Hearted Youtube comments on Cole Hastings (@ColeHastings) channel.

  1. Our time in history is really different than old times, our needs are not falling apart, they're just shaking.
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  2. I've always resisted the move away from physical media. Maybe I'm just a primitive monkey-brained Neanderthal, but if I can't hold it in my hands it doesn't feel real to me. I've been buying physical books, TV shows on DVD, and music on CD and vinyl for years. My friends used to call me paranoid for not trusting digital media, but I'm happy to see that that attitude is reversing in recent years.
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  3. There is a qoute on bhagavat gheeta " your mind can be your best friend but it can also be your worst enemy".
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  4. I currently only have 50$, quit my passion, 22 years old, and live with my best friend. Time to grind.
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  5. Stop acting like a alpha JUST BE YOURSELF
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  6. this channel is a hidden gem on YT
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  7. Feel like your vids always come in at the right time, yesterday I was on a date, went to the bathroom, came back and she had left. So I thank you for this video Cole!
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  8. You can learn about yourself in your 20s without a relationship
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  9. Honestly this story has the potential to be a movie, or some type of Disney classic. Where a man discovers a device that allows him to undo his past and his mistakes, while it starts of great, he soon realises his mistakes are part of what make him who he is. Great stuff Cole :)
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  10. Congrats on finding a partner after many years of trial and error man!
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  11. Never regret the past. It made you who you are right now. And if you don’t like who you are right now, then what can you do right now to change it? I know one thing for sure: dwelling on what’s already happened won’t do anything to change your current circumstances :)
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  12. underrated as hell every time i watch I forget u only have 16k subs
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  13. Thanks for speaking out on this, Cole. Mental health issues are definitely no joke. Seems like people have a tendency of not taking them seriously.
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  14. Dude you’re on point but the true cause of this problem is the alienation that’s caused by our current economic and societal system
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  15. When my parents died while I was in high school and I was getting bullied for it, i started coping by working out and working on my personality. By the end of high school I had successfully coped, no one bothered me, i was mentally stable and jacked for my age. Good video cole, I like it, Picasso.
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  16. So proud of you for being a leading example for other young men in this modern world, we need more of that! 💚
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  17. as a doctor, you should know when someone gives negative comments, they themselves don’t have self love! You feelin bad doc?
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  18. Reality can be difficult to face, but overcoming that challenge will make you feel very fulfilled!
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  19. Hey cole, you have helped me throughout my early 20’s so much. I have had so many personal issues that I constantly hate about myself , but you’re my saving grace , you always show me the light and give me hope that I can change to the person I want to be. Thank you ❤
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  20. Cole you’re a legend for doing this. Tim Ferris would be proud
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  21. I’m glad i find you i feel like you’ve helped me the most this year
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  22. Quite an astounding degree of insight & wisdom, thank you.
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  23. Nofap is key 🔑
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  24. update: i’m over them. maybe not completely, but it’s safe to say that i am so happy with myself. i have amazing people helping and supporting me every step of the way. just remember to be kind and gentle with yourself. because really in the end, you’re all you got. and you can do anything you set your mind to, with love and effort. ♥️♥️♥️❤️❤️❤️
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  25. Death is currently my biggest fear and this video came at the right time to me and it totally changed my mindset about living. Im truly grateful for this video.
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  26. "A lot of you think that if you do just one more thing, you'll finally find the thing that ends all your problems. But I think that most of your problems will be fixed when you focus on minimizing and subtracting from your life, keeping it as simple as possible." Such great advice, Cole! ❤
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  27. “Be so completely yourself, that everyone else feels comfortable to be who they are too” ✨
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  28. I know I'm a woman, but in world where it's either this or that; I prefer both or none. I'm someone who believes in balance between good and bad, red pill and blue pill ideologies etc. I have such an open perspective that I often think about this 'fixed perspective' society is seeing. It feels great when I learn about a topic from a different view point 😌
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  29. I think the actual problem is the lack of self development. When we grow up with attachment issues or lack of self-worth, we easily get drawn to things that aren’t good for us. We also aren’t confident enough to take chances and reach out to new people. Social media has also encouraged comparison and decreased self esteem. There’s so many variables honestly, but I think it’s best to start with developing ourselves and dismantling the romanticization of love. We have to learn the realistic expectations of love
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  30. As crazy as it sounds to many people, when I stopped caring about how I sound, look, or 'come off' to other people, I actually started exceeding in ways I never have before. Even when it comes to work... when I started to remind myself that I didn't actually need THIS job, or THIS situation, or THIS relationship... the world started to expand immediately. We give so much gravity to the physical world as we've been taught to accept it that it just pulls us into this dark, self-deprecating hole. In reality, even if I lost my job, my relationship, my hair, my muscle mass... would it change ANYTHING about the world? No... the earth will look the same no matter what I do... and thus, why should I care?
