Hearted Youtube comments on Cole Hastings (@ColeHastings) channel.

  1. "Life is suffering, to exist in this world we must contend with humiliation, sadness, loss and broken dreams." - David Goggins
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  2. When I accepted I'm an average student and decided to work hard to get average GPAs instead of failing like I used to, my grades improved 😁
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  3. The difficulty is when someone insults something you’re already insecure about.
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  4. My ex of 5 years broke up with me 2 and a half years ago and my experience was exactly this. So accurate. Its gets better fellas. Promise.
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  5. On semen retention men really learn what masculanity means for them. Once they figure this out it feels far more natural to bond with women.
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  6. being a 24yo man and survivor of a suicide attempt, this video really hits home. thank you cole you bringing attention to mental health, especially at this day and age where men are more disposable than ever, no matter the situation.
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  7. Im 23, going on 24. Virgin. Always thought there was something wrong with me. I really needed this, thank you Cole.
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  8. “Disrespect invites disrespect.” — Meryl Streep
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  9. Cole, you’re a very intelligent human being and it seems like you’ve got a great understanding of the world. Just wanted to say I appreciate your content, it’s very helpful as young 21 year old fresh out of college trying to understand life. 💯
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  10. For my gym routine I just took off my shirt, spread the mat on the floor and did calisthenics. The exhaustive workout plan got nailed in 45 mins.
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  11. The growth is insane bro good shit for pushing thru those dark times like a real soldier 💪🏿
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  12. I was extremely insecure back in college, putting my self worth into girls. After graduating college and distancing myself from toxic friends (deleting all my social media accounts) I've become a lot more successful. Great shape, good finances, and good job. Stay single brothers, have women chase you, they eventually will, as long as you keep working on yourself.
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  13. The reason why I love Cole's videos, is that he gives such a great perspective which is independant from the "self improvement space". His videos have helped me (with the help of a therapist aswell) rebuild myself from a point of hopelessness and depression into an emotionally healthy man who is resilient, stronger mentally and physically and just much happier with life in general. I'm so glad I've found your channel, keep doing what you are doing :)
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  14. this doesn't make any sense to me. moving isn't easy. most of us live paycheck to paycheck so we stick to the same place. no one is making friends because people aren't going out enough. also i heard there is a huge drop in social skills as well, so the inability to build rapport is part of the problem.
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  15. See this is why I love this channel, it explains all the nuances, explores the topics in depth and don't push you into a cult
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  16. bruh I was watching and then scrolled and somehow started watching reels for half hour. I’m so fucking cooked
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  17. Ugh yeah that's how my social anxiety feels. One day I feel super confident and outgoing, then the next, I'm more withdrawn and I have a stress headache while interacting with others and feel that I'm too boring.
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  18. I think we can all agree the reason we love your content is that all your topics are so unique compared to other self improvement channels. Keep it up Cole 👊🏻
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  19. This man is growing like crazy and deserves every single bit of it.
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  20. 42 year old electrician- Ive been trying to encourage Zoomers to ditch the office jobs and try trade school. Male or female you should consider it. The demand for apprentices is getting insanely high.
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  21. I love how at the end you said "an anti self help video that turned into a self help video" hahaha great content as always Cole :)
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  22. Such a solid video, dude! Great topic and awesome storytelling 🙌
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  23. So to sum up, you need to: 1. Know your big WHY 2. Start off easily then pump things up gradually 3. Be consistent, try 85% all the time instead of 100% 4. Have a break here and there To get rid of the Yo-Yo effect.
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  24. Now this is what i call quality content. You came a long way man, keep it up.
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  25. "You just have to eat shit for a while." Not when we have student loans due and rent is $2000. Look, I've worked in office jobs for 5 years now, and this "previous gens suffered hazing and toxicity, now you have to suffer it" mindset needs to die. If you make the experience shitty enough, eventually people just check out. I'm changing careers to get out of here because of this shit. Our entire lives are 30+ years of eating shit. I don't want a youtuber telling me I deserve to suffer mistreatment and low wages at a prison-style office job. "Just keep suffering, and eventually maybe you can suffer slightly less" isn't cutting it anymore. All stick no carrot. The donkey wised up. That's why the UHC Ceo got his claim to keep breathing denied. I don't actually think men are entitled for wanting a decently supportive career after paying their own way through 4+ years of university (in the past, employers supported young workers and trained them at no cost to them. Now it's outsourced to the pockets and personal time of the workers.) The jobs really are shit. And they will never stop being shit. Because I'm watching my middle aged and elderly coworkers still eating shit after 30 years of labor.
