Comments by "Brian Meen" (@brianmeen2158) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. I don’t want to sound outrageous but I have two friends that have somewhat ruined their lives by smoking weed. They have smoked it daily for many years and they went from being outgoing, social and full Of energy to very reclusive, sluggish and paranoid persons. They are not the same people I used to know .
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  2.  @Me-eb3wv yep which has me believing most of these guys are either stuck on dating apps and not willing to approach women in public or they just aren’t attractive to women for a variety of reasons. 1 thing I think many of these guys are lacking is positive vibe - they go into interactions with women thinking women all have sky high expectations etc etc .. women can sense when a guy has a downbeat or negative vibe from a Mile away and it’s a huge turn off to them
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  3. True, I guess a small % could possibly build some sort of attraction from a woman but the upkeep he will need is limitless - it’s not worth it
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  4. Guys, many men in their 30s come with baggage as well. There’s way too much black and white thinking on here and finger pointing at women. It’s so tiring at this point
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  5.  @leoborros you do realize that on average men are even worse listeners than women though right? Think back to the buddies you’ve had through the years - how many were really good listeners? Let’s not pretend that men are flawless because that is ridiculous
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  6. The guys paying for that are lost causes
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  7.  @vanclief yep. Way too many men go into these situations leading with their wallet.. that tells me right away they are pretty deficient in other areas ..
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  8. Yeah half the guys in This comment section need to lay off the manosphere content a bit and go to therapy or just try to shift their thinking a bit
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  9.  @Lilith-9223 notice how no one ever tells a man that “wow you are a really strong man!”. It’s almost as if we see the two sexes in a much different way
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  10.  @Jon-to6969  it’s not just him though - there’s hordes of simps out there . They have no standards and will let women get away either anything just to have sex with them. As long as you have this constant theme you will have an entire gender with no accountability. What’s worse is I do not see the simp problem as fixable .
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  11.  @nerdock4747 ahh yes I have the same problem in my family. There’s been an ongoing conflict with 3 women in my family and they are all guilty of wrongdoing at some point yet not a single one will take accountability for it! As soon as I bring it up they automatically deflect or resort to crying and the convo just dies right there. What’s painful is these women are middle aged and should act better but they don’t. I do not know how to live or be with someone that has no accountability
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  12. I really don’t even want to think Of the time wasted on social media . I honestly feel bad for kids that are growing up with an iPad in their lap at the age of 5
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  13. This great! I’ve been wanting to see DR Shawn Smith back in the podcast arena! Great collab! 👍
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  14. But men have equally outrageous behavior at times. I get the frustration on both sides BUT turning it into an endless us vs them gender war will only make things for everyone involved.
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  15.  @javieraguirre9135 yeah, recommending other people to try and “avoid emotional attachment” is very unhealthy. Emotions is what drives life and makes it worthwhile. Without it, life is pretty underwhelming. I know as I don’t feel much in the way of emotion. There are benefits to it of course but several large downsides
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  16. Just think about the “weight” issue. Most women will not have a problem saying something about you putting on weight or being overweight but let you try to say something similar about her . She will have a fit . Or the same goes for fashion - men are expected to tell a woman she looks nice no matter what she is wearing - a woman will not hesitate telling you that what you are wearing is hideous. There is no equality there lol
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  17. Yes. I’ve always worked out and stayed in shape and I play the part of “aloof and mysterious” very well.. these two things will make you very attractive in womens etes
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  18. I disagree completely. I avoid drama and I love the quiet and calmness.
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  19.  @deezworld2318 to be fair most mothers want the best for you - it’s just the filter they see and teach through is feminine and doesn’t work for men. It will end up screwing men up
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  20.  @Shifft-This and too many men are only staying in their echo chamber and not seeing the bigger picture. Women exhibit toxic behavior but so do men. This us vs them rhetoric is dumb and not helping anyone
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  21.  @ATRKNGHT  I notice more guys saying that their main hobby is video games - they don’t just play a few hours here and there though - they play it for 3 plus hours every night. Not healthy
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  22.  @ArizonaVideo99 eww man I wish you luck in trying to fix women that have deep issues. If they have Minor anxiety or depression then you might be able to help but more than that and you will end up exhausting yourself
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  23. I disagree though. Most women crave masculinity and want to be around men that they like or are attracted to. I guess there’s probably the love/hate in all women and men. We love certain aspects of the opposite sex and hate
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  24. I’m like that guy you mentioned though I never really intentionally set out to avoid women - I just don’t have strong desire to date or be in a relationship. I’m above average looking, good job and have always stayed in shape and my indifference towards women usually made them like me even more - sometimes they chase. I found it almost comical as I know guys that chase women and treat them pretty well and the girls usually don’t like them in return
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  25.  @kellygreenii men are not any happier though. There may be a bigger spike in depression for women but a lot of men are lost and not even sure what their role is anymore. That’s another thing - the gender roles being blurred and some want them Completely done away with. It’s no wonder that young people are confused
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  26.  @stevegwizzle3560 you guys are too bitter. It’s no wonder you struggle with dating and relationships.. 90% of the posters here are just unhappy and bitter and father to bash women. There’s way too much of this on YouTube these days .. circle jerk of misery
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  27. Or they just start crying and expect you to forgive them for everything
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  28.  @HelloWorld-cq1sq  what’s worse is the more boys raised by single mothers - the more feminine men you will see. And single parent households are rising in all racial groups except for Asians. It’s like what we are seeing now is a package of 4-5 different problems hitting at the same time and each reinforce the other .
