Comments by "Denise Bacher" (@denisebacher5040) on "Danielle Kirsty" channel.

  1. I did!!
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  2. Yeah I was thinking, IF Julie was such a great friend to Karen, I imagine she’s over the house a bit. So she HAD TO see the kids wearing plastic bags on their tushies. Did she report this to the authorities? Because I KNOW I would if my “friend“ treated children like that. It’s repulsive all these adults see this neglect and do NOTHING!
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  3. This was a hard one for me to get through. I had to keep stopping and going to do something pleasant . Just cannot fathom hitting let alone beating a newborn ( not that beating a child is okay ever). That poor baby. And you know the 2yo had to have been getting abused. Not just neglect either. I do not see Chris keeping his hands off a toddler. Oh, I also wanted to say your makeup, as usual, looks phenomenal!
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  4. Exactly!
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  5. Wow! I was sobbing at the beginning and I sobbed towards the end. For two different girls. And to think, if Christa had a normal upbringing she probably wouldn’t be where she is now ( we cannot just say it was all her upbringing, as I imagine her bipolar disorder led to her being a monster as well). Besides not all abused children murder or abuse their kids or other children/people. By 6 years old I was being sexually abused by one brother, who brought another brother into it within two months. At 9 years old my cousin sold me to 3 friends of his for $25. At 12 years old my mother’s second husband was also sexually abusing me. This all went on until I was 19. And through all that time I was also being physically ( my 3 brothers all would also physically abuse me) and mentally abused. All the sexual and physical abuse was my fault entirely said my mother. Every part of it. My mom KNEW her choice for a second husband was a pedophile ( she worked with his stepdaughter from his second marriage who he was also assaulting sexually). And I was at just the right age that he liked. So, of course, I know now it was not my fault, but as a child it was 100% my fault. And my mother has made no effort to ever make it up to me. She says she did it to make me stronger. I may not have become stronger ( who really can) but it did make me adaptable. I just accept what is happening and move on. Like my two rapes since I became an adult. Or my two failed suicide attempts. But through it all I have never ever thought of severely harming others. Even my family members. And many of them deserve it. My goal through life was to always be the greatest mother I can. Even to children that are not mine. If I could take on and love all the hurting kids of this world, I definitely would. And I know MANY people in my support group who feel the same. So no, not every abused child becomes a monster. I truly hurt for Christa, but she chose that path.
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  6. Danielle I love your compassion and empathy for the victims and their families. In every video your outrage and heartbreak is so evident. That said how could this disgusting POS go on as long as he did?!?! I’ve worked security now at different places and I registered people entering and exit rooms. Alerts pop up when a door is used. And that was a warehouse for sporting goods. There were some places maintenance was never allowed without security letting them in. You’d think it was top secret government rooms but no. The electrical panels or server rooms.
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  7. Here in the US they do not tell who called. It’s completely anonymous.
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  8.  @shannonshark84  I would not doubt it.
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  9. I bet you Richard had a psychotic break and that’s why he killed them but also didn’t bathe and sat in the house with their bodies. Yes I think he was triggered by Emma’s rejection ( not excusing his actions) , but in an incel way, he probably said “I flew across the country for you and you treat me like crap?!?!” I feel so sorry for the victims families.
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  10. And THIS kind of 💩 is why I cannot date anyone. I watch far too much true crime to feel like dating is a good idea.
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  11.  @amandanorrisart  Yeah my sister had two kids and her daughter had 3. Both could have had more but they decided to stop. That teacher WANTED kids and manipulated those poor boys.
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  12. It’s Danielle time!! I have to get a snack!! I LOVE nails! But I’m so sensitive to the smell of polish ( and other string scents like coffee, gasoline, tar, etc) that I get a migraine. But my granddaughter says she will do gels on me. When she has time in her teen life.😁
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  13. Exactly! I know first hand that sexual predators never change.
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  14. I am so glad I am not the only one. Very good looking guy though, so I was doing my best to overlook it. But I kept thinking "Is that horn implants or was he born like that".
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  15. My advice would be to insist that somebody that you trust go with you to your exams. Insist that that person be in the room at all times. Not just the nurse assistant. Bring in somebody like a sister a best friend your mother, whoever you trust implicitly.
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  16.  @OneAwfulGamer  Yeah they don’t seem to do it right. They take kids away from parents who are loving and leave or give back kids to abusers.
