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  31. Great one Jim! I really appreciated your video. The way you talked about critics and why we should ignore them really hit the nail on the head. I’m leaving my job soon because the constant criticism has become unbearable. They’re always giving feedback, but the issue is, they don’t even know where to start. I’ve been juggling five different roles at once, and somehow, I’m still “not the right fit.” It’s frustrating, and honestly, I’m tired of the passive-aggressive comments. Like, this one colleague who, just before I’m about to leave, will sarcastically say, “Nice one, man! One more project to go!” with a fake laugh. I’ve had enough of that. The first time, I didn’t say anything, but later in a meeting, he said it again, and I finally asked, “What’s so funny? Want me to laugh along?” Suddenly, there was complete silence. The thing is, critics like this aren’t helpful. They rarely look at themselves and just throw out their opinions without any real understanding of the situation. I’ve always been confident—never insecure—but for a long time, I’d hold back, afraid of upsetting people. What did I get in return? Nothing. I was seen as weak, someone with no backbone. But over the last few weeks, I’ve started speaking up, every single time. I respect others’ opinions, but if I’m not 100% okay with something, I’ll voice it. Like this coworker who always waits until I’m about to leave at 5 to ask me questions, but then completely ignores me the rest of the day. So, I told him, “I’ll take a look tomorrow. I’m heading home now and food’s ready.” Firm, but respectful. I’ve got five days left, and I’m not looking back. Critics like this just don’t matter. I’ve learned that standing up for myself and ignoring these pointless criticisms is the only way forward. Thanks again for the video, Jim. It really helped me put things into perspective.
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