Comments by "Ida Larsen" (@idalarsen2540) on "Dr. Phil" channel.

  1. I just hope they get the help they need, especially her. FOR THE CHILDREN. I believe that with the right and proper amount of help, that she can become the mother she wants to be, that her children deserve. I have strong doubt about him, tho.. still, I belive their ideal situation would be that the kids would be able to stay with their mother (when it becomes safe and apporpriate), while he (only if he gets the proper help and are able to resolve his anger issues) gets supervised visitation. They're engaged, I hope for their children's sake that they break it off. They shouldn't be together anymore, it's not good for any single one of them by this point. This would be ideal, if you ask me.
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  2. Yeah, reverse psychology it seems like.
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  3. EXACTLY.. oof.
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  4. Then you LEAVE. Don't do like he's trying to do. There's no excuse for controlling and abusive behaviour, NONE. If you think the woman is just so bad, then frickin LEAVE. What's so hard to understand!?
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  5. Phil and Robyn are so cute together, you can just tell they really love each other ♡
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  6. There may be someone else that coached the kids. Somethings seems really off about her, but her actually taking the polygraph and passing gave her some credibility, especially considering he did not. Now, the polygraph is not an excact science, hence why it's not used in court. They only detect what you percieve to be true, not what the objective truth actually is. Also, it's only about 75% effective which is not at all good. It just all baffles me so much, because the mother acts real weird while the father seems legitimately horrified as well as truthful - he seems like someone falsely accused of child abuse. I can't wrap my head around all of this at all, that's rare.
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  7. Bruh-
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  8. Yup. I was SO sure I heard him say "gone" and "WATER", yet she's there like oh sure you wanna talk about the damn ALPHABET!? Holy.. can someone just cap her already!?!?
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  9. Uh, he just wants to know if they're willing to open up to the simple possibility that they can be wrong. If people are 100% set in an opinion, especially when they themselves weren't directly involved in whatever incident, then there's no point in talking to them. That doesn't add value to any conversation. You have to be open to other possibilities when you don't truly know what happened. If they're completely set in their ways they won't listen to anything else, and even consider that they might be even just a little wrong. Speaking in general terms here, not this case specifically. I would be much more grafic so to speak if my answer was about this video alone, not in general.
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  10. @UC-8WRhZn0rmvyN5K2T67n_w Uhmm. your point is? She's making fun of cancer patients by doing that. When being a "cancer patient" becomes an insult you're surely, no doubt, mocking cancer patients. Just because the girl she bullied didn't actually have cancer herself, doesn't mean that she's not making fun of people with cancer.
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  11. Phil is so arrogant. None of what happened here is okay. She shouldn't have gone to jail, she didn't do anything illegal. She should have gotten paramedics to take her to the hospital. She shouldn't have been on stage either, she's not able to consent to that as she can't fully understand what's going on. Smh.
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  12. Oh damn please don't comment anything else lol so that EVERY COMMENT is the same like most of them are please
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  13. Same here, totally agree. Although I do not have kids of my own, I do have a dog and a cat. I could never put myself before them. They're always my first priority, regardless of what. Always.
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  14. Stop that. Just stop it. It doesn't matter, she did NOTHING wrong, regardless if she knew him or not. It doesn't matter. Sometimes things kinda just happen. Although certain things can be forseeable, doesn't mean we always manage to think about all the possibilities of each situation. This kind of questioning or whatever is partly the reason survivors are often times so afraid of speaking up. "This awful thing happened to me, BUT I did this and that 'wrong' therefore I'm to blame" and all of that is what survivors often think, which many times makes people too scared to speak up and/or report incidenses like this, which only benefits perpetrators. I get your point, but still. It can be dangerous. Really dangerous.
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  15. Omfg.. no words.
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  16. Yup. She only cares about herself not getting cought up with any more trouble. She asked quietly if she was going to get in trouble by Phil for this. Like she's evaluating if she'll tell the truth or not, only wanting to talk even the slightest bit if she's 100% sure she won't get prosecuted for anything. Ugh. So obivious that she only cares about herself and her own needs. How disgusting.
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  17. He's not wrong, tho.
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  18. How horrible. I relate to her so much, but I've gotten way better. Hope it's not too late for her.
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  19. Seems like Adderal or something similar. Not antipsychotics. Those usually makes you a bit more droopy, while she keeps blinking, having small ticks, she's restless etc. You can never know for sure, but..
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  20.  @dylanclay2741  I agree with you, but as an "original" feminist I can tell you that reasonable feminists (that actually are feminist unlike so many others that claim to be) find her absolutely disgusting and that the father is well in his rights to care for that child.
