Comments by "Thump Er the Sweaty Fat Guy" (@SweatyFatGuy) on "Manosphere"
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I can read people through their body language, the nonverbal communication they display is something I am acutely aware of.. because I have PTSD. I can tell what sort of mental state people are in, what they think of themselves, and a whole lot more. That is a skill anyone can learn, even the current crop of spergs out there.
It served me well reading the intentions of females, I knew exactly which ones were interested, and which ones were not, then I talked to the ones who showed interest and ignored the others. Calling that 'emotional intelligence' is simply ludicrous. The whole notion of that is feminine, because they ONLY live in emotions, they use no logic nor reason, at best they have a facsimile of logic and reason, a veneer at best.
Sure I can tell what emotional state someone is in, but its part of a threat assessment first and foremost. Whatever they are displaying by how they stand or move, I can read it because I had to for a decade growing up while trying to not get beaten.
Men teach their kids empathy, it has very little to do with emotions, but women like to say they have empathy, when in reality they project all their insecurities and shortcomings on everyone else.
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@newparadigm907 my point is the term is made up, there is no intellect in emotions. Its a way for females to feel smarter while not actually being smarter.
Emotions lead to irrational behavior, anyone who has lived with a bipolar woman knows all about it. Anyone who has had a female in the military outrank them, knows just how irrational emotional people are and can get.
The way rick put it in the start of this thread makes it sound like being able to tell what emotional state people are in is somehow a form of intelligence, when its merely being observant. Most people go through life almost completely unaware of what is going on around them, they have no situational awareness, especially now since so many people are staring at screens while walking or sitting in public.
When it comes to intelligence, females have a bell curve where they are all clumped together with a narrow base to it. Makes have a very wide base in our bell curve, so we have more Gumps and more Einsteins where females have barely any. They are the epitome of mediocre with minimal variance. So they try to come up with ways to feel better about themselves, different in some way, and for some reason they think they need to compete with us.
They cannot compete with us in the vast majority of things. They are outclassed easily every time physical ability, endurance, intellect, or problem solving comes into play... and not by the top tier of men, but the moderately below average men are that much farther above them. Humans are this way for a reason, and its not to say that females are worthless, lesser, or inferior, because they have their own strengths. Physical strength and mental acuity/intellect are simply not where they have their strength.
So they make up emotional intelligence trying to set themselves apart, because they operate entirely in the realm of emotion, they feel rather than think. They can think and use logic/reason, but their default setting is emotion. When stressed they revert back to emotion. When faced with danger they revert to emotion. I've seen it happen hundreds of times in the military and civilian world. They break down, and the men keep going getting the mission done.
I am physically huge, very muscular because I had to work with females in my military job, which meant I was doing 100% of the heavy lifting, and the job was entirely heavy lifting. It sucked because anything you say around a female who feels inferior to you for whatever reason is going to be a source of contention and drama.
I stopped talking to them entirely unless it was mission essential, because their emotional default setting often resulted in them asserting I did something untoward, or was 'mean' to them. Can't speak to them like you can a man, you have to sugar coat everything and coddle them or they get butthurt and start complaining to people above you.
When I wanted to talk to or get with a female, I went off base and did not interact with military females at all, unless I had to. Acting like I was hitting on them when they were banging 10 guys a weekend...
There was a movie about 30 years ago where Jack Nicholson is asked how he writes women so well. He said "I think of a man, then I remove reason and accountability." He is exactly right.
They wanna feel special so they made up this EI thing.
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I have a female friend, but I am also 54... she is HUGE, like 300lbs huge, but she can lift heavy stuff since she grew up on a farm like I did. She is reliable, if I need a ride because I cut off a limb, she will drop what she is doing and come help me. Not hot at all, but she is useful and a good friend. Here is the interesting part... if she follows 5 to 10 feet behind me through a store, I get lots of female attention. If she walks next to me like she is with me, I get ZERO female attention.
I have lots of old cars and trucks, many of which do not run and having two people to move them is so much easier and less time consuming. She also helped me build my house, she takes care of my dogs when I travel sometimes, so I keep her vehicle running in return. She is also interesting to talk to because she isn't clueless and is aware of how things work, she has really come around on lots of things.
If she was hot or even remotely attractive there is no way she could be just a friend.
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@0QualityOverQuantity I have two kids, daughters that are 27 and going to be 30 in a couple months. The worst thing to ever happen to me was them being taken by their mother and kept from me. I will probably never be a grandpa. I know for sure with the first one, her mother made her life so terrible that she doesn't want to chance doing it to her own kids.
Bear in mind, I am a two war disabled vet who came back in 2004 almost unable to walk, will never run again, grew up on a farm being mistreated by my family and the kids at school, been run over by cars, and a lot more. Losing my kids was the absolute worst.
