Hearted Youtube comments on Charisma on Command (@Charismaoncommand) channel.

  1. Do or do not there is no try
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  2. I think without the cringe part this could be a good format where people can learn from others mistakes
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  3. I love your advice about being honest! I am seeing a lot of my friends relationships fall apart because they were not honest with their partner in regards to what they needed and wanted from a relationship. They were also not honest with themselves with what they needed and they tried to compromise with things they should not have.
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  4. I was a really shy person but after learning from these videos last week I have performed mimicking speeches of my countries politicians 😂 At my college Infront of more than 500 people and got a huge cheer. I would've not even thought of showcasing my talent like this just a couple of years ago. THANK YOU Charlie and Charisma on command team ♥️
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  5. Yoooo his shirt is navy and not black this time
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  6. Just want to say, I love myself more because of your videos and little things I changed in my behavior. When I am at work, with friends, girlfriend, with just one person or group of people, I am a more approachable and make better connections. Also I feel like I am respected more. It is hard to sum it up in one comment here. I never did any of your paid courses, but just from your free videos here on this channel I changed my life to better.
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  7. I always blame myself when I fail instead of others because it cause me to hold myself accountable. You can’t learn from your mistakes if you don’t take responsibility for you actions
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  8. I haven't joined the program but i must say, this channel has been a huge part of my growth in the past two years. I'd always been someone who was looking to learn and grow. Having grown up with crippling (and I mean Crippling) social anxiety, I was always forcing myself outside of my comfort zone with karaoke, door-to-door sales, public speaking and more so that by the time I was about 20 I'd gotten myself to a point of just being shy instead of completely incapable to speaking to anyone new and having constant panic attacks. Then I discovered this channel a couple years ago, met a supportive girl and worked my way up at my job and now I walk into parties and bars like I'm already everyones best friend 😅 it feels great to have this much progress and I can't express enough how amazing the free content alone is from you guys!
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  9. Stop working on your social skills and this is what happens!
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  10. This man must have mined hundreds of hours to find Joe Rogan talking about Chinpanzees. I respect these artistic decisions, pulls the piece together.
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  11. I hope this works also for girls! Don't assume we have it easy guys 😭
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  12. “Apple was the biggest; not sure if it’s the biggest today...” I assume you shot this video before the milestone headlines were printed
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  13. This applies to every type of relationship: friendship, family or romantic.
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  14. Used the echo technique and the "laugh at yourself" bit in a job interview today! Awesome stuff, thanks for the help!
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  15. after seeing this I realize that the reason I remained calm the other week in a big presentation over zoom where I had massive technical issues is because I thought the stakes weren't that high. Now I just need to apply that to other areas!
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  16. Ever since i started my new job I've been following Craig Ferguson's typical habits when he welcomes a new guest and even how he talks to his crew. Obviously he does things with much more ridiculously but it can still apply. For example, i work in clothing retail and the ladies have to come in a particular (but chosen) uniform, i compliment them on their appearance almost exactly like Craig does. "you look sensational!" or "you look absolutely stunning today, i love ..." I also genuinely mean it and i put a lot of umph in my voice to truly express that, i even do it with the men, I'll tell them that they look great or compliment their grooming if they can grow a thick beard or have a cool haircut. Then when it comes to conversation i always try to keep it light hearted and relaxed so that they can feel the same way, even if the conversation may be a little more serious. For example, my feet were hurting the other day and i was closing the store, i mentioned this to one of my managers and she replied that i should bring some sneakers or slides or thong sandals, i cut her off with "oh trust me you don't wanna see me in a thong" she burst out laughing and that made our night closing that much more fun.
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  17. Instead of the snap method, i tell myself to feel the bottom of my feet. Not literally touch them but just focus on the bottom of my feet and how they feel. It works because it takes me as far away from my head that I can get.
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  18. chris evans doesn't laugh. he gets fkin heart attacks
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  19. I literally just got Charisma Univerity few seconds ago and I can’t wait to try it out
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  20. This is so good. I always appreciate your perspective especially on stuff like relationships. This channel has been super helpful! It inspired me to vlog daily this month! Would love to hear more about non Romantic relationships.
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  21. I believe tip #4 is the most valuable tip. Even in the worst case scenario people can be forgiving if they see genuine effort on your side.
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  22. this video makes me looks forward to getting insulted lol
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  23. I have been watching your videos for about 4 years now, they've helped me a LOT, but i have never felt so touched on a personal level as when you said that recreating the past and making amends is not healing you, embracing the truth will, I am 22 years old, and I still feel like I need to grow so much. I really do apreciate your content but rarely coment, hope you have a great day and continue with the channel.
