Hearted Youtube comments on Cole Hastings (@ColeHastings) channel.

  1. That was a great message man. Thank you
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  2. 9:43 “how you love is often a reflection of how you need to start loving yourself” damn that’s beautifully said
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  3. This video is an absolute slapper
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  4. “You are successful when you’ve found a reason to wake up every day with a smile.”
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  5. Man, every time I'm having an issue with something you always make a video specifically about what i'm having trouble with right when I need it most. You must be some kind of mind reader lmao
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  6. He went from there 18 gym school kid to grown ass man real quick
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  7. But at the same time don’t be weak and afraid of confrontation.
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  8. I'm glad someone's whistleblowing the fitness industry
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  9. for me its not just about retaining semen, its all about discipline. Since fighting the urge to masturbate can be quite difficult, once you have complete control of your sexual desires you can basically have complete control over anything you do in life. Nofap teaches you discipline, which can be applied in other areas of your life.
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  10. Prepare for the future, but LIVE in the moment 😜
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  11. Just watching you talking to strangers gave me anxiety lol
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  12. Bro this video described my life to the T up to 10 mins in and then.. it kept going. This is legit the coolest video I've ever watched on youtube. A like, comment, sub, and donate to you, my good sir. You're awesome. Thank you again for this amazing content!
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  13. This is actually so profound. Getting to know yourself properly is so powerful because it takes your subconscious (norms, beliefs, actions...) and makes them conscious. This is the only way to truly change. If you are unaware of what there is to change, you can't.
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  14. On the flip side, there are people like me who started as gymcels, but would later realize the gym saved my social life. 2020-2022 I’d barely talk to anyone being I had been out of highschool and Covid had me doing college online while I worked my retail job in a cooler away from most people. I’d clock out and head to the gym late at night and not say a word to anyone. Fast forward to today and I just went out with 6 of my friends to get wings after the gym and we had a blast. It sounds hard, but I swear you’d be surprised the friendships you can make from something as simple as spotting some random person or complementing them!!
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  15. I believe you should live your life without the intention of connecting with People. What I mean by that is go about your way do the things the you love or that interest you, have small talks with individuals and go about your life with contentment. Can’t live life wondering who will come, stay or have a place in it.
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  16. Your story telling ability is inspiring, it’s gotten even better. The hard work is paying off
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  17. I think it has a lot to do with people faking self awareness, and when they put themselves down, it baits others to build them up. Its actually a really sad reflection on social media and "like baiting". Thanks for the video Cole - your mindset is contagious.
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  18. Ain’t no way Cole is laughing in a video essay thumbnail 😭
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  19. Youre so good at branding your channel and making it as personal/relatable as possible. I love your work
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  20. here before 8 thumbnail/titel switches
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  21. I’ll forever be grateful that I found your channel. These last two years I’ve gone through hell and lost so much, but I survived. Self improvement has kept me alive after hitting rock bottom. Lost two new cars due to me hanging out with bad company. Drug addiction. “Friends” who changed up when I went from having money to having nothing. Thank you Cole 🙏🏼
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  22. Semen retention is awesome bro im way more confident, etc u know wassup... but anyone that denies it is just simply under this generations curse and has a problem playing with themselves to porn..... fact
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  23. your videos are getting more cinematic but still realistic
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  24. Also psychologically, you have to find the good you got from that experience. If you find a benefit, and qualify your pain, it’s much easier to accept and move on
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  25. Man I’ve been so depressed lately, thanks for this.
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  26. Some of life's best lessons are learned at the worst times.
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  27. As an architecture student, we were required to read Jane Jacobs’ book “The Death and Life of Great American Cities,” which details the way that cities are supposed to work to build communities. By living in such individualized units of residence in suburbs, we have almost completely lost the ability to form a local community even if we wanted to. This book is truly eye opening especially from our perspective, since most young people like me and you have never experienced how a strong neighborhood community functions. It is a great read and could be good inspiration for a video!
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  28. I completely agree with the last lesson. I'm 25 years old, and I honestly love my age, I love living my process, my own process and life consists in enjoying the process to get the goal. I have my goals and I appreciate your help.
