Comments by "Denise Bacher" (@denisebacher5040) on "Danielle Kirsty" channel.

  1.  @stephaniekrug5594  neither do I.
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  2. Hurray! It’s a Danielle video!🥳🥳 Those poor women! What a sick perv! Ooo I read that he is in his 70’s now.
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  3. 😂😂😂
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  4. Yeah, it truly is traumatizing for sexual abuse survivor. Having been one it’s very hard. I’ve seen females and males. I can’t say that one is better than the other. Having had a female midwife sexually abuse me after I gave birth to my last child. It’s still something I replay in my mind 25 years later. But I did complain about her and I never had to see her again so that was beneficial.
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  5. Her parents were just ashamed of their imperfect child. They didn’t want her embarrassing them so they probably gave her Benadryl or other things to keep her inside the house. Until she became afraid of going outside. Then they realized they created a monster and discussed it with the doctor. But that fear of the embarrassment was too much to allow Lacey to go to an asylum. “I mean someone could gossip!! “ Just cannot have that when you have political aspirations. So they just decided to ignore the issue. Probably started ignoring her altogether. Thats how the mom had absolutely no idea how old her daughter was. Soon they didn’t need to even put the Disney flicks on because Lacey was too sick to care anyway, but they’re so used to ignoring her they don’t notice. I can say this all because my nephew is autistic. 23 years old and he watches Elmo’s World on repeat. And if he spills water on himself he will strip himself naked wherever he is. Or he will loudly call to every male “Hey John!!!” ( there’s a few of these in his life so I guess he figures every man is named John) Because in his brain he can. Luckily my late brother and my sister in law would distract him easily. But now it falls to my SIL and I’m not adverse to glaring at people who give judgmental looks. And my SIL keeps him involved in everything she can to get him out of the house. ( that will end soon though because I guess people figure autistic people only get to 23 and then they don’t need services) My advice to the state of Louisiana, throw these adults ( can’t really call them parents) in a very deep but very small hole. See how they like being confined to one spot for decades!
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  6. I COMPLETELY agree! While I understand she ultimately did kill Lisa herself she was brainwashed.
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  7. Danielle you truly could have just posted on the community that you were ill. Heck you didn’t need to post anything at all because we would have supported you. And waited until you were back. I’m glad you’re recovering. ❤️‍🩹 Change of subject is it bad I want to get caught up in the story of a serial killer rather than see more stories of women, children and the elderly in Israel being kidnapped and abused?! I am just crying seeing those videos
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  8. I feel so sorry for Cari’s family.
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  9. I saw the title for this and I groaned. Having heard this story before I was loathe to visit it again. It makes me sob for Tim and his family. But at the same time I want to be supportive to you, Danielle, so I knew I had to watch it. And I did two days later playing a game on my phone so I wouldn’t pay close attention to it. But when you mentioned Tim’s mom being at work I started to sob again. ( I’m doing it again as I type this because I just cannot fathom the level of shock and pain … It scares me that Vince is out there free. I have a sister that’s much like her. She had a great job and home and a daughter. But she had also been diagnosed with bi polar paranoid ( or something to that extent). Well she decided to go off her meds and she went downhill quickly. Now she jumps around from womens shelter to womens shelter all across America and leaves as soon as she perceives someone works for the government ( they never are) because she is sure the government thinks she’s a Russian spy. Her daughter has a beautiful son but my sister never sees him because of her paranoia. And she gets worse because she will not take meds.
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  10. Does anyone else wish they could have a Time Machine so they could go rescue children like Timothy or the other victims of these true crimes?! I hear the horrific torture and I just want so badly to go back in time and stop it. Like I’d stop Paul from being abused. Heck I’d stop Shanda from being abused. Because no child should go through abuse. I don’t forgive Paul or Shanda for their actions against Timothy though. Because they KNOW what it’s like to be abused so why would they want someone they’re supposed to love to go through it? But I would stop their abuse. If only so Timothy had better family.
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  11. Hi, Danielle! I have If You Tell in my queue on my library app. I used to have Audible but I’m unemployed so library is how I roll for now. I’m counting Bill and all the other men she was with in that list of Sheila’s victims.