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  17. I do think Paris IS a psychopath and I do not feel he EVER loved Ella. He put on the “loving brother” persona but I think it was never real. You yourself, Danielle, said psychopaths are good at lying and manipulating. “Even professionals.“ And when Charity relapsed and then they moved in with his Grandma he was done. He started planning then how to get rid of Ella and his mom. His mom had proven she was not worthy of him in his eyes. And I think people warning Charity really need to push that much more. She NEEDS TO save her money, change their names and go into hiding. Move out of country, but not someplace she’s ever said anything positive about. Her son is too damn intelligent and he will figure it out if she doesn’t do everything different than her normal. And totally give up on the murderous grandma. Have NOTHING to do with her because she’ll sell Charity out in a heartbeat if Paris comes a knocking.
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  18. Very sad case.
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  19. I’m not really surprised the teachers didn’t take it seriously. I had a friend in high school who came to school with cuts and bruises on her arms, neck and face. We ( fellow friends and I ) asked her what happened and she eventually told us her dad did it. That he was an alcoholic and came home and beat the crap out of her. We insisted she had to report it and talked her into telling the counselor. She was PETRIFIED of her dad finding out she reported him , so we followed her to the counselor’s office to offer support. But the counselor told us to get to class. We never saw the girl again. When we brought her up with counselor she told us that she ( counselor) called the father who came and told her his daughter lied. He then took her home. But he called the next day and said he was withdrawing her from the school and sending her to live with his mom. I tried arguing it with the counselor but she actually said to me “ What possible reason could her father have for lying? “ I started to counter “Well going to jail...” but she threatened me with detention and, as my parents were horrific with me, I dropped it. I didn’t have her phone number nor her address so I couldn’t even check up on her. Neither did our friends. One girl told me the girl told her she wasn’t allowed to give out her number because she wasn’t allowed on the phone. I still pray she is ok and it’s been 40 years. I say all this because teachers can really play into a child’s abuse.
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  20. HAPPY CHRISTMAS and New Year, Danielle! I’m so glad I found your channel! JUST WOW, to this story! I sobbed so hard thinking about all those children and Ed thinking they were going to die! Bravo to Ed and Mike!! ( Truly very sorry Mike had a hard life, I pray that is at an end!) Also sobbed thinking of the reunion between parents and children. Those parents had to be going out of their minds wanting their children back! I once lost my daughter for 3 hours and I was freaking out! Her and her older sister ( they were 8 and 9 at this point) would get off the bus together, which dropped them at the gate to our community. They then would run to my condo which was 200 -300 feet from the gate. I could see the bus stop from my living room window. Well they both got off, let themselves into the community and the older daughter ran home, but the younger one was talking with a friend who lived in the complex. The older one told me that when she hurried in the door. So I’m not upset she did hurry right home. But 10-15 minutes go by and she’s still not back so I tell the older one to listen for my infant ( 6 months old who was napping) while go get the missing child. But there was no sign of my daughter. The friend said they parted ways and she had no idea where she went. I walked around our complex asking anyone I saw if they saw her. Nope. Went back to my house thinking she was there. Nope. But the baby is awake, so I send the 9 year old out to look and ask other kids in the complex ( she knew where all the friends’ houses were whereas I just knew a handful). She came back and said some kids said her sister had gone to this one house where every now and then the grandchild of the owners would be visiting ( my daughter and the grandchild were close friends). But my elder daughter knocked and no one answered. But the kids said someone had answered the door. I got the 6mo occupied in eating a snack and went off again this time to the last place my daughter was at. I knocked and knocked and then their neighbor came out said she thought they were gone. So I wandered around some more, calling my daughter in THE mom voice. Using her whole name. No sign. I’m freaking out. I go back to where’s she’s last seen and another neighbor says she’s sure the couple hadn’t left because she had just seen the woman closing her blinds. So I start knocking and knocking not giving up this time. This couple was not deaf or elderly so there’s no reason they could not hear my knocking. Soon I was banging and still nothing. I got to their backyard, climbed over their fence and walked up to their back door and knocked. The lady came to the door startled and angry. And I explained I was looking for my daughter and before I called the cops I figured I’d ask them personally. Sure enough my daughter was there!! The couple and my daughter were watching movies in their den they had made into a movie room!! “It’s hard to hear anything in there because of the speaker system.” I went off about them having my daughter in their house. The woman was indignant and her husband acted all “well let’s calm down, ladies”. I took my daughter and left through their front door! And then I lectured both my daughters that the new rules of my house was to come instantly when you get off the bus and to ALWAYS tell me where they were. That became the rule for my baby when she got older as well. And that middle child was grounded for a day from anything but books for 2 days for the scare she gave me.
