Comments by "Smoking Crab" (@smokingcrab2290) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. Because Chad is a real man. Chad takes care of himself. Chad puts himself first. Chad respects himself. Chad establishes boundaries and doesn't waste his life pleasing women in attempt to earn his love. Chad knows vvomen are merely animals that need to be trained and disciplined. Chad knows he can leave at any given time and find another woman because he's not afraid of being alone. He knows when one door closes, another opens. This is why Chad succeeds.
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  2. @Pomoscorzo, they're all children dude. If you don't know this, you've never gotten to know one.
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  3. I can't say this because it's not genuine. I'm not grateful for them "pointing our my weaknesses" by mentally abusing me.
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  4. Stop spending money on women
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  5. Hope the new one doesn't do the bait n switch
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  6. @mediocreman2, bro im a solid 7 and an 8 on a good day and even I have to put in stupid amounts of work
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  7. @RR35592, it's not the business of running a household. I can make it fun. It's the woman who kills the fun with her negativity, neuroticism, stressing herself out over bullshit, and lack of passion. She'd rather stare at her phone then connect with the man who takes care of everything
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  8. @vonpayton2041, best comment I've ever read and you're so spot on. I'll add that modern vvomen get very very caught up in 2 things: 1. Their delusions of a grandiose life they think they're entitled to at the man's expense (materialism, status, trips, image, money, etc) and 2. Their selfie inflicted stress that they then project onto the man to make it happen. Vvomen very often do not want a man to be in love with. They want a man to give them the idea of life they're in love with. They don't want another human, they want a magic genie
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  9. This only works if the women puts effort in with you. If she's the one trampling the soil, wasting the water, and replacing the flowers with weeds, you will soo find yourself in a wasteland - not a garden.
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  10. Massive cope
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  11. You're better odd without her dude. Find someone else.
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  12. @yourfavoriteentertainment, wrong. Women go through phases. First it's the "lock a guy down" phase where they give you all the sex and love you could ever want. Then it's the "marriage" phase where they turn into bridezilla where they want the dream wedding. Next is the "i want a baby" phase where they turn into momzilla and everything you do is wrong. Next it's the "i want a big house, nice car, and be a mom boss" phase where all sex has plummeted and you're permanently in the doghouse because nothing you do will ever make her happy. It's not your job to make a woman happy. She will use you as a disposable accessory when all the man ever wanted was a nice woman who respected him. All while he slaves away for her.
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  13. I want to pour my love into a woman who appreciates it. I want to be deeply known and to know her in a deeper way and really appreciate her heart. That's what I want. I want that awesome soul bond that weathers all the storms of life's ups and downs because you really appreciate the person on a deeper level, and they feel the same about you.
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  14. You got it backwards. Men are told their entire lives to bend over backwards to placate to women's emotions as if it's the right thing to do. So men do this their whole lives feeding into a dynamic that's rugged against them, all while thinking they're doing the right thing. Then they men get into relationships and have to make important decisions. Then the women fight the man based on emotions, but the man sees logic and reason because facts are facts. And the man really does have the woman's best interest at heart. But the woman doesn't care. She wants what she impulsively seeks. So what happens now is the couple fights and goes to counseling where the man is then blamed for all relational hardship, and the woman is held accountable for nothing. The game that women are told to play is one of social dominance and privilege. The game men are told to play is one of capitulation and subjugation to the woman's emotions. It's not that men don't know how to interact with women. What it really is, is the fact that women don't know how to face reality and act like functional adults.
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  15. Wow you actually took responsibility and made yourself into a functional adult. Kudos
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  16. I don't give a fuck about offering things to people who don't give a fuck about me. My version of self improvement is enjoying my life and gigivng goodness to people who actually matter
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  17. This is partially true. I think we need good relationships with others to aslo have good relationships with ourselves. No man is an island.
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  18. Hey they don't understand when anyone else is hungry but them
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  19. @elainer8288, they are all psychopaths
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  20. What women don't understand is that relationships are about feelings. And sex is very much an amazing theater to create feelings that the two of you will value for a lifetime. The fact that this is neglected and ignored baffles me.
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  21. A woman's fantasy to to have Neverending, ever changing fantasies that the man fulfills. Women don't want men, they want magic genies.
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  22. People make relationships transactional for no reason. When you're dating, you're effortlessly meeting each other's needs and it's fun. I never stopped wanting to do that with my wife. But she went cold. Her interests changed. I feel tricked.
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  23. She's never going to have that agenda. She's going to want you to be her slave.
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  24. It sucks that you have to make the love of your life miss you
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  25. What did you do to make him reject you?
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  26. I am far more competent than my wife is in many areas. I built a business that replaced her income and then some. I father my son very well on my own. I applied for my very own patent. I'm good looking and in good shape even though I have virtually no time. I don't do drugs and I stay out of trouble. I don't play video games. I save and build our equity. I paid off her college debt and her car. I make calculated bets. All she can do better than me is cook. That's it. We're currently separated and she's living with her parents. She's absolutely clueless as to how to navigate herself without their help or mine. She had no idea what to do for work. She can't get a job anywhere. She paid for a real estate course that she refused to complete and wasted thousands of dollars. She's obese and won't stop eating and drinking soda. She has no friends and alienates herself. She's hopelessly dependent on her family and looks to them instead of looking to me because she's a country girl and im a city boy. I sacrificed everything to make her dreams come true and all she did was treat me like shit and cling to her parents. So I pulled away and set boundaries, and she decided to leave. I know I'm more competent than her and I've proven it countless times and she still chooses not to follow. And I think it's because this city boy proved her wrong. I think she's deeply insecure and so she clings to the only affirmation she has - her parents. Some women just won't be led. Ever.
