Comments by "Smoking Crab" (@smokingcrab2290) on "PsycHacks" channel.

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  49. Men, when you do everything in life to be loved by a woman, you're giving away all of your power. When you do your best to make a woman happy and do everything to be good to her, she will trample you. Women are working animals. And when you treat them like queens, they will treat you like a slave. They need serious, serious boundaries. And they are master manipulators. This is why bad and abusive men get and keep women, because they give women boundaries and enforce them. Women desire this kind of order. It instills a healthy fear in them, and it reminds them of their frailty. Every single time you are good to a woman that doesn't deserve it and does nothing for you in attempt to earn her love and adoration, you are feeding her ego and you are saying "im not going to give you any boundaries". Love can't exist without boundaries. If you don't give a woman boundaries, she will take everything you have while cheating on you thinking it's the best thing that ever happened to her. All that being said, don't chase women or even fear loneliness. Do everything possible to establish and maintain power, control, personal freedom, and the most advantageous and healthy boundaries for yourself possible. This is how a man lives in his power and this is how he maintains influence. And be honorable to use this power and influence for good. It's the best currency you'll ever have. And then when a woman comes along, establish your boundaries with her right from the start the moment she acts up. Don't ever let her control you. Don't ever let her boss you around or tell you no when it's something you know you want. Kick her to the curb right from the start. Don't get too attached ever. If you get too attached you will give her your power because you will think you can be vulnerable. And she will use that vulnerability against you.
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