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  12. Oh same! My stomach is cast iron to hearing disgusting things. My emotions aren’t but my stomach is. Now if you want to make me sick… sour milk… does it every time. I worked as a nurse. Seen some bad things. Raised 5 kids. And the only things that make me hurl are stomach bugs and someone leaving milk out.
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  13. Is he really the most dangerous man? Seems to me if you’re not a pedophile you have absolutely nothing to worry about! Sure he pickpocketed but that is only “dangerous “ to the victims’ finances. Plus how is he dangerous when after his kills he turns himself in?!? I’m a victim of CSA ( as well as physical and emotional) and I want to send him letters and give him a hug. Damn sensational journalism! There are WAY worse people who should be locked up like this. Like ANY of the moms you’ve spoken about who tortured their kids. Or the monsters that tortured the young girls and guys for days and days. THOSE people are who need to be locked away forever in a dark hole. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼Thank you, Robert, for getting rid of trash! You just said, about the sexual predators in prison, “Who knows when they’ll get out”, and my only thoughts were “That is the point of Robert killing them. They now can never get out. Sex offenders do not rehabilitate. So they could get out at 76 and still feel those stirrings for their victims. And, if their victim of choice is a child, kindly grandpas, with some candy, appear harmless to children.
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  14. And jailing people for “mean tweets”. Now I’m not for hurting people’s feelings or racist talk. But THIS guy…. This POS has spent nearly his whole life harming people bodily (not to mention mentally ) and gets let out! And the cops seemed to have been on his side because he went all that time sexually and physically assaulting women and children and the cops were absolutely CLUELESS and ineffectual.
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  15. When my abusive now ex husband left me ( and our daughter) and none of my family would help me, I rented rooms with an elderly woman and her elderly renter. When I moved in the house was pretty similar. In the pantry there was a bag of cat food that rats got into and peed and pooped on and the mold grew over. Bugs crawling everywhere in other foods. Rabbit and cat messes everywhere. The smell assailed you. Looked like rats had been getting to newspapers on the end tables as there were pellets( different than the rabbit) and pee stains that had seeped through to the wood. Dishes in the sink were moldy. When my landlady moved out she threw out everything and it took her 17 trips to the dump to get rid of all of it. And I had deep cleaned 5 years before. I would sob as I cleaned because I couldn’t believe my life had fallen to that. But one thing I can tell you about hoarders is they are mentally unstable. My landlady would wipe her butt with wipes and throw them away. All fine. But she’d never take out the trash. The mound would go up one side of the toilet and down the other before she had the wipes on the windowsill behind the toilet. And she bathed and dressed in that room. Got ready for church in there. How she even could walk in the door… I would leave trash bags on the counter and she’d leave them there or push them aside. So I would have to leave them on the toilet or wrap the box of wipes with them. And I won’t even go into her bed and the moldy dishes. She’d just buy new plastic dishes and cutlery every week. But never threw away the old stuff. Just stacked it on her bed. Which she slept on. All this shared to say I do believe Erica was just mentally gone. She probably checked out after the abuse of her 10 year old and each additional pregnancy where the level of stress was astronomical because she didn’t want Raymond to leave her but she also didn’t want a beating from him. So she disassociates with her pregnancies ( oh and I agree that Raymond wanted no condom) and can’t see them with any love because she’s not supposed to have them. Yes she’s to blame but I’m viewing her mental collapse on Raymond.
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  16. I remember this case! I remember being at work and discussing it with my coworker. And especially discussing that there were people saying Jayme was in on the murders and abduction. I was outraged.
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  17. Good thought. I looked in the book came out in 1992. So we have to go back to when this. “Doctor” started treating patients. But I’m sure he’s not the only one.
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  18. Does anyone else listen to these stories and wish time travel was possible because I do. Every single story you tell, Danielle, I wish I could travel through time and stop these atrocities. Kind of like the show Quantum Leap. I just want to save all these victims.
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  19. I’m so glad you said what I was thinking. Even though she was abused and her parents didn’t care, she is still responsible for her actions. You would think with mom having gone through her own abuse she’d be there for her girls. Especially when her 12 year old daughter is leaving for long periods of time. Poor Elizabeth. I mean both girls, but you really can hear the pain in her voice when she was talking to Doctor Phil.