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  21.  @TheSaboteurLT  oh you know what we mean, please tell me you're not that stupid.
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  22. That's horrible.
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  23. That one took me a while.. once I got it, absolutely DEAD 😂💀💀💀
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  24. It's not munchausen either. It's all for attention.
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  25. I don't think that's fake.. not sure, no one is except her, but I think it's real.
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  26. Life is so more nuanced than Phil makes it out to be. He has such a black or white-approach. I understand what this lady is saying, and even though I do understand and to a point agree with Phil here, I would never say that she's selfish. That's simplifying the issue too much. It's not like she only keeps her mother there to make herself feel better (in the sense of not wanting ti feel guilty if something were to happen to her mother if she got kicked out), there's gotta be way more to it. If she really was selfish, she wouldn't let her mother stay so long. I'm guessing there's a lot of fear going on. She probably thinks that kicking her out with no place to go will go badly for her mother, possibly falling back to her addiction and risking death, either by overdose or someone hurting her. She cares, that's it. It's not selfish to care about your mother. Like I said, nothing is black/white, this is very nuanced.
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  27.  @iCazZiStronZi  You're disgusting. Get lost.
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  28. A proper man IS to respect women, ESPECIALLY the mother of your damn child, ffs. You're so misguided.
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  29.  @cgscgs663  Goddamnit, Susan. Where's your straight jacket and handcuffs!?
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  30. ... uh.
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  31.  @TheSaboteurLT  Stop showing your anti-trans agenda down people's throats.
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  32. He's obvs not. It's disgusting, treating them like nothing but objects to sell. I don't understand why there doesn't exist more laws to prevent animal abuse (including neglect, which is a form of abuse)
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  33.  @cswhite  What an amazingly ignorant, gaslighting and abusive statement. Saying such things ONLY makes it WORSE for those of us who are struggling. Life is not beautiful for everyone. Life can be beautiful, but part of life's beauty is melancholy and imperfections. For some people, life is more of a tragedy than something beautiful. None of us asked to be alive. NO ONE. We simply came about. Sometimes suicide/death seems to be our only escape. No one in general wants to die. We just want the pain to stop.. and when we see not other solutions than to end it all, suicide seems logical to those who struggle with suicidal thoughts. Your ignorance does not dictate how everyone else should feel. Do I think suicide is a good option? Not in any way, shape or form. It's terrible, just terrible and horribly tragic, so don't even try putting words in my mouth. You never know what being suicidal actually feels. It's a constant life or death battle which NOBODY wants. Our brain just works in odd ways at times. What you're saying is nothing but damaging. It makes those of us who are suicidal feel even worse about ourselves, and we start blaming ourselves even more, which only leads to a stronger belief that there's something wrong with us that we can't fix; enforcing our already tragic thoughts.
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  34.  @Bla_blah99  ..does that have anything to do with downs, tho?
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  35. I know right, wtf? SO many people here are blaming her and are just being plain CRUEL. None of those people see the ACTUAL problem here. This is NOTHING but exploitation and sensationalism for views, his own gain. He talks down to her so much, breaking her down even more.. while she's obiviously laying down on the floor in pain. He's kicking her while she's down, it's just cruel. I've been an addict myself and have gotten those kinds of treatment (take the TV part out of it), and all it did was make me do even more drugs. Smh. It wasn't until someone actually started treating me better and considered the effect their words had on me, after I got so mad about it all that I had to just scream in his face how terrible he made me feel, that all it did was made me feel worse and fall even deeper into my addictions that I started to even just CONSIDER that what I was doing were more harmful than I wanted to think. Knowing that you're not judged for falling was such a big comfort to me. It made me actually want to do SOMETHING about it. It took me an extremely long time and many, many tries over several years for me to actually sober up - and stay sober. I still enjoy some drugs from time to time (smoke weed daily, most at night time due to ptsd related nightmares and insomnia, a very rare couple of drinks or a couple beers and sometimes I take amphetamine/speed, although that's rare), but it's all under control. I work, pay my rent and bills and take properly care of my self, my dog and my cat. So finally, I'm doing good. If people treated me like Phil treats this lady, I'd literally be dead. I would have no incentive to try to help myself. I'd feel to shameful and worthless. Shame on you, "Dr." Phil.. shame.
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  36. My heart and soul is crying for her. I've been raped a couple of times and that is more than hard enough. WAY MORE. This tho.. I.. I just. I can't even comprehend to any degree.
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  37. My heart breaks for her. I see myself in her practically to the tea.