They are so self absorbed and unable to manage impulses, that they make life changing decisions that profoundly affect everyone involved in a negative way. Then they tell themselves its not their fault, they had no choice but to burn their lives to the ground, and they blame anyone and everyone other than the actual culprit... themselves... for their misfortune.
I've been watching them grow old around me, I see what happens when they choose poorly, and other than lamenting my kids are suffering from it, I laugh in amusement at all the others sharing their plight. They are so easily influenced by dishonest and nefarious people.
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@scottgarbs7761 yeah. like my two daughters.... that my ex exposed to some really fine upstanding guys, then settled for one who stopped doing things to them when they turned 10. They keep him away from me, and yes.. she knows what he did. When I confronted her about it she said "Well, that happens."
On the bright side, when I interact with someone who has kids, I am good to her and the kids, but I do not get attached to them. I am still friends with a couple of them, so I know I had a very positive influence on their kids.
One kid, who is a senior this year, turned his life around and started making great choices, taking care of himself, and his whole mindset changed when he hung out with me for a while. He was into sports but really picked up the effort after I gave him some guidance. Kid is going places.
Mentoring is usually better, more like a big brother to the kid than a father figure.
Are most guys like me and will be a positive influence in the lives of kids without dads? No, they aren't.
Most of them will get roped into being an ATM for her, and then discarded when a better ATM comes along. That is why I stay arms length from the mom, do not get attached to any of them, and release her to greater opportunity when she desires it. If I am not good enough, fine, be on your way.
I mentored people in the USAF, and I had 4 younger siblings, the youngest are 10 years and 13 years younger than me, so I know how to deal with kids exceptionally well.
Most people have no clue, like my ex. Its best they avoid the ones with kids.
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@jaxxbohol6475 most of them are complaining about the men who have the most options not committing to them. The 5% or so who are the tallest, best looking guys who use them as a side piece. They think they deserve the absolute best, and just because one of those guys will give her the Tab D in her slot C, they assume that raises their value.
So they are NOT talking about the majority of men, because even those of us in the top 20% don't have the options of the 5%. We don't get as many opportunities to get another one (or cheat), but these chicks do because they are good enough for damn near every man to be amenable to bustin one out with them.
The fact is women file for divorce the overwhelming majority of the time, because they think they have a chance at a man they assume is better than the one they have. Its only when he doesn't commit to them, or he is actually lower status, value, and quality than the man they gave up, that they start to whine and cry about it... and that is most of the time.
However when she cheats and leaves like that, she ALWAYS blames her ex, no matter what he does. He always mistreated her, always cheated, and always did the exact things she did, to hear her tell it. She does all those bad things, and blame them on him, because if it was so easy for her to do it, he just had to be doing it too!
There is no logic nor reason, its all feelings, rationalizations, justifications, resentment, and feeling entitled to far more than they warrant.
Society, the media, and all the apps like tiktok offer unfettered action on her part to do all of that. They agree that men are to blame, and the women are always victims, which is the rationalization women use to feel better about themselves when they just destroyed their own family and future. There is no immediate downside to her acting poorly and making bad choices, that all comes to fruition later, when she is 35+ alone, unwanted, and even the top 60% of men ignore them.
The narrative is men are always the one cheating and abandoning their kids.
The reality is women act poorly, throw fathers out of the family to get cash and prizes, file for divorce, and capriciously make the father's life a living hell.
What man in his right mind is going to leave a woman when he has to pay her 50% to 75% of his income, give her the house they lived in, provide everything to her she had when they were together, and never get to see his kids? Not much incentive to divorce there is it?
Now what woman will not take advantage of being paid by her ex, having him pay for all her living expenses, while she gets back on the CC to 'find herself' while society, the media, and their families encourage them to do it?
The narrative is pure fantasy that men are leaving and women are victims in all of this.
Men are not dating, not getting married, because of that dynamic. There is no benefit whatsoever for a man to marry. None. Even dating is risky as judges are starting to give everything he owns to her just because they dated for a while.
Then people wonder why the birthrate is dropping, men would rather sit around playing games with friends online, and women keep making these embarrassing videos about how 6'7 chad only used her as a side piece but she wanted to crawl in his wallet and set up camp.
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@musclecarenjoyer the rarest Firebirds are 1998 WS6 Formula convertibles. If you can find them, you have the choice of red or black, because there are only two of them. My 1972 Formula is rare also, 276 were built that year with the 455 HO, mine is one of them. It was special ordered by a gent in Alaska who wanted to pull his boat around. He ordered a one of one within the 276 with that engine.
I build these cars, usually from rusty junk. I can rebuild, repair, and/or refinish everything on them. I am trhe only one who works on them, rebuilding engines, transmissions, differentials, suspension, electrical, interiors... everything. The 65 GTO wasn't even a good parts car when I got it, and now its one of my summer daily drivers. The 69 GTO is even worse than the 65 was, I'll be starting on it this fall. The Cuda gets taken care of quite well, because its so expensive to repair.
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