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  27. What did you do to make him go cold? Ever think of that?
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  28. And then if you say "im not getting what I want" they will say "life isn't about getting what you want"
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  29. I hold my wife accountable just the same and she plays the victim and just walks away and storms off like a child. The only reason this relationship is intact is because of me.
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  30. @neoncoyote2008 being with someone who loves you more than you love them is a shitty deal for them. And eventually they will find out that they are underloved. And they will stop loving you.
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  31. You've never been married
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  32. @literalvampirepotbellygobl5629, they're bought for whatever women are willing to sell themselves for. Which happens to be for very little.
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  33. >rational >right >woman Pick one.
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  34. She will die alone
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  35. Women choose to make it as simple or as complicated as they want to make it for themselves
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  36. In order for a man to be loved, he has to constantly work, but he is logical about it and rules it all. This is his curse. For a woman, her curse is she will be loved unconditionally and get everything for free, but she will have to keep herself from destroying it all.
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  37. I understand how saying you're not getting what you want is a more useful phrase. But then everyone will say life is not about getting what you want and they will give themselves excuse after excuse to not do their part in the relationship
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  38. It's important to women. The problem is there's o many women who have so much access to it especially early in life. And when they engage in it, they do so without any meaning. So when these women intend to get married, they go into marriage thinking that sex is just as meaningless for men as it was for them. In short. Women are fucked up and have a lot of baggage, and they know they can get sex at any given time, so they use sex a a weapon and the build up walls around it because of all the shitty situations they exposed themselves to
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  39. And the trauma they gave you as well, unfortunately
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  40. This is why women don't respect men. They dont fear losing them. But men fear losing the women because the men are lonely. So what ends up happening is the men want women more than they need them, but the women end up neglecting the man because they needed him more than they wanted him. So in all relationships, even marriage, there needs to be some kind of fear of loss. This is not manipulation. It's just you telling the other person "you're not holding up your end, and you're driving me away".
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  41. That's great. I treated my wife like gold and she abandoned the marriage. I literally filed for divorce 4 days ago
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  42. They can't even love themselves because they don't respect themselves
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  43. So basically, women have zero understanding of the mechanics of emotional cause and effect because they don't function like adults. And now we as men have to come up with all kinds of mental gymnastics to navigate their ever-changing emotional landscapes that are loaded with psychological mines and traps. Got it 👍
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  44. @LisaCulton, she's not paying half the mortgage. She's taking half of the equity. And then she's using the man's money to pay for the bullshit she wants but doesn't need.
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  45. Then stop caring
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  46. Well said. I wept bitterly when my wife abandoned the marriage thinking that I loved her and missed her. But now after the divorce I think I'm realizing that I'm glad she's gone. And that I was not really mourning my relationship with her. Because when I was with her I was extremely lonely, even suicidal because of all of her mental and emotional abuse. I was miserable with her. I tried so hard to get us to connect and to create a life that was more than mutually enjoyable. So I'm realizing now that I don't miss her and I am glad she's gone. I'm just mourning the fact that I lose half my net worth, have to raise my son on my own, and that I wasted so much of my life. And that I wasted so much of my heart and soul on such a worthless person who really didn't ever care about me at all.
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  47. The problem is men can't deal with their loneliness. Generally speaking, men don't get love or attention or sex so they are in a constant state of emotional drought. Whereas women get it all the time so they couldn't care less. I recently came to the realization that if I never find love or get sex, I'm gonna be okay. It made me feel free and it lifted a burden. I'm not going to live in anxiety because I'm not getting love from others when I can accept peace within myself at any given time. I can bring myself more joy than any woman ever could. I'm not going to settle for sex being a game. I'm not going to settle for relationship dynamics being this power play. If I never get what I want then fine, but I'm not going to settle for less because if I settle it'll just make me bitter. If I just focus on my own joy, I become naturally radiant and self sustaining which gives others the desire to connect authentically with me. I only give what I get and I'm absolutely done with giving my energy to other people's emotions and performing according to their standards in order to earn their love. I no longer have to feel anxious about being lonely and I tell everyone plainly what I expect and desire. And if I don't get it from them, then fine. But I don't have to stay and I don't have to tolerate them. My energy is the most precious thing I possess and I'm going to very careful who I give it to from now on. And myself is always going to come first now. Love yourself, gents. Don't love women. Because, apparently, theyre never gonna love you back in any real way.
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  48. Men have gon on strike. And it's great
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  49. Basically: jump through every hoop possible to handle the woman with emotional oven mitts in the hope that she responds to you remotely resembling a functional adult, because her emotions are everyone else's responsibility.
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  50. Vvomen provoke men with disrespect and hostility, and then they use the man's provoked response as justification for her initial unwarranted disrespect and hostility
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