Comments by "" (@benjaminaltman4895) on "Charisma on Command" channel.

  1. Thanks Abby!
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  2. Orcun Ilker that’s awesome!
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  3. Hey Sudain I think you got it! I think in general Pre-suasion is a great place to start. He has a lot of interesting anecdotes and studies that highlight how to prime people. I think you'll like it :-)
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  4. I definitely have this on my list of video ideas! I haven't started brainstorming it yet but the first few things that come to my head are Exercise (can be lifting, basketball, surfing, whatever you like). I believe that stress gets stuck in the body and a physical activity can help release it. Meditate Spend time with people who make you laugh or doing activities that make you laugh (improv, comedy shows, etc.) And definitely keep your eye out for a video that goes deeper on this! I want to make it :-)
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  5. Just ordered a new mic stand and pop filter. Appreciate the feedback, thanks for watching!
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  6. Hey Luis! That's awesome and means you're probably quite confident :-) Not everyone is, which is why it's exactly as you say, you aren't self conscious about it so it doesn't bother you. There are exceptions to this for sure, but for someone still figuring out where the line is, I think it's a good guideline to avoid anything that is both unchangeable and important to them. But exceptions will apply :-)
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  7. Hey Al! That's what I used to do before starting Charisma On Command, I worked at a private equity firm that majority invested in businesses and then operated them for 3-7 years. Some super smart guys worked at that firm, good mentors for success.
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  8. Agreed!
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  9. Appreciate it man! I'm surprised that isn't coming across in the video but I guess this fight has people heated haha
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  10. Haha because of the blinking? I think it's the three filming lights blasting me in the face when I record haha. I honestly don't know how Charlie deals with them so non-chalantly 🤷‍♂️
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  11. Lovely Mishra my pleasure! Thanks for watching :-)
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  12. Hahaha that's definitely not an inaccurate description for some of his clips
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  13. I'll check it out!
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  14. Hey Matthew! It's tough because the show isn't running currently so I'm not sure it would have the same widespread appeal as a GoT or Walking Dead video, but I'll look at the Google trends for it :-)
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  15. Maggie M thank you :-)
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  16. Thanks! Glad you liked it :-) I actually don't know, my sleep schedule is 3am-11am most days 🤷‍♂️
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  17. Hahaha Separate beds. It's clearly the only sane solution 😁
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  18. I wish I had a good one! My morning's are way more ritualized, my evenings are honestly all over the place.
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  19. Hey Jana! I generally don't eat breakfast because I follow intermittent fasting. That said, if you do like breakfast, I would just toss it in after meditation :-)
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  20. Hey Dewayne! I did this one (I said so at the end, I didn't want to kill time in the beginning and lose people's attentions with an announcement). Charlie and I are trying to do a video each so we can 2x the content for you guys :-) His next breakdown comes out Monday morning!
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  21. MajorasMaskMailman this made my day :-)
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  22. That's awesome!
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  23. Glad you liked it!
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  24. Hey azn0180! So this video is very purposefully about how Conor CAN win but not that he necessarily will. Before watching his interviews for this breakdown I thought he had zero chance but now I think if anyone can pull off the upset it's Conor. That said, politics is way easier to call for us because it's like 90% charisma. As many commenters have said, boxing definitely has a huge physical and skill component. So it's not Trump levels of certainty.
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  25. Yep! Just once, for King Of The Cage. That was enough for me haha. It's tough to compete in MMA if it isn't the number one priority in your life. If you aren't competing it's way more manageable as as hobby :-)
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  26. David M. Spence thanks David! I’m really glad you’re enjoying the videos :-)
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  27. Hey Callum! So honestly I would love for the channel to have a Harvey Specter video. Charlie and I just don't watch the show, and it would be a pretty serious time investment to watch the entire thing, then re-watch it again and again. For now that breakdown hasn't seemed like the best use of time since we're bootstrapped over here and trying to do a lot in terms of improving Charisma University and the business part of CoC. But I'll see if I can convince Charlie to do it ;-)
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  28. +toni g you might like this article www.wallstreetoasis.com/blog/how-to-get-a-job-over-equally-qualified-or-even-more-qualified-applicants
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  29. +toni g I wouldn't mention it. Just as likely to hurt you as to help you. Better to just go off your merits and the current version of yourself. In terms of technical questions in interviews, this is my favorite guide: http://www.ibankingfaq.com/ Hope that helps!