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  20. Are we getting the story that Seth could do no wrong from reliable sources? Or is it Amy? Because, remember, she thinks she’s being put upon by EVERYONE. Kid next door on a guitar is a “rock band”. Ice cream man is driving down her road to psychologically harm her kids ( were they actually lactose intolerant or was that just her not wanting them to eat ice cream?). So excuse me if I sincerely doubt she was mistreated by her parents.
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  21. My daughter, who is now 25, was on Kik and a male did this. He presented as male though. But he was talking to my daughter, her friend from school and her friend who lived in Canada. He said he was 13 like them and said he wanted to see their boobs. Her school friend said “okay” and sent. The Canadian friend said “F off!” My daughter, who ALWAYS used social media sitting next to me, told me, and I said “He’s not a minor. Tell him to F off like Deanna. And tell Isabel she better go tell her mom or I will!” I then got a Kik account and sought him out and sent him a message that I was onto his ass and he’d do well to get off the app. My girls weren’t allowed to be on an app if I didn’t have the password to the app and I also then had an account on the app. In fact, when my daughter made a TikTok account she took my phone and put it on my phone and made me an account, because she knew the rules. And she was 18 at the time!🤣 She’s 25, living on her own, and I even have the passcode to her phone and her PIN for her bank. And she knows those things of mine. No secrets. I’m not that close with my other 4 daughters but they knew I was only doing those things to keep them safe.
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  22. Praying for all those adult childhood survivors. Truly horrific. This is when I truly like believing in a place called Hell because I know on my heart Anne and the rest of those atrocious cult members are there roasting.
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  23. I did not notice anything wrong with your last video. I have to add this. It’s funny that you talk about how the children are clean and the house is clean. I had CPS come to my door to investigate my children , because somebody had called in that I had {shocking }laundry in front of the washing machine and {horrifying }dishes in my sink . Not kidding that’s why they came out. Oh and my potty training toddler smelled like urine. So whoever saw my child it was at a time when my child probably had an accident in her underwear. (They didn’t have pull-ups at that time.)
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  24. Exactly! She is not one of those oh look I’ve got these new things, ever since she got more popular. I’ve watched many YouTube creators and they get to feeling like they’re a celebrity. And I get to where I don’t want to watch them ever again.
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  25. It is reprehensible to make money off the backs of children. Welcome back, Danielle!
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  26.  @mausilw  Are you thinking of the Preppy Murder in NYC? Jennifer Levin raped and murdered by Robert Chambers and the press talked about her sexual history.
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  27. You’ll find that cuter want to believe that they’re pulling them all over people’s eyes. They think they’re so ingenious that they’re doing so to the point that they do not think that their significant other is stepping out. People if your significant other cannot remain faithful to you, and you don’t have an open marriage, kick them to the curb My second husband, a narcissistic asshole, started an affair. I confronted him and he, of course, said I was “crazy”, until he told me that he was gonna leave me to go on a vacation with her for a month and then he’d come back to me. He actually believed I would be OK with that because he was abusive. My inner tigress came out and I told him to “get the f*ck out” of my house and divorced his ass. It was absolutely the best move I made. And I’ve never regretted it. He felt he could cheat and I felt he couldn’t. There’s no reason to fight over them or want to do harm to the person that they are having an affair with. It’s the cheaters’s fault for doing that disrespectful act to you. Have some self-respect kick him to the curb.
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  28. Exactly my thoughts! I saw how long the video was and I was like “Yes!!!!”
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  29.  @Triaanx28  weird I’ve never had that done.
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  30. I have never had that done. And I would’ve been weirded out by it as well. Seems like that’s the kind of thing that they should tell you is going to happen before they just start doing it.
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  31.  @cptsteele91  made perfect sense to me, but then I was actually married to 2 narcissists. The 2nd husband was way worse than the first. They both had me constantly suicidal. No physical abuse. Just atrocious head games. And I went into both relationships think they were truly the greatest guys. (Love bombing at its finest)
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  32. Well I, for one, knew VERY little about the case beyond that her mom had Gypsy and everyone else convinced that Gypsy was very ill and that when Gypsy found out she got her bf to kill her mom. So I’m glad you did this video because now I won’t watch anything else about it.