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  29. If you think about it, your personality is just a made up of a bunch experiences. Your insecurities are just made up from people's opinions and how you view yourself. Change how you see yourself, block out people's opinions and embrace your insecurities!
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  30. Once you are comfortable with yourself you will be comfortable around others 💯
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  31. Cole — I can’t express how much your videos mean to me. They’re a great break from the classic red pilled self improvement YouTubers. Every single one of your videos displays a balance of hardship and the rewards that come from it. I leave your videos feeling like a truly learned something… unlike every other channel on YouTube. Please, don’t stop making thoughtful content like this.
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  32. 7:48 - Sex is better for both parties when there is an emotional connection there ❤
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  33. Like Cole said in the beginning, it depends on who YOU are guys. It's like einstein said, don't judge a fish by it's ability to climb a tree. We're all different. For some college will be fricking amazing, for others like myself it kinda sucked! I dropped out cause personally I felt trapped by the rules and the procedures of going to college and at the end of the day it was hurting my growth more than adding on to it. You're unique, your situation is unique, so what makes it right or wrong for YOU?
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  34. The degree reset is not helping people in the way you think. If a job has required a degree, that substantiates higher pay. Removing the degree requirement is removing the justification for employees with higher degrees to receive higher pay or promotions in their work. Profitability remains the same and it’s not like employers are choosing to train people to make up the gaps they are creating.
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  35. Technically, you cannot really know yourself bc you are incredibly complex and constantly changing. Once you "know yourself" you will have already moved on and evolved to some degree.
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  36. Good job man. I'm on day 75, almost to 90 myself.
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  37. Well I am introvert but i am aware that i also have social anxiety
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  38. Although I'm not much of a vegan myself, switching to a clean eating lifestyle and drastically reducing highly processed foods has allowed me to achieve the best results in my life thus far.
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  39. you plan to follow his instructions then you meet "HER" and all of it goes down the drain.
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  40. The truth is, if you're a young man and you're struggling to get it up, there's about a 99% chance it's a psychological problem. Here are some steps to overcome that. 1) Either start nofap or seriously reduce how much you choke the chicken/watch porn. This was a huge one for me, masturbating every single day to hyper stimulating videos without any of the anxiety makes the real thing boring and way more scary. 2) Make sure you're doing it with someone who you trust and who you can actually communicate your problem with. 3) For the first couple times, it's ok to use pills that help increase blood flow to the eggplant. Once you've done it a couple of times, you'll start to get out of your head, and you won't need them anymore.
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  41. experiencing ego death is by far the most important experience of my life, having my identity ripped from me just for me to find my identity again makes me realise who i truly am
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  42. i have zero motivation to watch this 11 min video about me not being motivated, therefore i am going back to my home page
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  43. Cole, I relate so much to what you say. I'm an HSP myself as well. Dealing with people that joke heavily, but ricochet the jokes and nicknames was (and still is) admirable to me. I take jokes way too seriously, I changed schools because of it, I cried constantly in 1-5th grade and people made fun of my crying. I still get teased and pick on by my male classmates. I thank you for sharing this, this is great advice that I'll follow right now while I'm still in high school and in life as well.
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  44. Shes so pretty and im jealous
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  45. When you can’t control what’s happening, challenge yourself to control how you respond to what’s happening. That’s where your power is. 👑
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  46. i feel like cole always talking to to my soul with each video ! My guy knows exactly what im going thru at the right time, GRATEFUL🙏🏿💙
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  47. nice thumbnail 😎 i think the studies say that after 60k salary you no longer get happier from making more money but also studies like that are BS so you should buy a lambo 🚗
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  48. It's only when your at your lowest point, can you really feel what it's like to feel high off life- damn I felt that .
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  49. Thank you to the algorithmic gods for recommending this jewel.
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  50. I have social anxiety BECAUSE from age 13 i started to have acne on my face . Many of my friends make jokes about it . I was so scared to go outside. I always used to hide myself in a corner at any social event. But now i am facing my fear and as it turns out it was not that hard . You just have to push yourself to stay in uncomfrot zone .After a little while it will get comfortable without you knowing it .. so embrace discomfort . And remember that nobody is thinking about you more than you. 🖤
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