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  30. Yep, we're actually about to release a ton of content related to charisma and business.  If you haven't already, hop over to www.charismaoncommand.com and sign up for our emails, that's where they'll all get sent out (some will be public on YouTube, but not all)
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  31. +TM Nóbrega I'm honestly not sure I could do the topic justice in a 6 minute video without it being super basic / surface level. We've got a little $3 Kindle book on Amazon I could link you to if you're interested.
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  32. +SelphMade sure thing! This should give you the slides: https://s3.amazonaws.com/charismaoncommand/Wharton_Nov+2015.pptx
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  33. My pleasure! Happy to be here :-) I know the feeling, I had a roommate who did it constantly when we first moved in together. Hopefully this video helps the situation.
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  34. I don't know! I don't follow him haha. But I'll check out his videos for sure, I enjoyed making the one on Liza Koshy so it'd probably be fun to make one on David too. Any videos in particular you'd recommend if I haven't seen any of his before?
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  35. Hey JeagerBomb, unfortunately being under 18 does complicate things because you don't have legal "independence" yet. That's a bummer and I'm sure super frustrating. I think the best thing you can do is go in with Facts & Feelings, try to avoid triggering any defensiveness, and try to come to a mutual understanding where if nothing else, you and your father could accurately explain the other person's feelings on the issue. Good luck!
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  36. Dr. Rhonda Patrick agrees with you, I just do this schedule because it's much easier for me to skip breakfast than to skip food late in the day, and it's what John Romaniello recommends. But for sure skipping dinner is just as good.
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  37. Great question I don't know the answer to, I would love to know if anyone has studies this!
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  38. cartmann227 haha thanks! I wish it had a cool story but it’s been there since I was born
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  39. Thanks arif ahmed !
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  40. CircuitsMadeEasy hahaha perfect
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  41. Hey Mohammed! We did, I had the calls already, super super fun. Sorry you didn't get chosen - it wasn't my fault, blame gleam.io! ;-) I may do something similar in the future so keep your eyes out for that and maybe we'll try again!
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  42. Great question! I think that degrees are overrated. I think if you want to be a good coach you need two things: expertise and the ability to coach. The expertise is a tough one, in our case that was hundreds of hours 1.) studying the topic from books and educational videos, 2.) breaking down and modeling the people we thought were the best at it, and 3.) personal experimentation and experience. In terms of learning to coach, the two best resource I found were from Tony Robbins. One was his audio series 7 Steps To Create Lasting Change and the other was his RMT 100 hour program with Cloe Madanes. Those two taught me a LOT. Also if you are interested in coaching and already have the skillset, Prosperous Coach is the best book I ever read on how to become a professional. Hope that helps! Also also - thanks for the love on the videos! They're super time consuming to make so I'm glad they're interesting and helpful :-)
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  43. Leading Muscle I agree :-). Hormone optimization seemed like a part of both worlds, same with posture. But don’t worry, I don’t see us becoming a workout channel :-)
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  44. Thank you!
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  45. Thanks VenomTheCat that's awesome that you're liking them :-)
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  46. Hey Sleepy Heals! I gave a little intro at the end :-) It's awesome that so many people want to know more about my story. I didn't want to bore people who wanted to go straight into the topic of Tough Conversations. I'll have to figure out how to introduce myself more than we have.
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  47. I totally agree! Charlie and I would get dominated by Floyd in a boxing match 100/100 times. This is definitely not like the Trump bet where we put $2k on it, because politics ARE based 100% on charisma (maybe 90% charisma, 10% policy) My point was that no MMA fighter should have ANY chance against Floyd in a boxing match but fighting is part mental part physical, and Conor's mental game is insanely tight. Two weeks ago I would have said he had no in hell of winning this, but in the process of making this video I started to believe Conor can win just because he's been so successful at having an "impossible" vision (first man to KO Jose, first two weight champ, making this fight even happen in the first place) and achieving it.
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  48. Jodaku that’s awesome, I’m glad you enjoyed it :-)
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  49. Hey Erfan! He's still making videos, he actually just released the James Bond one from Monday :-)
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  50. YUhave2Bawsome 30 :-)
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