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  24. What I liked the most about this video is the examples during the interview! It takes some self-awareness and confidence to get to this level! Also, can’t wait to start my courses by Charisma University!
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  25. My favorite way to blow off a bad joke is "they can't all be winners" its got this weird level of self-awareness that you gotta try even if it fails, but youre not bothered if it does
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  26. Socratic Method ftw 🙌
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  27. Dad wasn’t very helpful in my “finding my self” period of my life… but I find your channel extremely helpful. Thank you for being who you are
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  28. That was just painful to watch. That interviewer just wanted to bring up Roberts past which is NOBODYS BUSINESS he’s obviously turned his life around! Move on
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  29. Killer vid boys!
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  30. What helped me a lot when telling a story to people is telling the story not just in events that happened but also what was going through my mind. Like instead of saying something like ''I jumped over the fence, saw a guard dog and started running'' which would be what happened, you say ''So I jump over this fence, not thinking much of it, you know easy done this since primary school, I land and I hear something. In my mind I was thinking about all the possibilities of what it could've been, then I see a dog walking towards me, and in my mind this the biggest more scary looking dog I've ever seen, So I have a quick second of realization and then I start running like my life depends on it'' Same story through events, but one is so much better to listen to because it makes you feel like you're there because the listener knows the emotions that were going on throughout the story.
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  31. I have a few comments for those watching. If you are using the "I don't think I should tell you this" hook, be sure to commit to the story you are telling afterward. Tell the story with confidence. Remember that people often rely on cues from you on how to feel about you, so use that hook before a story you are genuinely comfortable sharing. Otherwise, you are cueing them to feel a bit ashamed for listening. If you actually don't want to share something, people will sense that, and you will deliver the story in a way that does not convey confidence, making others uncomfortable because you seem uncomfortable.
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  32. I need this right now. He left me this morning. 😫😩😡
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  33. Besides the off topic comments in the beginning of this video, this is an excellent video
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  34. Great video. I love the tip about answering questions honestly where most people would lie. So simple yet so effective. I think you guys should do a breakdown on Jay-Z, he is an extremely charismatic, witty, and intelligent person. I feel like you guys would kill it. Thanks for all that you do!
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  35. It's always really uplifting when you watch a Charisma on Command video, and you already do some of the things in the video.
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  36. Everything they say in this video is true, if you're able to relax yourself and just have fun before going into a conversation it is absolutely going to do wonders for your conversational skills
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  37. Went from not sure about how I feel about Tom Hardy to loving and being a huge fan REAL quick. Excellent video.
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  38. i might not be first but im not last when i see charisma on command i click fast
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  39. Had to comment because this is a solid video with genuinely great advice. How to achieve comfort and an air of confidence as a quiet person…. Needed this.
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  40. Just saying, a video about enthusiasm and passion would be pretty cool (based around Steve Irwim). Love the video, keep up the great work!!!
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  41. This was so good. I was shocked at how many of these I actually do but saw clearly thru the examples. It was great to see the counter examples on the proper way to handle it. And the explanations and insight really helped me to understand. Great job!
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  42. When you put all your points in Intelligence and none in Charisma...
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  43. Legend has it matthew learned to be so charismatic by watching charisma on command
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  44. Tom and Andrew should have been given some sort of briefing on what to say in these interviews, it's not fair for them to be stuck not knowing what to say.
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  45. I laughed so hard when he said "no Roy signed that one" 😂 😂 😂 😂
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  46. Enjoyed this one. Loved how he was eating chocolate mid-interview. I continue to grow my tools of confidence thanks to your channel (and others). Honestly, thanks to the growth I have gone through, I am now happy to accept that I am a soft-hearted guy. However, I overcome that, and I openly admit to people that I am sensitive. If they think less of me cause I have a big heart but can be strong, that's their issue, not mine (anymore). :-)
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  47. I'm so happy you made a video about him!! Ever since I started watching the show, I've said, "Man, I want to be like that guy!" It's nice to see a breakdown
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  48. The small talk one was probably the first time watching this channel that I saw something I'd been naturally doing. That's oddly confidence boosting
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  49. 1:53 is the perfect example why you NEVER talk to the cops and ALWAYS should ask for a lawyer, innocent or otherwise.
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  50. So many of these political commentators live in the binary, the black and white. While reality usually lives in the grey, not the black and white.
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