Comments by "Thump Er the Sweaty Fat Guy" (@SweatyFatGuy) on "Manosphere"
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Yeah... I know my masculinity is the most attractive thing about me. The rough hands, the cool vehicles I built and drive, the things I do, the stuff I know, the places I have been, the muscle, my deep voice, the achievements in war and peace. All the ones who cheated or broke it off, wish they hadn't now that we are all in our 40s and 50s.
Doesn't mean they all get a chance, in my younger days they did.. not anymore, because I have better things to do than support someone who doesn't deserve it.
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@jodi2847 how ya figure? I have gamed since video games came out in the 70s. I have also traveled the world, been divorced twice, served in two wars, built my house, my shop, and the muscle cars I drive all summer. My life would be vastly improved if I had never married either of them, and did catch and release, test drives, and target practice. Women are simply not worth the effort, risk, and expense.
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The last one I hooked up with (I am 54 and never commit after two divorces) was cool, she didn't want me to be a dad to her sons, but she wanted them to see what a masculine rough hands male is like. She earns more than I do, and we are still friends 5 years after it ended. She is the ONLY one I am still friends with, because she earned it. She knows she isn't super hot, I like em between 4 and 7.
I got through to the younger one, and he is following the pursuits I followed.. wrestling, building vehicles, lifting, competence, capability, putting in effort to get what he wants. He spent a few weeks total in the 4 years I was tappin her, we played games together and talked about stuff, like what it is to be a man.
She and I talk a couple times a week, and the kid is a monster in his senior year just destroying kids in wrestling. I made a positive change in his life. Winning..
His mom decided to break it off because there is 7 hours between us, I would never commit, and she wanted someone closer to her who made more money. She cycles through them every 16 to 20 months. Thats how long they hit it before quitting it. Its a pity I didn't meet her 30 years ago when she was 20.
Avoid them, but if you want to live dangerously with an easy one... Hit it and quit it, but NEVER commit to one. Wrap that rascal, take it with you when you leave. They are broken, damaged, and far too much risk.
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@drawmaster77 I get those types hitting on me too, and then others who are attractive will as well. Then they start talking, and in trying to impress me they tell me all the unsavory things they have done.
They hit on us differently, they put themselves in our field of view and hope we approach them. If they come up and start talking to you without being employed by the establishment you're patronizing, then she is probably hitting on you. They leave themselves plausible deniability, so they can say they weren't interested and didn't do anything when they discover they don't like us.
I have older women hit on me (I am 54) when I am driving my old muscle cars, more often in the GTOs than the Cuda. Chicks all like the green on the Cuda, but its too effeminate or something for me to drive it. What they are interested in is obvious, my wallet, not me. So I play along, wind them up a bit, but never follow through.
They are not worth the effort around here.
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I try to look broke, wear my work on the car clothes when I go into town for groceries. That way when I get out of my sublime green 70 Cuda or pearl blue 65 GTO, they don't try to crawl in my wallet. I have been retired since 35, I am 54 now. Take home for me is over $60k, so just under $100k if I paid taxes. I live in the woods, on 13 acres of land, in a two story house I built myself, and I have 30 or so muscle cars and hotrods.
Zero debt and I just finished the build on my latest toy that has 700+ hp/tq NA, and when I throw some boost at it, 2000hp under 20psi is easy.. Occasionally I will give a woman a chance, offer to take her out. They are eager to hand out their number, but then they flake or don't want to do anything. They get one chance, only one.
So far since 2018 none of them have passed the test.
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About the 'manifestation' thing... They are not manifesting anything, what they are doing is trying to change their behavior and focusing on something. They put a bunch of woo into a rather simple concept to pretty it up.
I competed in combat sports from 14 to 21. Mostly wrestling, and I got good at it eventually. If you want to become proficient, you need to focus on that for a while. Started out I was 4'9 and very weak, due to a diet I was on that stunted my growth. I focused on getting better at wrestling, getting stronger by pushing myself harder in practice and while working on the farm. When I graduated at 17, a month before I turned 18, I was the strongest male in the school, including teachers. I was bench pressing 265lbs while weighing 170-175. I am 5'8 but I became more than everyone else through focus and effort.
I am big into old muscle cars from the 60s and 70s. Finding them and parts for them takes a certain amount of focus. I look for parts I want or need, and I change my behavior to make it easier to find those parts. I get to know people who have similar interests, and they pass along info to me about the parts I am looking for when they find them.
People know I am looking for Pontiac engines, cars, etc. So when they find them, I hear about it. I am known as the Pontiac guy because of how obsessed with them I am. I own four GTOs, 1965, 69, 70 and 72. I have eleven Firebirds, four of which are Trans Ams, the rest are Formulas which have the Trans Am engine but not all the bells and whistles, so they are lighter and usually faster.
When you focus on something you change your behavior and your thinking so that you can get where you want to be. If you are driving and you look at a chicken in the ditch, most people will tend to steer the car towards what they are looking at. Its a natural tendency. People steer themselves towards what they want and focus on.
