Comments by "Brian Meen" (@brianmeen2158) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. Yes and most men won’t dare say no to them ever. We gotta blame the fellas for a good chunk of this problem . Very few men can admit to it though. Until more men develop standards and start saying no then this problem won’t change
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  2. Tbh it’s very hard to respect women after you learn their true nature. That said, I bet it’s hard for women to respect men after they learn our true nature .. I mean, let’s be honest - human nature is not pretty for the most part. We are animals that are hard wired to get our biological needs met . That’s it Btw yes I immediately thought of Janet Jackson’s song when watching this video as well lol
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  3. Nicely put! I’m 38 years old and have been single for years. I hate to say it but after I started to really understand women, my desire for them really disappeared .. even casual dating and hookups aren’t worth it
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  4.  @root1657 any experienced man knows better than to ever give a woman everything she wants - always keep her hanging in some regard. Keep her hungry and she will crave you. Every man should learn how to reject the sexual advances of a woman - once they get to this level they own the game .. that said, very few men will ever achieve that though
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  5. The more I Learned what women were attracted to and other aspects of their nature I lost a lot of interest in dating or serious relationships .. at this point I still talk to women and flirt casually but the desire for more usually isn’t there. Luckily I’m very introverted so I like solitude. Most guys can’t handle solitude and they crave companionship
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  6. I don’t think most people truly realize who they are
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  7. I live in the Midwest and women in Their 30s seem desperate to me. They will cling on to any man that is decent looking with a solid job. I find many women are craving any men that are masculine and know how to behave around them. The problem again lies in those men they want(and expect to date) tend to not want them any longer as they go younger I hear so much about women with sky high expectations and I’m sure some do have them but if you are a guy in solid physical shape, decent social skills and somewhat masculine then you will do well with women. In fact, it’s easier for masculine men now than it’s ever been because so many guys are beta types
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  8. Society has taught you to do most of those things - we live in a very blue pilled society and this is why modern dating is so messy because we are sending both sexes the wrong info
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  9.  @bw-dn1wp you are one of the “very few” women that will watch though lol
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  10. I mostly agree. If a woman that you are attracted to doesn’t have strong attraction towards you from the beginning then it’s wise to find a woman that does. One thing I’ve always agreed with red pill is that attraction cannot be negotiated - it’s either there or it isn’t.
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  11. Life is a game and every interaction with another human is a smaller mini-game.. I wish it wasn’t but it is
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  12. @@jessepinkman4305yes and the kicker is, the less you care about women - the more they will find you interesting or even More attractive .. I’ve always been aloof and mostly indifferent towards women and it truly draws many women to like a moth to a flame. I often tell guys that they shouldn’t try as hard with women and sadly many of them don’t understand why..
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  13. I’ve honestly given up on asking women past a certain age what they want in a man. They either have no idea or they want a man that has everything
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  14.  @jenniferlee7167 but are you truly willing to support a man like that forever? I just think on paper this looks good for some women but in reality it really isn’t .. we shall see though
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  15. Pretty much. I’ve come to recognize that even casual dating is more of a headache than it’s worth especially with more “westernized” women . There are times I don’t see any upsides to it
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  16. Yep. Any guy that talks about sexual or racial relations honestly can expect to be called sexist, misogynist, racist .. it’s part of the game
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  17.  @theauradaddy  true in my experience as well. If a woman is attracted to you she won’t be able to act completely indifferent - I think it would extremely rare for a woman to be able to try to act indifferent . If she is into you she will always be trying to get your attention and get close to you somehow.
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  18. Well Tupac, like many men, started off by being “too nice” to girls in his early teens. He didn’t get any good results and several girls actually told him that he was too nice to date! So he adjusted and turned into a bad boy and boom - great results. I remember coming to this realization in my teens and it stung a bit
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  19. I’m a single guy and I know plenty of married men and I’m truly baffled as to how they stay remotely sane with the endless headaches they have to deal with
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  20.  @beatricehorseman1947 desperation and clinginess are huge turnoffs. This goes for friends or possible romantic partners. .
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  21. Yep, I remember discovering at a young age that being really nice and respectful actually reduced the attraction that women had for me. I had the looks that got them attracted but I was nice and complimentary .. once I changed it was like night and day difference in results. Now I’m left completely puzzled as to how to make a relationship work or if they are even worth it …?
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  22. Wait she asked you for money at the beginning? You’d only met her the night before and she’s asking for money? How much money ? That sort of behavior would have me cutting all contact right then
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  23. Many of us men learn the hard way that being vulnerable with women rarely works out well.
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  24. Anonymous - well go meet women and be as nice as you feel you should be and see what happens .. many guys started out as the “nice guy” but the results were often not what we expected so we adapted .. one of the most brutal reality checks I got with women in my late teens is if I tend to act more indifferent towards them and don’t give them much in the way of compliments then I get better results(more attraction from them).. All of this is what I call “red pill” and it’s basically about learning female nature - problem is after I did I find approach/dating/relationships much less enjoyable .
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  25. Have to admit lately I’m puzzled as to what the benefit of being on a relationship with a woman is .. I used to see several benefits but no longer do. Nothing close to make the effort and headache worth it
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  26.  @jarvisaddison8560 lol yeah every woman I’ve met that proclaimed “I hate games and drama” is constantly surrounded by drama and games .