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  31. I feel like my life is genuinely better because you do what you do Cole. Thank you man
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  32. I needed this video in uni. The message is very powerful, you’re enlightening young men Cole!!
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  33. I literally stopped watching so many redpill channels because all they talk about is women
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  34. yes initiating small talk is a LEARNED TRAIT ! it only gets easier the more you do it !!!
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  35. SUB COUNT RISING!!!! Keep grinding love to see it 🙏🏾 love the videos
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  36. Beta: Just be yourself Alpha: Just be the best version of yourself to get the best mate Delta: Be the best version of yourself and be clear about what you want as the filter you have for people is determined by what you show in your personality & interests
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  37. Dude you’re criminally underrated. I really wish millions more could hear the exceptional content you put out. Thank you so much for being a blessing to the thousands that you’ve helped. I hope you’re doing well!
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  38. I resonate heavily with this. Moved from my hometown and I've made an immense amount of connections, and started 2 businesses since then. I have more going on here in just a few years than I did for more than 20 years in my hometown. Insane.
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  39. Its useful and can be essential for young guys but like with most things in life, it can become bad if you over consume it
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  40. Remember me when ur famous 🤝
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  41. Thank you Cole for making these really important videos which tells us to really think about our actions and what we do and how a human mind reacts, feels and works. These lessons really made me rethink some things. I'm grateful to be a part of this.
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  42. "So long as you have desires, your desires will always find a way to outweight your contemptment" very powerful quote. Stoicism and Budhism tells us to "Get rid of our desires", and that's exactly what has worked out for me the most: detatchment. Detatchment from the expectation of achievement; Detatchment from fulfilling society's expectations; Detachment from acquiring useless, empty material possesions, and in that journey I have began to find what I set out to find in the first place: Fullfillment, Freedom and, above all, Peace.
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  43. We don’t skip ads for Cole Hastings, this man deserves the world
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  44. No amount of improvement advice is useful unless you put in work to make it count. Otherwise, you're just reading a fiction book without the illustrations.
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  45. The problem is people make themselves worse just to "be like the others".
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  46. I agree, but this is more with a western male society. In Africa and some Asian countries, men have to work a lot, and things are not on a silver platter. The western man is spoiled, lazy, arrogant, Netflix and Instagram binge watcher, obsessed with money and porn addicts. Sure there are a lot of exceptions. But these problems don't really connect with men in other societies. They just have different problems
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  47. Dude, Cole, you literally have no idea how good the timing of this video is because I’ve been going through almost the same exact thing over the past 2-3 weeks (worst rut of depression I’ve personally had and have had a similar experience to the symptoms/issues mentioned at beginning). Can not say how much I appreciate you posting this video
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  48. This is one of the most realest videos I have seen. I grew up poor, I hated that people looked down on my family. I started a business, made a success of it (at high school). Still not happy. Maybe I worked too hard? I took 18 months out to travel the world. Amazing... but got home feel into serious depression. Maybe I need a degree? I got accepted to do my MBA without an undergrad (on entrepreneurial merit). Felt great, but I felt unhappy after it was over.  Maybe a big house, a Jaguar E-type, etc etc... Now, I bought a 2 bed apartment, I have a corporate job, a daily routine - my life is boring as hell. And I have never been happier. I go gym each day at lunch (a short walk), I see friends every weekend, and live super simple. I eat healthy, no parties. People laugh how I went from wanting 'it all' to the way I live now... I would say, try a simple life.
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  49. This might be the most profound heartfelt video you've ever made. I'm in tears 😭
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  50. Just knowing you play Runescape is enough for me to trust you.
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