If you want to make money, you focus on things that make you money. You learn what you need to learn, do the things you need to do to get the money, just like I do with the Pontiac parts.
Meeting women is somewhat different. The more interest you show in them, the less they are attracted to you. So to get them, you focus on other things, mainly yourself and building your body and mind. Get stronger, smarter, more capable, and more competent, all of which will make you more confident because of the effort required to attain those improvements.
They always whine about how we don't show emotion like they do, but if we show emotion like them, they lose interest instantly. They are solipsistic, they think the universe is here for them, rather than understanding they are just a part of it. They think everyone should be like they are, and if you're not then you are broken, all the while not understanding that they are not attracted to men who are like women.
They think they are manifesting things, but really they just focus a little bit and things happen for them. Its because they put themselves in a position to benefit from the effort a man puts into living. They sit around and wait for men to come to them, and they inevitably do come to them, then they can pick and choose which ones they want, and reject the rest. They are all about looking pretty and waiting to get noticed, which does not work for men.
Nothing in this world comes to men without effort, nobody gives us a damn thing. We have to earn it, we have to take risks and make an effort. If we do not approach women and speak to them with confidence, NOTHING HAPPENS. Women do not approach us unless we are showing we have resources. They talk to me about my GTOs all the time, and they hope I will provision them as well, but its not me they want.. its what I can do for them. If I do not get a number or ask them out, nothing happens. If I drive my winter beater truck that is rusted and has a red cab and silver box, they sure as hell won't be telling me 'nice truck' in an attempt to get me to proposition them.
They sit back and wait for things to happen, men make those things happen. they delude themselves that it takes monumental effort to wait for things to happen.
Setting goals is a means of motivating yourself. Some people need to work on self motivation more than others. Its not a weakness exactly, its more about interest. If you are interested in something, you will motivate yourself to do that thing. Why are all of you here watching this content? Its because you are interested in women, and want to understand them better so you can avoid the risks and hopefully meet one that isn't like all of them in these tiktok videos. You come here because you are changing your actions and thinking to align with getting what you want.
A goal only works if you have a deadline for when it needs to be accomplished. the deadline is the motivator. When the deadline is winter time and snow falling, you are very motivated to build your house so you can stay warm. The goal is build the house, and if its not done by the time the temps drop in fall, its going to be miserable trying to do it in the snow.
If you want to lift a certain amount, you have to set the goal to lift it. Then you work towards that goal, focusing on how you are doing, what you are eating, how much work you are putting in. Take it from a man who has lots of muscle and is VERY strong, you do not get there without a commensurate amount of effort. To get my 21" arms took monumental effort, more than most people would ever consider doing. I was forced to do it in 1990-91 during my first war.
I was not trying to get this big and strong, it was the result of what I had to do every day for nearly a year. 9000 calories in every day, and lifting then running with 200lbs most of the time, and pushing the equivalent of two F150s a mile or two on other days. My goal was to get the job done for that 12 hour shift. The result was I went from a 330lb bench to a 450 in less than a year spending zero time in a gym. If you have built any muscle at all, you know how much work that required. Imagine how much I was doing when I was 21 in 1990 to gain that much in less than a year.
Men are built, either by themselves or by the environment around them. We have a sink or swim life, even the soft coddled kids who were bubble wrapped by their parents who moved all obstacles out of their way. If they want more than what they are given by their parents, it will require work/effort.
You don't manifest a damn thing, you make it happen by focusing on the goal and getting there.
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I bumped into my second ex last week at the grocery store. I extended my condolences about her dad dying back in February, and went on about my life. She blames me for all her bad choices, which I find hilarious. The only times I have spoken to her in the last ten years was when she pulled up to the same gas pump one day, when I voted and she was there so I had her sign the title to one of my cars I used for collateral on a loan I paid off after the divorce, and last week.
She lives two miles away and I have to drive by her place to put my trash in the dumpster. Its a small community, so it takes extra effort to avoid her.
I have kids with the first one, so I have to talk to her on occasion, but I avoid it as much as possible. Talked to her maybe ten times in the last 22 years... and most of that was at divorce proceedings.
I am still friends with one chick I was seeing from 2014 to 2018, she is cool and the only non crayyyzyeee one I have found. We send memes to each other and pics of cars we both like. The 7 hour driving time to see each other was too much, but she was lots of fun. We went on adventures and she paid for most of them, lots of concerts with her she was really good to me.
Almost everyone else in my past, is not spoken to nor contacted. It depends on her and how she is, but most of them are not worth remembering let alone speaking to. I just fall off the face of the earth when I end it.
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@@allenbanks9034 funny you say that... I enlisted in 1988, with Reagan slapping around wannabe thugs with F111s and A6s, it did not look like there would be any conflicts. When the Berlin Wall came down in 1989 and I got a big chunk of it because I was stationed in Frankfurt, it looked even more like we would have no conflicts.