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  21. I remember I was listening to the radio and the radio host was talking to this guy who had a squatter problem. The guy’s son was watching their house and let some friends move in. Then the son couldn’t get them out ( they were doing damage to the house) so the homeowner called the cops. Cops said because the “friends” had started getting mail there they had established residency, tying the police’s hands. Homeowner files to get them evicted. Three months later the court rules they have to leave. BUT in that time the squatters had moved other people in and they established residency. And the homeowner had to now file to get them evicted. This went on over a year with MANY squatters having a revolving door of people moving, establishing residency and then having to be evicted. The homeowner was going broke from all the lawyer fees he was paying. I think it was nearly TWO YEARS before he got his house back. And my parents had a squatter problem as well. They had an insurance agent who they had casually mentioned to that they were looking to lease to own their house to as they had bought another home. She mentioned her son and daughter in law might be interested and eventually things got hammered out and she put money down for her son and his wife to move in. They paid two months rent and then abruptly stopped. My parents went through all the legal channels to get them out. They got removed though, 6 months later, when they were arrested for running a meth lab in the home. Not kidding. They had no electricity or water to the house. The garage was used as a garbage dump. My parents had to pay to have the house torn down and for some service to come and clean the soil because of the meth lab. That couple cost them tens of thousands.
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  22. I can so relate to you not liking to be the center of attention, Danielle. I flunked presentations because the thought of standing before clsss was traumatizing to me. All those eyes looking at me… Incels are repulsive. My youngest was bullied in school in 7th grade ( 13 years old). We had moved to a new city so she was the “new girl”. 2nd day at school the popular girls came up and the Regina George wannabe starts complimenting my daughter. Then Regina asked what boys she liked. My daughter replied she didn’t know anyone because she is new. Regina then said “Oh I get it now! You are a lesbian. A carpet m*ncher.” And then the group of girls turned and walked away giggling. My daughter in her other schools, elementary and 7th grade, was popular and well liked. So this treatment was confusing. The next day she’d have people tripping her, shoving her into lockers, tripping her, calling her all kinds of derogatory names. A teacher even joined in. She used to LOVE schools and beg me to let her attend class when she was ill. Now she was begging to never have to go back. I wound up having to homeschool her and sign her up for therapy. She still has social anxiety. If women won’t date you it’s because you give off “creep” vibes and feel you are OWED a girlfriend. I am owed a million dollars, but you don’t see me whining about it.
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  23. I wonder if she was SA in her early teens. Just playing devils advocate. Yes she has been diagnosed with a mental disorder, BUT there’s nothing saying she wasn’t abused. I mean she hasn’t said she was except with her bf. Who, of course denies it, but ( again devils advocate) HOW do we know he didn’t abuse her? Choke her. Just a case of he said, she said there. I am just trying to see the possible reasons she goes from great kid to sullen and acting out. And one of those is sexual abuse going on at home.
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  24.  @AnonymousUser_1111  I was just talking about Lisa to a friend a week ago.
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  25. Danielle you are so beautiful before you even start applying your makeup. Jacob may not know himself why he did it.
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  26. Woke up with a migraine and I still wanna watch Danielle. I even said “I need Danielle.”
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  27. Heck yeah!!
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  28. I have a brother who is pretty much similar to Malcolm. He’s never murdered any woman, but he manipulates them until they are bankrupt. He gaslights them. Lies about EVERYTHING. Once told a gf that MY daughter were his and that his ex wife ( he hadn’t married at this point) was keeping him from his daughters and he was broke because he was fighting for custody. The woman told my mom this story, at my sisters wedding, and my mom demanded to see my brothers wallet to see his kids. He had taken nearly $5k of this woman’s money at this point which seems like not much but was a lot to her. His first marriage was to a mentally handicapped woman with schizophrenia. She had a huge trust in her name and he went through that QUICKLY and then he would visit her mom, in the nursing home she was in, and she’d write him checks to “pay bills” because he’d convince her that her daughter was wasting money and bills weren’t getting paid. When his wife confronted him, he was yelling at her so much she slapped him. Neighbors called the cops and the cops arrested HER because he was the only one with a wound. Same thing occurred with a gf he had who confronted him about stealing from her and she punched him to get him out of her face and he pressed charges. My brother has been married 3 times and each wife has been bankrupted by him. I tried warning his last two and they thought I was toxic and said they didn’t want to talk to me.