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  33. I agree wholeheartedly. My second husband was carrying on an affair for roughly 4 months. I was getting suspicious because he’d say he was going to Walmart, ask me if I need him to get things and I’d tell what was needed and he’d be gone 3-5 hours and come home with nothing. Then he’d say he went to Harbor Freight first ( kind of a hardware/tool store ) and forgot about Walmart. But he didn’t buy anything at HF either to show for being gone 3-5 hours. Another time he said he was leaving but, when I went into the garage to get meat out of the freezer, he’s in my car. In the backseat just staring at me looking like a raccoon who got into the garbage. I wait for him to get out and he finally does and he’s angry with ME! When I accused him of cheating he said I was crazy and started this rampage of putting me down every night. And he said would explain away phone calls and absences by saying he was talking with a friend. “You are so crazy! Are you that pathetically insecure?! It is just conversations with a friend!!” Finally he came to me and told me “Okay I’m going to go spend a month with her. When I get back, we will know where we…” I told him there was “NO f**king ‘WE’” and for him to get out of of the house and NEVER come back. The one thing I said to her was, after finding out who she was from her Facebook account, I saw she considered herself a devout Christian. So I sent her a message asking her if she remembered the Bible’s stand on adultery. That was it. All my anger was for him. But even then I paced all his crap up and put it all in his car. Okay I did pretty much a factory reset on his computer. He had changed the password ( he thought he was so smart), but google helped me figure out the backdoor around that . I removed all family photos I needed onto a thumb drive reset his Facebook password and then wiped the drives of everything non essential to logging in. And that was it. I told my daughter to be respectful to the woman and my daughter was for a long time until it was obvious the woman actually wanted nothing to do with my daughter. He and she NEVER let my daughter spend the night. Woman didn’t even come to my daughter’s graduation where she was valedictorian. Nor did either come to her college graduation where she got a bachelor’s degree in microbiology ( studied stuff to work at the CDC). Only animosity I have for that woman is all the slights to my daughter after the divorce. Her cheating with him I was angry with him for. Because he was too much of a coward to tell the truth.
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  34. I have heard this story many times now and every time I think, “Well the grandparents didn’t really do all that much in the beginning. Not really.” Throwing money into a home run by a drug addict was like tossing gasoline on a fire. Taking the kids AWAY from their daughter so Alyssa didn’t have to be the adult at 7 or 8 would have been far more helpful. But they didn’t. They’d come by and see their grandkids living in squalor and expect their daughter to just see the light?!? I know they didn’t kill Elizabeth but they DID fail Alyssa in her formative years. And yes I can easily say that because while my parents weren’t drug addicts their were family members of mine who know I was being s3xually, physically, verbally and mentally ab*sed and they did nothing. Maybe have me down their house every now and again? What do I could see that I really am horrific because my cousins weren’t treated that way. ( in fact one of my cousins SOLD me at 9yo to 3 friends to do with as they wanted). Now I didn’t go on to k*ll anyone, nor did I ever think it, but I could have. And then everyone would just talk about how I listened to this kind of music and love horror movies so is it any wonder? While not asking “WHY didn’t anyone step in?!”
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  35. Edit: Poor Sophie! And her family! Oh and poor Mark taking that guilt on when he did not even know Sophie. Sabrina should burn in Hell. Sam too, because there’s no excuse for his involvement! But definitely Sabrina. Can I say how much I LOVE that you say their birthdate and then give their astrological sign! Because I’m my head I do that whenever someone tells me their birthday! “I was born July 13...” and in my mind I think “Ah a cancer. Water sign.” I’m a Pisces myself. Ack! You just asked how many of us know about Boyzone and I instantly raised my hand and then I started waving my hand in front of my face when you shared “No Matter What”! I LOVE that song! I will listen to it it over and over!
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  36. 19 years?!?! She’s going to get out and still be fairly young and the Crown will give her a new identity ( as they always do for these POS) and she will scam new vulnerable people.
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  37. Danielle, do you think you could do the murder of Channon Christian and Christopher Newsom? I feel you will be so compassionate of the victims and their families.
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  38. I love your makeup looks!
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  39.  @mestillme3026 ​​⁠ No surprise there. CPS regularly fails children.
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  40. I had a midwife who did that to me. Saw her one time, 25 years ago, would never go back. I complained about her in an email. I still 25 years later get that kinda PTSD feeling when I think about her. And I have cPTSD from childhood SA. But I’ve also seen many OB/GYN’s and midwives so I knew what she was doing was wrong.