Then I woke up 2 August 1990 and the guy on the AFN radio station said "Iraq has invaded Kuwait, and Congress is talking about sending in US Marines along with the Airborne."
During peace time my job loading cargo planes and putting cargo on pallets is pretty laid back, uneventful with a few exercises here and there just in case a conflict begins.
10 August 1990 rolls around, and we go to 12 hour shifts, I am put on nights, 7pm to 7am. The C141s, C5s, DC10s, L1011s, 747s, and anything else they can find to move people and cargo start rolling through my base.. We handled more than 85% of the traffic going both directions... and I had to go to every plane that landed, and most or all that took off while they were on our ramp.
Germany is kinda north, so over the fall and winter months, the sun sets before 7pm and comes up after 7am, it was April before I saw the sun again... and I had to get more than one day off to even see it.
I worked every night from 10 August to some time in January or February, I'm not entirely sure when my first night off was, because I had no idea what day, week, month, or year it was, I was too busy working 60 to 80 planes in that 12 to 14 hour shift. Yeah, day shift would show up and keep sending me to airplanes.
The fun part... I went into that airlift being able to bench press around 330lbs, I the next time I lifted anything I did 450 like it was nothing. I became a muscle bound freak, more than 50lbs over my max weight, and capable of doing some really insane stuff.
Why did I get so much stronger than everyone else in my unit? Well... I was the one who seemingly always had females on my team, so I had to do ALL the heavy lifting. I was already big and stronger than most people, but Desert Shield made me even bigger and stronger.
When they can't lift 40lbs, and I can lift 400 to 500 and carry it, or push a 10,000lb pallet by myself, well it still needed done even if I was doing it alone with an audience.
Then September 2001 happened, I was in Kuwait that day.. and we sat around and spent time in the gym until planes started flying again. Camp Doha had a gym that Arnold had donated to the Army, we spent 8 hours in there every day out of boredom. I came back absolutely ripped and looking like a monster, and they put me on the weight program... which is where this name comes from. The USAF said I was morbidly obese, despite being 5'8" and able to bench over 500lbs and single handedly load cargo planes every day for months.
Then I went to Korea, which was a nice break to be honest. and when I got back in 2003 I was at the base doing 100% of the airlift to Kuwait, Bahrain, Qatar, UAE, the Stans, and Saudi. I was in the duty section doing the most work, again... At least I got days off in the second one...sometimes. I was an NCO for the second one, just an E3 in the first.
Just lucky I guess.
Now that my house and shop are built and paid off I can relax. Taking it easy in my mid 50s, building hotrods, milling lumber, and landscaping my yard. I just fixed my winter beater 4x4 before I came in and wrote this.. and in an hour I will be on a livestream talking about my ethanol project. Fun times.
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@stripedcollar335 my ex owes me over $10k.. in my home state $5k gets your drivers license, passport, and any professional licenses revoked, along with a bench warrant for your arrest. The judge started me out $10k in arrears, and on a $1740 base pay they were taking $1200 of it. Didn't leave me much after taxes, usually between $100 and $300 per month.
Are they going after her? nope. Is her credit taking a hit because of that? nope. Did my credit take a hit several years after the divorce when I had that $10k in arrears paid up, and she tried to evict herself from her meat suit? yep. They came after me for her medical bills, and then applied $8k of my child support to her bill at the regional center looney bin. All together the state owes me about $25k, but I will never see it.
If the world ever goes Mad Max I have some visits to make to the people who did that sort of thing. No need to visit the ex, she has done more damage to her life than I could have ever dreamed of doing, and I want her to suffer with her poor choices for a lot longer. :)
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@RodVonLongrod sure thing... they say that, but in practice its a way to punish men for being born male, and to reward women for anything they do, all while lining the pockets of the state and judges.
If my ex wanted to stay off welfare she could have not ben vi0 lent to the kids and I, not cheated with every rando she met, and not made my life a living hell, then she could have relinquished custody to me rather than the state breaking their own laws and hitting me with 71% of my gross instead of 68% of my net.
So you can keep women off welfare, but screw men. I lived on $100 to $300 a month from July 2001 to Feb 2004 while active duty in the US military. The only time I had a place to sleep indoors was when I deployed and the year I spent in Korea. I ate every other day, because contrary to what my state thought the military does not provide free room and food unless you are a low rank. I was E4/E5 and that rank could not live on base in the free housing.
If I got a second job, which would have been very difficult with the war that started in 2003, they would have raised my support to keep it at 71% of my gross.
So she does everything wrong, is rewarded with my kids after taking them 1500 miles away from me, hooking up with randos, several of whom thought my kids were they own tiny versions of her, and she gets nearly all my income...
Yeah its definitely about keeping them off welfare, WHEN THEY CAUSE THEMSELVES TO BE SINGLE! Its a reward for poor choices, simple as.
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