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  38. She's led him on, yes. That's not okay at all. He's the absolute worst tho, he talks about her like he owns her, and he's completely obsessed. He's dense af, she's just lonely and seems confused. If you watch the rest of these clips, you'll see how he's the insane one. He just refuses to listen to her. She's in the wrong as well with her conflicting messages, but he takes the cake.
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  39. For real. I became homeless for about three years, and I had both a dog and a cat before that happened (honestly not my fault, seriously. Long story). Luckily I knew that my dog could stay with my father safely, so she wasn't really a worry for me. My cat on the other hand was. I knew of no one that would agree to take care of my cat for me while I tried finding a new place, so I was extremely worried. I asked EVERYONE I knew, posted about it daily on facebook and everywhere. I knew I could give him away, but I simply refused having to give him up to strangers. That was so horrible, the entire thing. I wanted my sweet cat back, we loved each other so much and I knew I could provide a great home for him as soon as I found somewhere new to live. It took me quite some time, three years like I said - but I did it. I eventually did recieve an offer from a friend who were willing to take him in, but after a while she found him to be "too much" for her (she fell way too deep in her drug abuse smh, my cat wasn't at fault in any way. He's a sweetie. I panicked as I had to look for someone else. Eventually someone else I knew took him in, but after a while they broke up and we're moving away from each other, and none of them were willing to take him with them. Same route once again. These two people were my last hope (I thought), so it absolutely broke my heart. I still refused to give him up. Then, like a miracle, some friends of some of my other friends had heard about our story and wanted to help - for free, even. They took him in and cared so much for him. They cared so much in fact that they wanted to TAKE HIM, despite promising me that I'd get him back when the time was ready. I was livid, completely FURIOUS. I couldn't do anything but cry myself to sleep every night, and just the thought of him brought me to tears. I had already fought so much for him, my energy was drained. Still, the thought of losing him for good was too much for me. I just couldn't take it. I did everything and more to convince them to give him back to me. After months of living in my new apartment, I still hadn't gotten him back, but I refused to let him go. Eventually, they budged. Thankfully. I now live safely with both my pets, my dog Lucy and my cat Skurk (Norwegian for criminal, pretty much - sounds like a weird name in English but I promise you, he fits his name completely and everyone just finds it to be a cute, fitting name for him). I work and take care of them very well, more than I've seen most people do. I'm so glad that I kept fighting for us, that I never lost hope regardless of how dark it all seemed for years. I'll fight for my loved ones, my pets any time, any day. Always. ALWAYS.
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  40. For someone that never experienced cancer in any way, it's horrible yo say but it just shows immaturity. When it's an actual cancer survivor who also knows several people with cancer.. the weight that adds to that statement is monumental.
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  41.  @ahmedghanim2472  dude wtf. Marrying family is just not good, especially close relatives. End of story.
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  42. Remember that polygraphs are only about 75% accurate, hence why they're not used in court. Also, it never detects actual truth, that's what evidence does. Lie detector tests are supposed to sense your own perception of the truth. If she has gotten herself to belive this sincerely, she's not technically lying. Polygraphs are too confusing and too non-conclusional, hence why they can't be used in court as it is not evidence considering it not being accurate/giving a clear picture like proper evidence does.
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  43. This is just so sad.
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  44. FR, she made me so mad! PTSD is absolutely HORRIBLE and would do ANYTHING and EVERYTHING in my power to not have it. It just doesn't work like that. It's so exhaustingly dehabilitating.
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  45.  @harmonyedwards7924  It is the childs business tho if it affects the child negatively, which this does. The child has done nothing wrong and the parents are parents 24/7, not just when they want to.
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  46. I absolutely agree that avoiding the CPS as much as possible is the best, but at some point, in some situations, they just HAVE TO step in. It's far from a good option, but sometimes, it's simply the better option. They're absolutely essential to have, and their job is extremely important. Of course, A LOT needs to be done within the CPS. They have a whoooole lot to improve about their practicses and everything, but they have to be around.
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  47. That doesn't make it okay. Increasing the risk of having a mutated or "damaged" child is not okay. Despite this happening with children of people who are not related doesn't make it okay. Increasing the risk of lessening a childs welfare is not okay.
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  48. You don't have to be on drugs to be a totally gross creep. It seems WAY more like he is a sociopath or something along those lines. He speaks coherently and such, he doesn't seem to be on drugs.. which if you ask me, is a lot scarier.
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  49. Dude stop spamming
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  50. Fr 💀 She loves this. Idk what's wrong with her.. she wanted to send HIM away?? Seriously? She drives this poor kid into a corner constantly. Like we all know, if we're mad about something the last thing that helps to calm us down is even more screaming and unnesecary jabbing. She makes him feel constantly threatened.
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