them, text them, whatever and tell them the compliment. It made a HUGE difference in my own life and hope in the lives of others.
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  17. What’s interesting having watched dozens of this channels vids is you don’t have to remember ONE specific thing from a video, just the general idea of a situation you’re in and these techniques just sort of come to the forefront naturally. I am consistently put in these situations and these are f*cking gems of ideas. Take heed fellow folks who have regular stranger interactions.This is an extremely well done series. Congrats on the fantastic work!
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  18. In my opinion, it is better not to try to win. Having a point of view that we are all on the same side helped me a lot when it comes to social skills.
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  19. Don't take your relationships for granted! They take work from both parties to last.
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  20. Physical humor is also really underrated. Being more expressive with your body language, making a goofy face, changing your intonation -- all can make a huge impact on your delivery.
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  21. My relationship with this channel can never go bad... right?
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  22. “Use your full vocal range...” Theatre kids: GOT IT😈🔥
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  23. Fundamental to any of these tips is to first understand that you're being wronged or mocked. There's a whole population of people out in this big bad world that don't even realise something is up in the first place, to even begin to consider standing up for themselves.
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  24. Never heard of the term “energy ducking” but I immediately recognized it as what a boring person does
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  25. You can obviously be happy by being single. It's being ALONE that leads to depression. Theres other ways to fulfill that need besides a romantic relationship, it's just the most practical given our societal structure.
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  26. Simple maxim: You cannot shame me for things which I do not feel ashamed.
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  27. Would love to see the Peterson v Harris breakdown man!!
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  28. Someone's been binging markiplier
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  29. For four years I had been waiting for you to make a video about Tom Hiddleston. Well done, as expected of you guys. Keep it up!
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  30. My best technique is the Socratic method aka just asking questions and letting them explore their own ideas. You can pick holes in their argument if you want by asking leading questions, but don't do this too much or they'll feel cornered, you need to make it clear that you're genuinely trying to learn their perspective.
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  31. I loved this video, it's very well made! Thank you so much! I never thought I could learn something from such a chaotic scenario.
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  32. Tom vocalises the inner nervous thought and let's it go. Then people agree with the natural reaction. It's the formula everyone with anxiety is looking for.
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  33. Your breakdowns are amazing Charlie! :) #Believe
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  34. I think meditation is great for reducing anxiety and depression levels in people.
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  35. Me being in a healthy relationship is a great ADDITION to my life. If it falls apart I have many other things in my life that are special and important. The only thing I leaned on my relationship for ( at least initially) was the fact that I had no friends just before it started and I missed companionship. Then I got a new job and finally made some work friends which I'm very happy to have in my life. But you are right. I've always said to people you need to love yourself before you get into relationship otherwise you'll bring your own issues into the fray and it could potentially mess things up. You don't have to be perfect but as long as you're working towards a happy medium you should be fine :)
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  36. Thank you! This literally came JUST IN TIME
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  37. I like how people leave comments considering Timothee's attractive awkwardness only because he has one of the most beautiful faces in the world. Strangely I used to think his face looks weird and he is so skinny, like a child. But after I saw the movie Dune, and starting to go over his interviews. Now I think he's the most beautiful human being I'd ever seen. So I assume that his talent to bring out all the roles he plays, and his passion and commitment towards his acting career do change how we see his apperance a little bit.
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  38. Often I feel it comes down to the fact that relationships stagnate. If you take it for granted, rather than having gratitude, then it won't last
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  39. I have applied storytelling advices which you guys suggested on Kevin Hart video starting from last year and I have seen so many changes since then! I could see how people are excited about spending time with me and I felt more confident and charismatic about myself because of that. Thank you guys! Best channel right here
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  40. These tips are life changing! Thank you for sharing Charlie! For me, a thing that has helped me achieve my goals this year is just starting the task, not thinking too much about it but just starting. I got the best results by just starting things I thought I could never do and never imagined I would come this far.
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  41. This a really good video
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  42. We all could use more laughter in our lives. Thanks 😊
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  43. Sociopaths come on a spectrum, not everyone is creepy, most are more "normal" than you'd think from watching films. They just have problems with certain human emotions or empathy.
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  44. That was too short of a video plz create like 15 or 20 minute videos of reactions 😗
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  45. Kindly do a video on Gordon Ramsay way of handling stubborn people
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  46. You C on C guys are amazing! This was an extremely informative upload using two controversial characters to illustrate the topic perfectly. Very well balanced. I've watched loads of your vids... first time I've commented.
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  47. Firstly, this is gold. The appearance comeback is a tricky one tho - if the other person is not sure how you feel about them it can make them feel shunned or rejected. With two confident personalities it’s prime but if your not sure - would advise against using it.
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  48. After watching several videos of charisma on command I've found little bits and pieces of the advice creeping into my conversations so I'm hooked going to keep watching and rewatching.
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  49. I swear this channel will make me a wonderful person one day.
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  50. As a former introvert that this channel helped a lot, I can say that 1) being authentic and 2) a great listener for more extroverted peers to bounce ideas off of has effortlessly made me more likeable to people. Can't thank this channel enough for the gems it's given me to use in my work/personal life!🤜🤜
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