Comments by "Robert Morgan" (@RobertMorgan) on "Better Bachelor"
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I've felt that for a while now, I thought if I check all the boxes, it'll just happen.
But, no. I made it, career, house, millions in property, in shape, no exes, zero debt, college degree, and I've been alone since Bush was President lol.
Turns out all that stuff women demand, get it and they still don't seem to care.
Everyone says ignore and they'll chase you...when does that start, do I need to ignore women for 20 years or 30 minimum before that effect kicks in?
I can't face the next 40 years if they're like the last 40 I lived. Getting used and exploited would be positive attention at this point.
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@themarathoncontinues4211 if you don't approach how do you pull?
Waiting for the right woman! My father is an example, he was single, never wanted kids or marriage. My mother went after him, asked him out many times, finally he agreed and they were married 59 years with us 3 kids.
Of course, my mother was like that, she never met a stranger ever, she was everyone and anyones friend, didn't take people's shit, and took and did what she wanted. Also probably helped my dad was 6'+ and 101st Airborne shredded.
Do the work if you want the rewards, ladies.
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Mine is mostly tame, serious relationship, engagement, 3.5 years in and she doesn't come to my college graduation. I'm obviously worried, she said she'd make it, everything was fine, right? Find out later that day things apparently were very NOT fine, according to her, because she'd left me because she met a new guy 'at a party, and he treats her like a friend'.
That was 2006 and I never really got over it, been single since then.
Consolation prize, she married him, had 4 kids, and he divorced her last year. I can still only see it as him winning because he got three kids out of the deal, he's won at life. I have nothing.
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And they also don't realize that all that effort that goes to waste, if you went to the person she was dressing for, and told them she dressed this way for them, even if that's a lie or her gaming, it would flatter the vast majority of men.
"She wore THAT, for ME?! She must really be into me, that's hot, I should probably see where this goes...".
The biggest revelation I've ever had was saying to someone I liked "I wish we could have done X all this time we didn't...
And them replying "That's all I ever wanted too...BUT YOU NEVER ASKED".
That was a haunting wakeup call, you mean, the things I want in life, I can get them, I just need to ASK? How am I 40 and just learning such a simple lesson?
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And as someone coming up on 17 years of working for public government, I can almost guarantee the MEN in charge of running the Fire Dept and their water system will have the CYA memos they've sent in the past saying "We HAVE to do things THIS WAY, not the stupid way YOU want us to, or else people will DIE"
And they got the reply from those in charge, "Noted. Now do it like WE said anyway". Because I've been there. I've sent those emails. Hey, you ordered me to operate in this way, here are the risks I can foresee if we implement that, and I need you to acknowledge that I made you aware of those risks because I will not be responsible for them, and I've had to lay an email like that on the Mayor's desk too and say hey, what happened happened because YOU overrode my professional opinion, so that's on you.
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