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  29. 😂😂😂
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  30. They often do. Cheaters will go on to cheat is what I’ve always heard.
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  31. @@steevthompson6103 but he didn’t come out any say “Nope couldn’t be my brother“ as one would if they believe their family member innocent.
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  32. I’m so very sorry that that happened to you. Both your stepfather and the male nurse. Neither should’ve happened. I also allowed my childhood sexual abuse to go on a while because my family members were talking about my younger sister who was five years younger than me. So I know your feeling of relief when you moved out.
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  33. I was thinking the exact same thing. Just because it’s a female professional doesn’t mean that you should trust them implicitly.
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  34. That was very tough to get through. Having lost my daughter in childbirth and what a lot of people say was hospital staff negligence. But I’m glad I saw it through to the end. I did it for the parents and loved ones of all those babies. Because compared to theirs my heart break pales. My heart breaks for those parents. Especially the babies that had fought so hard and were close to going home. Praise God she can never kill a baby ever again.
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  35. The justice system giving her a plea deal for showing up at her victims home, shooting at the house ( what if the family were there and got hit?!?!?!?) and breaking in is seriously messed up! Yes her raping Boy A is bad, without a doubt, but she should have gotten more prison time because she’s shooting a gun, the damn standoff for hours, she scared the neighbors, Etc. She shouldn’t be given anything less than 15 years!! My heart breaks for Boy A’s family because now they have to worry she’s going to get out. So uproot the family so she can’t come around with her gun again or just take the chance she will leave them alone. Myself I would have to move. Because I sure would trust the legal system in that county/city to keep my family safe.
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  36.  @cynthiasaldana6066  yeah my daughters are my reason for being. After my second husband left me 9 years ago I refused to date anyone because my youngest deserved me giving her my time. She was traumatized by the divorce and me having to back to work. So when I wasn’t at work I was there for her always. She graduated valedictorian from high school, got. 4 year scholarship to a university and just graduated with a Bachelor of Science degree. And makes a lot of money at her job. I invested in her and she’s doing the same back for me.
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  37. I’m so sorry.
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  38. So truly heartbreaking! Poor Suzanne. I had to start working on something else so I wouldn’t try empathizing with her when you were describing her torture. I just knew I’d freak out and start sobbing. And I did start to cry when you spoke of her thanking the people for helping her. Because I could just see her thinking about that kid she pleaded with to help her and him not doing it but these utter strangers were helping. And then I was thinking that Jean and Bernadette’s kids probably turned out not much better than them. Because I guarantee you Jean and Bernadette didn’t start off life being sadistic monsters ( none of these killers do). No they probably lived horrendous childhoods themselves. No excuse at all. Because look Suzanne had a really rough life but she was sweet and caring. So yeah all the torturers chose to be monsters. But I wouldn’t be surprised if Jean and Bernadette’s children were into crime. Breaks my heart also, thinking of moms being monsters, that Suzanne’s mom wouldn’t put her kids first. I literally cannot fathom it. But I see it so often. My daughters when they were in school would have friends who had horrific childhoods and I would just “adopt” them. They would even call me mom. I would feed them, give them rides and let them spend the night. If I didn’t have my narcissistic husband they’d have been living with me permanently. But he minded our money feeding kids that weren’t ours. I still have 3 of my youngest daughter’s friends who call me “Mom”. And I delight and celebrate in everything they do. One of the girls even has a mom VERY MUCH like Suzanne’s mom because the girl had dropped out of school, moved in with an abusive bf and tried to get help from her parents. The dad is dying and said he wasn’t helping her. But the mom has a bf and a great house but the bf doesn’t want the girl living there so the mom took her bf’s side instead of her daughter’s. And if I didn’t live in a basement I would’ve let the girl move in with me. So many parents just truly destroying their kids lives. And then the kids have kids of their own and the cycle repeats.
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  39. I’ve heard this story many times, and it’s still makes me sob at all the things that she had to go through. And all I can say is that she wasn’t supposed to die. God had more plans for her.
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  40. Yeah I think Zack just snapped.
