Hearted Youtube comments on Cole Hastings (@ColeHastings) channel.

  1. Keep Up The Videos Cole You Definitely Helped Me Through Some Moments Of My Life Thank You!
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  2. I think this is one of your best videos. It's a good macro perspective on self-improvement, which is what many men need.
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  3. One thing I love about Cole's channel is that he always talks about his own experiences, he actually goes out into the world and experiences life and based off of thtat he can tell stories, this is something I want to be doing more as well as a small self improvement YouTuber, good job showing us the way Cole
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  4. I can't believe you're only 24.
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  5. "Occupied a position of respect" - The phrasing of this really resonated with me. It's a good mindset to take into any situation.
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  6. Needed this. Currently getting over a 10 year relationship/5 year marriage. Thanks Cole.
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  7. Change is inevitable. Everything changes with time . So we should learn to live in the present moment because it is the only thing that actually exists.
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  8. All I do is smoke, study, and workout. Guess weed is different for me.
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  9. Nice you still understand that human beings are fundamentally flawed in some way. Therefore, everybody should be understood in some way or the other. I like the fact that you are still critiquing topics you have already covered while exploring new ones
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  10. Covid cooked us all 😔😔😔
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  11. For me, being vulnerable and unapologetically yourself has helped my relationships drastically over the last year.
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  12. "Happiness is not trying to get what you want, happiness is loving what you already have."
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  13. “I do what is mine to do, the rest does not disturb me.” -Marcus Aurelius
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  14. Cole, i gotta say out of all the advice channels out there your content is the most consistent, relatable, effective, and digestible that I’ve seen. Keep up the great work
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  15. Everyone has to remember that your purpose can change over time, it's never set in stone. You can be doing something now and in a year realize you don't love it anymore, so you move on to something else. The most important thing is to keep exposing yourself to new things and see what makes you feel alive. Keep giving yourself something to look forward to in terms of your personal growth. Quarantine showed me how important it is to have a reason to wake up another day. Those without any purpose or meaning drown themselves with constant distraction.
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  16. Let’s use this video as a starting point for my journey 🔑
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  17. Cole, I just want to say how grateful I am for you and the videos you've made that have helped me to be a better version of myself. You've given me great ideas, challenged my default thinking and made me realize my the ways in which I was killing my potential everyday. I recently quit my cook job after saving for a while so that I can teach music lessons and whether this works out or not im so excited to put the effort in because like you said in the last point, the effort towards my goals and all that comes with it are the real reward. Look, long story short, thanks for the source of inspiration!
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  18. Thanks for having me in this video man! And journaling really is an excellent way to self-reflect and off-load all the jibber jabber in your head. This video is such a great demonstration of that. Keep up the great work, man!
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  19. Uncertainty is what makes life hell and heaven
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  20. This definitely speaks volumes to me, it's hard to not compare yourself to others despite coming from such different circumstances and backgrounds. Social media definitely never helped me get over my self comparisons so I got rid of as much as possible and it helped turn myself around. We're all gonna make it brahs!
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  21. Well said!
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  22. The more people I hang out with, the more I give up my goals. Cuz in reality, your friends although can help you with certain situations, can also really mess up with your confidence. People have limiting beliefs and that's horrible for your potential. Being alone doesn't mean lonely as long as you know your purpose. Talk to strangers even, it's fun, but keep your close ones as handful as possible. Another thing I find when I hang with people as a group type of thing, is comfort zone. It's easy, not challening and waste of time in a lot of cases. Like, have time for that, but don't make it your everyday.
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  23. “Meditation will not carry you to another world, but it will reveal the most profound and awesome dimensions of the world in which you already live. Calmly contemplating these dimensions and bringing them into the service of compassion and kindness is the right way to make rapid gains in meditation as well as in life.” -Zen Master Hsing Yun
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  24. This kind of made me realize something. A lot of people say that success leads to happiness but we adapt to that so quickly, so the real answer would be happiness leads to success. If you’re living life of fulfillment and doing something that is meaningful to you, personally, then you’ll find success. Like that one quote, “Don’t wait to get better to do things, do things to get better.” If that makes sense.
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  25. This video spoke to me more than any other of your past videos. Last Month i had dropped out of my computer science course which while i "liked" i did it for the money, and i chose a career that i was always afraid to persue because "art doesn't make money" or so i was told and now I'm studying studio art and looking to get a bachelor's in 3d animation
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  26. Yea lol you'll be sad when she already moved on with the next guy like the next week. Fellas, if you are reading this while going thru a breakup, she ain't worth the tears. Be humble, be happy that it happened, process it and then move on to better things!
