Comments by "AfriqueNY" (@AfriqueNY) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. Net positive is based on their feelings at that time. Study mammal biology . It will all make sense
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  2. There are idealistic women out there. Women who see successful marriage as a huge flex. Make no mistake. A happily married couple who have beaten the stats is a flex.
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  3.  @grantwithers  do you know how expensive a divorce is?
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  4.  @cangrejitamiry  as a "nice guy" myself I can tell you we "nice guys" also have game. We have to. Him telling you what YOU want to hear is top tier level game. It prevents you from claiming to the authorities that you were "used". This man is terrified of that.
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  5. ​ @ZoldicsDiaries  I'm all for equality for the sexes. This isn't about that. This is about this new age where both men and women don't seem to understand their SMV. Men still think their job and good deeds will attract a mate and women think all the online free attention means their SMV is high. It's not going back to the 1950s .
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  6. The men I know that have the most good looking women are way behind in life. They have devoted their lives to the game. As a result they are dependent on what those women can provide financially
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  7. Imagine if I as a man said "hey I should be loved for myself but I have no desire to contribute financially to the relationship".
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  8. ​ @lisellesloan3191  that's horrible advice to somebody who is just trying to get access to a woman's body. See right there I can tell you don't understand a man's mating strategy. Just be honest and say "Everyone has an agenda". That's fair. If I was a woman I'd want the best man my looks can get. Period.
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  9. Nothing wrong with protecting your image. You are tactical.
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  10. Man. That was an impressive humble brag. I took notes. Thanks.
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  11. I get your point. I think the men most women find attractive have harems and rotations and therefore don't need women either. Hence standoff. This is for those who do want a healthy relationship.
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  12.  @cg-1973  I don't know of one single woman in the entire world who isn't moody and doesn't like to test her man every now and then. Women absolutely LOVE when a man dotes on himself. Don't know why. But I didn't write the rules. You can take the nicest woman and start treating her like a princess and doting on her while sacrificing. For example. She gets the new car while you drive the beater. No no no fellas. Make sure YOUR car is the best one. You come first. Then her.
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  13.  @beatricewillows  "won you over". Sounds like traditional courtship. May I ask what you did prior to giving him a chance?
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  14.  @monkeyboyalcoholic  thank you Sir. I speak from decades of experience. You have a higher chance of surviving Vietnam than marriage in this era
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  15.  @beatricewillows  I am a nostalgic guy. And old fashioned courtship makes a tear come to my eye. Now during that time you made him wait I'm sure you were NOT having fun with Pookie in the bedroom. If you made him wait while You also waited to confirm his intentions then kudos to you and him. I wish you both the best and a long long marriage.
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  16. Your friend figured out how not to be average. Lol.
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  17. ​ @clearlisted there is no such thing because humans have free will. This is 2024. Women are in limbo as to how to handle this new power they acheived.
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  18. No worries. Juan y Maria happy to replace ya
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  19.  @cangrejitamiry  I know I'm just some random guy from NYC on the Internet but "I'm proud of you". The fact that he sits at home is irrelevant . All relationships are transactional. As a woman make sure the man fills his side of the bargain as you fill yours. Best of luck moving forward
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  20.  @funicon3689  I wouldn't call this bragging. Some people really are happy with their mates. Those people tend to be pragmatists.
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  21.  @HelloWorld-cq1sq  mating has always been competitive. Now the average man has to compete with the world. Tough place to be in.
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  22.  @Lowdowndog  yeah. Did they bring out the champagne? I love that! Lol.
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  23. You don't take them on dates. You allow them to take YOU on dates
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  24. Persue that career young man. Never listen to a woman about your own path in life. She will be turned on if you forget your own path.
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  25. Pookie approves this message
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  26. I disagree. Most men AND women are average attractiveness. Most men will take a 5 and up. Most women want 7 and up. In the old days women took what they could get locally. Now it's global on their phone.
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  27.  @Doberman_6773  I agree . Hence marriage contract. When women say "it's not transactional it's about love" I say ok well if your husband decides not to work anymore and you and the kids become homeless please let me know how it's not transactional???? Everyone has to keep their end of the bargain in order to have a healthy committed LTR.
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  28.  @Kim-vw4nx  what did you say?
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  29.  @MiMysmelfandI  if mating is a win lose gender battle everyone loses. Nobody gets what they want.
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  30. VERY WELL SAID. Salute to you m
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  31.  @proximityclockworkx1572  facts
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  32. That is cause in order to have all this prosperity there has to be sacrifice and education. The more you are educated on human nature and mating the more it's looked at as a zero sum game to win at the others expense.
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  33. Pete Hegseth would like to have a word with you after his drink
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  34. Here is the issue. Everyone now has seen red pill content. Men and women. They know this and will counter. It's harder and harder to find a mate that's clueless as to mating dynamics. Everyone has a podcast
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  35. Comment of the day. Slow clap
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  36.  @blackjames4116  she may not aim out of her league but she will always LUST out of her league. We men also do that. But for us its all visual. For them it's emotional. If you are not her first choice she will hire to resent you.
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  37.  @MisterCovek  those days are over. They know and don't care and men look foolish begging them to go back to the 1950s
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  38. It's already there. Actually women are terrified of true egalitarian world. That's where we headed..
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  39.  @RealSerie26  you sir are MAN!
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  40.  @jamesconner5004  I am one of those men.
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  41.  @jessijfly  hubby must either be loaded or a cop
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  42.  @jessijfly  I'm in NYC. Only men I see that are that ruthless to their wives....
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  43.  @cangrejitamiry  that's exactly what I meant. Except with Authorities involved and civil lawsuits and the like. Better to be nice to her and tell her what she wants to hear rather than the truth and be slapped with a lawsuit or worse.
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  44.  @cangrejitamiry  here is the issue. Men who are "managed" make great husbands. Men who are dominant will attract competition. Is that what you want? Can't have it all.
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  45.  @deltaxcd  that's a great way to end up divorced. There has to be a Ying and yang. Nobody wants a robot as a mate.
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  46. No different than the birds n the bees.
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  47. I really want to know why you require marriage? Do you want to start a family?
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  48. A Brad is a black Chad stop disrespecting us Bradlees out here. Lol.
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  49. For the umpeenth time. Chad is king. Then Black Chad aka Brad. Then Carmelo aka latin Chad. And then Pookie / Surfer / struggling artist
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  50.  @skeletorlikespotatoes7846  not true. Duty honor and obligation were a thing. That no longer exists due to rampant hypergamy and social media "choice". I can tell you are young. Good luck young man.
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