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  27.  @joaquin67 women and men have both been lied to
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  28.  @Doberman_6773 but for every red pill guy that knows the truth there are 10 simps that don’t. That is the problem
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  29. See I think that’s because we are expecting women to be something they aren’t.. many women expect men to be something they aren’t too and end up disappointed. Both sexes need to recognize there is a female nature and male nature and that much of it is most likely hard-wired. Then we need to try and accept that and make it work . Or not and do your own thing The way I see things going now is backwards though - we are trying to make women more masculine and men more feminine
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  30. But if you look at and know male nature(just like we know female nature) you can’t say that men are the prize either. We are both out to get our needs met and we want to maximize the gain and minimize the effort . We are all just hard wired to get what we want. Where do we go from here? I dunno
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  31. The more I learned female nature the more turned off I am . I also realize that I don’t think living a life completely free of a mate is going to work either. I’m as introverted as you can get so if I can’t see it working long term then the average guy had no chance
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  32. That’s tragic. A woman can never raise a boy to be a man. It just isn’t possible
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  33.  @Guildofarcanelore I have always been puzzled by women that think having a long term career is going to make them happy or much more fulfilled than say staying home watching the children. I noticed pretty quickly that working 50 plus hours a week for higher ups that don’t really appreciate you much is not exactly fulfilling - it’s actually the opposite. It can be soul crushing
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  34. Disagree. You guys think too black and white. Women still crave masculinity and love being around it . The entire process is not solely based on needs. Believe it or not men and women(as long as certain criteria are met) still enjoy being around each other
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  35. 1 and 3 are true and huge factors in what I see with many men. It almost hurts my soul to see many guys just fall for women that show just a little interest in them . They get sucked into this void very quickly and you can’t talk much sense into them. Fwiw I’ve seen many women fall for guys in the same manner - they just get engulfed and then usually gamed and then they end up even more jaded and desperate
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  36. The thing with getting older is you can Spot red flags from miles away. The last few women I’ve talked threw up a couple red flags after 10 minutes of conversation.
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  37.  @jellydarling1008 but let’s be honest - the vast majority of men and women will never be able to completely abstain from trying to hook up with the opposite sex . I know very very few people that could do this . Most crave the validation that being in a relationship brings them
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  38. Correct. I’ve talked to women and they have made it out to seem that they want a nice, caring and thoughtful man yet here they are chasing a guy that has pretty much completely ignored them since they first met lol.. I remember being around 16 and realizing girls don’t want nice guys. Or that they are very turned off in several ways by nice guys
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  39. True if a w we omen doesn’t have a decent level of desire for the guy then the guy doesn’t need to bother. You can’t earn attraction to any significant degree
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  40.  @vanessa.jasmine . Is that question to me? If so, handsome and exciting men in their 40s definitely exist but are rare and most likely will be dating the younger hotter women in their early 30s.
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  41. I need an attractive woman though - at the very least she needs to be cute . It’s difficult to find attractive women that not only have good values but are fun and interesting to talk to
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  42. Besides I don’t think you can fix people. You can point them towards therapy or medication but that’s about it. I find many women want and almost expect men to come in and save them from Their problems or somehow make them happy. Not reality
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  43. Sadly I’ve yet to date a woman that could handle me being a bit down Or depressed. Despite what modern society is saying the vast majority of women do not like signs of weakness in their man.
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  44. That’s the biggest problem in today’s dating market: women and men constantly reward bad behavior!!! I’ve seen too many guys ignore multiple red flags to crawl through fire to give a woman everything she wants .. it doesn’t matter how terribly they behave the guy still charges forward . Then that same guy wonders why women are entitled 🤣🤣
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  45. But men need to find out what women want and are attracted to as well. I see many guys acting like they are going to live out the remainder of their life without a mate and be happy but I think they are fooling themselves. Only a tiny % of men and women can live their life without a mate and be fine and they are not the types to watch content like this lol
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  46.  @josealexi5141 what’s so unfortunate is women are not taught that men don’t value their career - I see many women still stuck thinking that their phd makes them more attractive to men. I tell them it has no effect at all and that all they need to be is fit, feminine and friendly. They are usually hurt by this for some reason. Men are pretty simple in terms of what we want and desire
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  47. I’m honestly puzzled by guys responses on here. They act as if most of the women they know have no desire to date and pair up. I live in a pretty blue state and I’d say 90% of women(of all age groups) are eager to meet men and date. Some are burned out but still leave the door open for relationships. I’m just not meeting these hordes of men and women that are super content with being single. The only place I hear and see these people is online
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  48. Yes and we have many people out there today that grew up on Disney selling them fantasies . No one can live up to that ideal . Seems both genders are mostly looking at what they can gain from the other - it becomes a game of sorts. That zaps all the fun out of being in a relationship
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  49. Yeah I’m red pill but I look at the comment sections under red pill videos and it’s mostly toxic and just blaming and hating on women. What’s worse is many of the guys complaining are in their early 20s and their views on women are completely warped
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  50.  @secretagent4610  catch a woman red-handed in lies or wrong doing and then it gets really strange. They either break down in tears or go to the ends of the earth in trying to justify why they did what they did. It usually is just endless tears though
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