Comments by "AfriqueNY" (@AfriqueNY) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. Actually. The party who has the least to lose has the leverage. That's why women push for men to get legally married. They understand this on a instinctual level. Legal financial obligation is real leverage.
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  2. Don't believe the op? Let your wife's fav pro athlete or actor get on her Dms. He could do anything he wants with her body. Hypergamy is a hell of a drug.
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  3. That's a good therapist.
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  4. That's called leverage. That's why you can't sign the contract
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  5. Fellas. Never take your foot off the gas
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  6. You got a good one. 🙏🏿
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  7. No. Cause the man getting it for free provides none of these things.
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  8. That's all women from a 1-10. That's why the most successful men with women give them less
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  9. Wife and kids are a choice. But if you want a legacy and your bloodline to live on you have to have a child and take what comes with it.
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  10. It's like a drug to them. They can't help it
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  11. Hypergamy is undefeated
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  12. Lonely for certain men. If you are in a position of status it's the opposite and you just want to be left alone.
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  13. I respect your honesty. I wish more woman would just tell it like it is. As a Gen x man I explain to young men NOT to marry unless you can provide. Biology hasn't changed.
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  14. ​ @toriandjojo2018  old men have value. I didn't make the rules. Robert Dinero did. Lol
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  15.  @hungrybeaverontheleaver  I'd luv to jump in this debate. As i understand it from observable reality, men of means are ok with losing out on providing SECURITY to lesser women. This is why In the old days the romantic pauper raised the king, Duke, Earl or Lord's bastard children. The man of means still wins. He enjoys the woman and then discards her to the romantic hence the term "white knight". This is why in modern times average men will run to store on Valentine's Day and top tier men do not even bother. The top tier men have multiple options for a wife. Lower tier must take the scraps and fight amongst themselves using romance for a wife. This is why in modern times women are turned off by "nice guys" cause they know it's the tool of the desperate
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  16. That's different in my opinion than romance. That's validation of status.
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  17. Get yourself a Vette and some bling and rock out. Women despise safe men
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  18. Now that's a brilliant man. You would have to quit to date him.
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  19.  @JustMe-999a  he signed the contract. It's legally binding.
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  20. ​ @dcikaruga  I agree. But that's how nature intended it in order for the species to reproduce.
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  21.  @stefanmatton8778  because they don't HAVE to have any of those things to attract a mate. In the animal kingdom the male does some funny dance or shows plumage or beats up rival males or whatever and the females sit back and pick the best suitor/Victor. Human females are no different. They will always have the freedom of choice. Men must be chosen.
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  22.  @hungrybeaverontheleaver  ok. Let me explain it like this. A man's mating strategy is quantity. Given the opportunity I think most of us in this thread would love to have a harem of gorgeous fit women. Society frowns on that so even rich men don't do it (Hugh Hef was the last). So what happens now is serial monogamy . The rich man can rack up a notch count of top tier women with zero effort. When the woman becomes a liability (clingy, emotional, demanding commitment) he will gladly "lose" to a romantic nobody who will now be stuck with a depreciating asset. Do you think Tom Brady is going to remarry a 50 year old woman? His exes BF is the romantic who will be saddled with his middle aged ex wife and children.
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  23.  @ChickFenwick  he looks average. Like the VAST majority of human adults
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  24. Def a net positive for the woman.
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  25.  @monkeyboyalcoholic  it's a gamble. And it's one that even when you win you lose . Remeber that it's all feelings based. It's how a man makes her feel long term. Are you prepared to play the long game of making her feel like you are the best and most desirable man ever? It's one of the most difficult things you will ever do in life.
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  26. Please keep the content coming. You are helping both genders
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  27. That word partner sounds awful to any self respecting man. A man who is in position to be a husband will not want to be a "partner".
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  28.  @alexavasquez1992  I'm really happy that you eloquently brought up all of these valid points. You said something that i picked up on. "taken advantage of". This is what I tell young men and women today. Dating is NOT an even exchange. Marriage is. Romance is another word for game. The word game comes from African American street slang. Romance is game. Telling a woman what she wants to hear has always been the tool of the user. If a man has no intentions of marrying a woman he is using her for her femininity. All women will feel "taken advantage of" because there is no security to back it up. Back in the days making the wrong choice based on "romance" was life and death. Now a days the only penalty is either being used or single motherhood.
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  29. The reason why it's insulting is cause WE KNOW she isn't chaste.
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  30. You left out that dating and sex only work in the man's interest. Also date your own SMV ladies. Don't end up on a roster. Take an honest assessment of who you are and where you stand.
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  31. ​ @beatricewillows that's demonstrably false. The men that are most successful with women are not "kind".
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  32. That's literally EVERY woman in a relationship. That's the goal of every straight man is access to her body and her goal is security in exchange. Nobody watches PBS nature shows anymore? Pretty much every animal has some form of this dance.
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  33. A year. Long enough to get the cheeks
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  34. Once you understand primate biology dating and mating all starts to make sense
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  35. ​@Yung Bali this is true. However it's impossible for there to be enough men to satisfy the average woman's hypergamy. Therefore women will be miserable with average men they resent or share the top tier guy. The arguement of "men need to do better" is crazy. If everyone was the tinder swindler dude then all of us men would be average.
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  36. I'm assuming you are young. Gen Z or a millennial. I'm Gen X. If I may I can explain. Just as women get bored with emotional available men, men get bored with sexually available women. Men also know that commitment to a woman gives her leverage. In this modern day and age dating ONLY benefits men. We men get what we want (physical) and women get nothing in return. The old strategy of making him wait no longer applies due to sexual availability of most women. Yes. We will wait but then just add you to the roster of women when you are ready. The answer is obvious to solve this problem for women . Date within your league . Take an honest assessment of your SMV and date parallel . If you date up in 2024 you will be on a roster .
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  37. ​ @MVProfits spot on. He equivalent of this for a married man would be if he suddenly became a rich celebrity. The marriage would fail. Women now are all "rich celebs" married or otherwise. Any woman on social media is going to have endless supply of "emotional energy".
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  38.  @paulharrisonadventuregearm5457  good luck with that young man
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  39. ​ @rougebaba3887 don't feel bad. That's normal woman behavior. She is doing that because you treat her nicely. That's just female nature. If you started pampering yourself and buying your own necklaces and looking like a don Juan her whole attitude would change.
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  40.  @SabrinaDacosta  let me ask you a question? I know you are young and idealistic. I get it. As a woman how would you feel if you gave your all and a man used you? Would you like to be treated with the same respect he treats another woman? It's not insecurity. It's pragmatism.
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  41. Why would you want to keep a depreciating assett
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  42. ​ @dearbrave4183 are you young?
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  43. It's called being catfished. Or Pookie. Or gigolo. Been around forever. Usually happens when women age out
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  44.  @petelipson3769  hello. Literally everyone else pandering to women and telling us men that we are losers for not being Tom Brady. We don't have to make up anything. Y'all women tell us to our faces.
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  45. Of course. But you don't give it to her at all. Women love that
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  46. And this is why Pookie always wins.
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  47. All relationships are transactional and manipulative. When people become adults they realize this
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  48. The whole King/Queen dynamic is silly in my book. Society tells you what your status is. Period.
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  49. ​ @blackjames4116 and those women want attractive men.
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  50. And men don't see that women now want to make the offer. Let them
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