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  26. Idk for me weed made me self reflect and change my life for the better , I only smoke when I’m done with my responsibilities (work , working out , going out with friends/ family) , which is why 99% of the time I’ll only smoke at night , and it feels like some sort of a treat like I earned it in a way.
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  27. Your storytelling is truly inspiring, I love how channels like yours & pursuit of wonder will write a fictional story to teach a lesson, throughout history this is how humans taught self improvement through myths, fairy tales, etc... Now a days the self improvement community believes you must read non fiction books but that's not true, I eventually want to write fiction books to teach lessons, I've already started in some of my YouTube videos such as "Doomer Hates Himself" I used my creativity to express the emotions I was feeling at that time of self hatred and to help others going through the same thing
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  28. Don't need to kill your ego. Just don't become attached to any part of it.
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  29. Money can’t buy happiness but freedom can. How do you get that freedom? By making a lot of money of course:)
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  30. Basically do self improvement in a way the suits your life and don’t let fear dictate what works for you. It’s okay to not meet the fake standards that others place around you. You must take what others say and apply it but don’t let peoples words alter your life in a way that doesn’t feel ideal for you. What works for you is already figured out..
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  31. Sensitive or highly in-tuned don’t hate your sensitivity use it for your benefits people may think your weak bit your the strongest out there
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  32. Paradox of choice. Between dating apps, social media, real life there’s so many (perceived) choices in partner it’s easy to think there’s always someone better out there
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  33. They say you can’t fill someone else’s cup if yours is nearly empty. So I focus on filling my cup first so that I can ultimately give more to others
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  34. I did 9 months on the medium mode of no fap, I never felt more 'charged' or focused than during this time.
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  35. oooooohhh this mindset makes so much sense! i have insane social anxiety and i'm also a teacher, and people always ask me how i do it. but teaching my kids is so different to making conversation with random people and as a teacher i do command some respect and definitely have control over the interactions. another mindset shift that has helped with my anxiety is telling myself that i don't need to 'get' anything out of the interaction (i learned this from russel brand lol). basically if i'm trying to make people like me because i want to get friends out of the interaction, that's probably going to make me more anxious and i may not even be myself. also i am crying at 4:38 lmaoooo
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  36. This is so true, no matter how many people you talk to, at the end of the day your're stuck with yourself.
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  37. Your Ghanaian fiancé is so beautiful omg!!!!!! Congrats!! 🎉
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  38. Homie found his Casca 😉
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  39. As a 45 year old woman who has been with my husband for 20 years now, I will say this. I have been in and out of love with him throughout our long relationship. We have seen each other grow and change through the years and we have both adapted to each other as we both navigate life. I truly love him so much, but that love has evolved. He is my best friend. I don't know if I could ever explain the pain, sorrow, fear, passion, joy, love, agape we have both experienced with each other. Until you invest in a partner for a long period of time you will never know how hard it is, or how rewarding it is. Through thick and thin you make it through together. We all deserve that experience with another person. Find someone and love them. It is so worth it. The experience alone is magic!
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  40. You didn't start skinny fat, you were slim and seemed athletic
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  41. It doesn't matter how many stories you have heard, you still need to experience your own journey yourself and to understand the world in your own perspectives.
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  42. Dating is no different than any other competition. A few winners, a few losers, and a whole bunch who don't even qualify to play.. It's just the cold bitter reality.
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  43. While I'm here, I just wanted to say that, You have feelings that everyone shares, and you are not alone. Don't let others or different videos make you feel that you are not living a good life. Take a second to ask yourself if you are happy, if you answered yes, then that's great news. If no, then try to surround yourself with good people and stay off your phone as much as possible. And most people feel unsafe doing these things and that's because they are addicted to comfort and will get withdrawal symptoms. If you feel unsafe or weird changing things, then please talk to a psychiatrist and they will help more than you know. Being alone and in your head might hurt you in the long run.
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  44. The journey to self-improvement is a marathon, not a sprint. take your time to learn about yourself and connect to yourself in a deeper level. 💫
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  45. " the fear of missing out makes you missed out on everything" that's true
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  46. cole is such a great youtuber like a breath of fresh air
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  47. Cole is the next big self improvement Youtuber for sure.
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  48. This is the exact realisation I came to a few weeks ago. I believe this is the only and best philosophy to live stress free and not worry about results and just do our best. Thanks for the video👍🏻
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  49. This is such an exciting journey you’re starting! I’ve been self studying Japanese on and off for years, and since I have more free time now, I’m putting in a lot more hours to study so I can become fluent too😌 がんばってくださいね〜
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  50. Hey man never really commented on you’re channel before, but you’ve helped me with a lot with your vids. This was a great video and nice new style for your channel I’d love to see more like this!
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