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  27. i have made it my everyday goal to be as nice as i possibly can to everyone i talk to and it’s great
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  28. I think discipline has to do with how badly you want that goal
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  29. I experienced something like this. What helped me was realizing that my parents were just the vessels for my being here. They didn’t have a parenting manual when I was born, they had their own trauma. We are all basically little kids that grew up and no one knows what the f is going on 😂 we are all souls , a drop in the ocean of one consciousness , having a human experience. And we belong to God, not our parents. You are fearfully and wonderfully made. “ Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name. You are Mine!” Isaiah 43:1
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  30. cole you have helped me so much during this hard time of my life i appreciate everything you do i love your content keep doing what you're doing man
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  31. I’m so unfocused I don’t even think I can even finish this video😭
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  32. I really like the self improvement videos that have popped up recently. They’ve helped me feel better and make steps to get better.
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  33. Everything in moderation. I love coffee but I've never relied on it or felt addicted to it. I often forget to make it. I enjoy it on the weekends
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  34. ...she ain’t yours, it’s just your turn - she’s community property! relationshits!
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  35. This Doc must fun at cocktail parties
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  36. Try greed. Not just corporate greed. Greed unchecked
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  37. Turned 18 during Lockdown, my time to shine
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  38. “If it’s for you, it will not pass you.” Let yourself mourn and then let go! Solid video Cole. Thanks for sharing. I’ve shared a similar experience and all that pain sent me in a positive direction. It forced self reflection and a whole lot of growth.
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  39. For me, true masculinity revolves around taking care of yourself, understanding that u need to get your life in order first b4 you start really searching for the right person (man or woman) that u wanna be with. Yes, you can have fun. All work and no play makes one go crazy. But, u need to take care of your priorities. That’s of the utmost importance. Here’s another crucial thing. If u have a good moral compass, you’re truly masculine. For my fellow heterosexuals who are possibly here, women love that! đŸ‘đŸ»
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  40. Time does not heal feelings nor memories. It's only that you come to finally accept and embrace them.
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  41. You’re a legend mate. Always relatable and always thinking for yourself in a world where everyone blindly follows and believes what they see on the internet! Thank you Cole!
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  42. From one brother to another STAY THE FUCK AWAY FROM THE PILLS
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  43. "In the darkness you will find what you have been seeking for in the light". That one hit on another damn level bro. Brilliant message!
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  44. Sometimes two people can be too selfish and it just doesn’t work out. And sometimes there are just temperamental differences. We can always learn to be kinder and more patient, but you can’t expect to completely flip yourself and change because you got broken up with. If you do that then you are getting rid of yourself and the right person for you won’t be able to find you because you are no longer you!
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  45. Lots of comments are complaining about the topic of this video. Keep doing you Cole, these videos are seriously helpful and this one was very insightful. All of your masculinity videos have given me a different insight on the topic and you’re a very well spoken guy
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  46. Stoicism is definitely one of the best cures for overthinking imo
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  47. Thank you for this video. Thank you for reminding us about quitting pornography and stop wasting our energy and standards with it. I don’t like porn. I don’t want to watch it no more! There’s this culture that makes you feel like you’re not normal or not part of the herd if your goals are not doing drugs and having sex with others! I never did those things and I’m proud of myself for not doing them and I’m happy to see that there are people like you who don’t want to be part of this ‘low standard culture’. It’s sad that many people care too much about their desires and lust. Lust for sex, lust for food (as in dying to eat loads of junk food crap and not caring about the animals that are hurt for this food), and lust for money and so on.. There are many meaningful things to do like reading interesting books, helping animals and feeding stray animals, and sharing real emotions with real living beings like people and humans. I deleted Instagram and Facebook since a year ago now and I never had Snapchat or TikTok, it’s full of crap that’s being pushed down our throat! I’m 22 and am happy to not have any social media except Youtube & Whatsapp :) It doesn’t make me any less cool hahaha
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  48. I think it’s important to learn how to see the difference between the thoughts that are actually you, & the thoughts that are really just thought patterns that you’ve (unconsciously) allowed to play over & over in your head. If you let your mind run on autopilot it’s easy to take whatever thoughts come into your head as your own, when a lot of the time they’re not. Whenever you find yourself in a spiral of negative thoughts take the time to ask yourself if you actually believe what you’re saying to yourself, & if you do, then take the time to get to the root of that thought and understand where it’s coming from
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  49. I wish everyone who clicked on this video the most love, peace and abundance. You’re so much closer than you realize. I love you ♄.
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  50. I think one of the most refreshing things I've seen lately is 'Hopeposting' like shitposting, but with positive messages, love for humanity, and a general appreciation of being alive.
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