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  41. Every time hear of this case I sob just thinking of the utter terror and pain she had to under. I’ve had a gas handle pop out of my gas tank and spray me before it fell to the ground and the latch thing ( to allow me to fill my take hands free) disengaged. I was heading to work and the gasoline on my skin alone was painful. I wound up calling the ER of a local hospital and they said I had to get the clothes that were sprayed off me and wash my skin. Gasoline can give you chemical burns I was told and I could feel it. Luckily for me it was like a sunburn. So when that defense attorney was asking why she didn’t run away, I would think it’s because she has gas in her eyes ( chemically burning them), in her mouth ( more chemical burns) and even if she ran the fire would just follow her, as she drips gasoline trying to stumble ( not run) fast enough away. Besides who thinks their significant other is going to set them on fire??!? So glad the POS is in jail for life. I’m just sorry Judy had to go through what she did to get him there.
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  42.  @Vandolleyez  exactly!
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  43. Ugh! I hate guys who make you put the phone calls on speaker. My second husband would do that until I told him he get but out of my callls. But I have a bestie who she HAS TO let her bf listen to her calls. But then he complains he can’t hear the tv so she has to get off the phone. And when she’s tried using ear buds he says “If you do that you won’t hear if I need you.” So she isn’t allowed to even listen to music. My ex was a total asshole narcissistic abuser, but I was allowed to listen to music and he gave up trying to give me the 3rd degree over my talking on the phone. Oh and my friend’s bf said to her, after she moved in, “You will never be as good a woman as my ex. I loved her incredibly much. I don’t know if I can love you let alone a fraction as much.” Oh and when I got married to BOTH my now exes I told them “You ever hit me, even once, I WILL ✂️your 🍆 off. And they will NEVER find it.” Neither of the narcissists ever hit me. My self esteem was 💩, so I put up with a LOT of mental and verbal crap , but no damn way would I allow physical abuse.
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  44. Having a ROUGH DAY ( topped off by burning my thigh with boiling water) but it’s all better now that I can watch you, Danielle.
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  45.  @CalypsoRose6424  he really does looks so sad.
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  46. I agree! It should be consecutively! It’s sickens me, especially with the sexual cases, usually the ones involving children, where the perpetrator gets concurrent sentences. So they’re out in like six years. And they then go onto commit the same damn crime over and over and over
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  47. Danielle the Universal Life Church is an online “church” you send in money and get declared a minister/pastor/ or whatever. You can even buy documents for you to do Christenings and officiate at a wedding. I did that for my daughter and her husband. My abusive ex husband, when he heard I signed up to be one, also signed up and was talking about how he’d start a “church” and take “donations” for his “church”. Was talking about how he’d be like JZ Knight and other “prophets”. He moved to Alabama a few years back and it would not surprise me if he does start a church to bilk people out of their money. I signed up to do free weddings. Okay i would want a piece of wedding cake, but otherwise I wouldn’t charge for it. Same with christenings. I just wanted to do that for others in a crappy economy ( 2009). If I ever did start a church it would be about how God is Love. And we should try to share that message in our world.
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  48. Bryce is … well not remotely attractive IMO.
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  49.  @christinapugh8848  I really cannot comprehend it either. How can you look at another child or even some innocent person and think “Well my life was sh*tty, so I’m gonna make your life shitty or make your life end”? In second grade, while I was being routinely abused in all ways ( E, S, P and V) I turned looked at this disfigured boy who everyone ran from (calling him a monster) and saw him start to cry. And I walked back to him and asked if he wanted to play. And every recess that I saw him I’d play with him. For roughly a month. Then he didn’t come to school. But his mom did and said his heart gave out. And she thanked my mother ( the school called my mom in) that I was friends with him. That it meant so much to her that he would come home talking about the things we played. My mom told me about how the mom praised my mom for raising such a sweet girl. My mom after telling me that said “Guess you CAN be a good girl. Just not for me.” After that boy I didn’t allow bullying around me. Through all my school years I would stick up for kids and nearly got beat up, but I would have taken it to stop that particular kid from having fear. Even for a day. Never got asked out. Well except in 6th grade. But after that my stepdad ( one of my abusers) said there was no dating ever. He came in my life at the end of 6th grade because my mom knew he was a pedo ( she worked with his current stepdaughter/victim) and knew he preferred young teen girls. And I was 12. And my mom didn’t want to have to work to support her kids. The trade worked perfectly for her. When he died he left her a million dollars, a large motorhome and 3 bedroom house all paid for. Completely. Would be nice if I was compensated. But then I’d feel like the words my mom used to yell at me starting at 6yo.
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  50.  @emilylowe2416  thank you. I used to be told to never EVER share family business. That was one of the main things I broke. I share with anyone. Not out of a “whoa’s me” attitude but because I think that depravity has to be dragged into the light and people need to know it is going on maybe in the house right next door.
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