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  29. I’ve always said to most men in serious relationship if it’s really worth the immense amount of effort to keep her happy? I see in most cases it’s not even close to being worth it because the effort/reward ratio is so lopsided in favor of effort .. most men need female validation though - the thought of being a bachelor just doesn’t sit well with them
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  30. Yep I remember the first attractive girl I dated - she looked super hot on the outside but when I got to know her I was shocked at how insecure she was. Other women are the same and I always try to get guys to understand this
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  31. It’s a super power to learn how to enjoy sitting in a room Alone! Very few people will ever learn this
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  32.  @marcondespaulo my father met my Mother at work too but that was a different time. I honestly think guys need to just cold approach more and rely less on apps
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  33. Btw I think my mother is a great person overall but I look back and see how she handled it when my dad was sick or had issues and I cringe .. suffice to say she wasn’t exactly that supportive or caring in those moments.
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  34.  @gailainsley6939  “good men” there that phrase is again - often never has a clear definition. It’s one that shifts around constantly
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  35. And can you truly blame guys for getting obsessed with women once they show interest in them? I’m talking about the guys that are not good with women and can’t attract them regularly . I’ve had many friends just disappear in the past when they start dating a woman
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  36. My question is - how do you maintain a serious relationship with someone that cannot take accountability and cannot admit they are wrong…? Seems impossible
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  37. The term “misogyny” no longer has meaning
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  38.  @demven04 there’s a lot of nonsense floating around in red pill spaces these days now. I mean, I was just on another channel and a few guys were saying that the “average woman” by the time she turns 25 has had 40 sexual partners !! This is such a monstrously absurd take that I almost didn’t know how to respond. Very few women by the age of 25 have been with 40 different men yet that comment got like 430 upvotes ..
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  39. It’s hard to have someone point out your flaws to your face . Especially if you think your mate is 100% responsible for all the problems in the relationship up until that point
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  40.  @streaksoflight it is shocking the women I’ve seen talk about how their husband has made their life a living hell for 35 years. They(the woman) truly think they haven’t done anything wrong over the decades. No self awareness
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  41. South Park is still dropping wisdom to this day !
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  42. And it kills me to see so many guys endlessly chase women that show little or no interest in them. Even if they manage to date her it’s going to be an Uphill battle the entire time
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  43. But you don’t need money to get women. In the past I’ve been jobless and still attracted women. So much is in your vibe fellas - I’ve never had to lead with money .. not once
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  44.  @asdzt123  I wonder if there are “overly ambitious” men who are asexual? Like others have pointed out - the “insane ambition” that men had was driven usually by what? I’d have to say power/status and women and men usually like power/status because it delivers women. Are there asexual(and childless) men that are the biggest CEO and just stacking money just to see how much they can make in their lifetime? Be interesting to find out
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  45.  @timgibney5590  exactly, what red pill gets wrong is when they speak in absolutes. I’ve had girls care about my struggles(other guys have as well) before so it’s not like this quote is 100% fact. Besides, if a man truly believes this statement above - he may as well never bother getting involved with women
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  46. Yeah when I was 22 I didn’t Mind doing a little chasing but when I hit 28-29 I shifted.. I no longer had the time or desire to chase .. I’m in my 30s now and if I smell a little bs then I’m Onto the next
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  47.  @mrsimo7144 yes, only after experience you realize game must be played. I wish this weren’t true and that we could all be our true selves but it doesn’t work
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  48.  @ACruz-kq9di but why does that even matter? If a guy was her first or second choice? I guarantee that in most cases - the women that guys end up with weren’t their first or second choice either.
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  49. Dr Shawn Smith is fantastic. I hope he becomes a regular on this show
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  50.  @sammyb1651 I’m mostly right in line with your thinking - I will just “mirror” what the woman gives me. It’s not the best way to view a relationship but I’m not about to put 80% effort in while she puts 20%.. nope
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