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  41. Kendra’s death hurts so much more than Ricky and her friends and family! All those people she so generously gave free dental care to out of the goodness of her heart… and you just know that she’d have been an incentive to Ricky to donate his time to help people with skin issues, like cancer but also growths like Dr Sandra Lee does. All those people who do not have healthcare and are very poor lost a very important person when Kendra died. But hopefully Ricky starts helping out where he can in honor of her.
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  42. So adults failed children again! I’m sorry but I so definitely would NOT allow my daughter to marry her father! I’d have been calling the prosecuting attorney, my senator, whomever to get his ass arrested for having sex with his daughter. I definitely would not be celebrating him marrying her. But then Alyssa’s parents let her down by allowing her, at 15 years old to start having sex with and moving in with an older guy. NOPE! Only parent who did something right was his other victim, Alyssa.
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  43. YES!! I had to google if it was when I heard it!!
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  44. From the wounds to the genitals I do believe Christine did at least those wounds because of jealousy. Especially of Rachel having been with Chris. Most likely Rachel and Chris had a hook up before he met Christine. Oh and that title, “Miss Irresistible” is definitely bizarre. Plus I was always defending people who were being bullied. I wasn’t popular by any means and I had a crappy home life ( abuse of every kind - you name it it happened- since I was 6) but protecting others was my goal in life at that time. Never one bf or even being asked for a date. Not that my parents would’ve let me do either. I say all this to say Christine’s life may have been crappy but she chose to be a monster.
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  45. I’m less than 10 minutes into your video and I agree that bullying has serious consequences on the people being bullied. My youngest was 13 when we switched schools for the 3rd time on her. That didn’t seem to be detrimental to her. We’d have her friends from her last school down on weekends or she’d stay with them. But she started in 7th grade and her second day she was accosted by girls trying to be Regina Georges. They asked her where she was from, complimented her hair and other inanities. Then the Queen Regina asked her “So do you have a crush on any of the boys?” My daughter explained to her that because it was her second day in a new school she didn’t know anybody. Regina said “ Oh, so you’re a lesbian! That’s all you had to say, sweetie! I don’t think we’ve had any lesbians here in this school. Or the district.” And with that to Regina‘s locked away, and then the bullying started. Shoving her into lockers, tripping her spitting on her, shoving her as they’re running track. And so many more physical things. The mental abuse was even worse and all those physical things were only done, at first, by girls. The boys were doing sexual, physical and mental things. She’d come home pleading to never go back. This from a daughter who used to plead to go school when she was sick. Who was class president in every year of her elementary. Who volunteered for all projects the school had. I’d go down and be yelling at school staff but nothing was changing. And my husband was caught up in an affair he was having so he had checked out of parenting ( my daughter and I had no idea about the affair). If I pushed him to get involved he’d yell at me that she just needed to toughen up. Years later he’d say he didn’t remember at all that she was being bullied and said I made it up. 🙄😑 My daughter’s home room/science teacher even joined in . She had badly sprained her ankle and couldn’t participate in PE. PE teacher is okay with that and tells her to just do her homework. A week into my daughter’s sprain ( her pediatrician said to keep it braced for 3 weeks and come back because they couldn’t really tell if there was a break because her foot was so very swollen), the science teacher comes in and would make snide remarks at her about not participating. Didn’t care about her not or her ankle brace. And I again had to go down and go off on office staff. Soon I decided to homeschool her. Her grades had slipped from perfect to B’s and that upset her as well. I homeschooled her to the rest seventh and high school, and then she decided she wanted to go back to a brick and mortar school as they’re called and she graduated valedictorian. Got a full scholarship. Graduated college with high grades. But she never got over the social anxiety or regular anxiety or truly doubting herself that she developed from all that bullying . She just called me last night having just got off work. She works in a lab doing research and she was just sobbing about how she knows she did everything wrong. I said “But you say this everytime and it is not all wrong like you think. It’s because she just doesn’t have the confidence to say “I did the best job, performing just as I was showed.” She’s never dated. Girls or guys because of her anxiety. And all of it breaks my heart.
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  46. I am more than sure that Kevin started grooming Sabrina specifically TO get her to murder his wife. He manipulates her into thinking “Yeah Lisa doesn’t like me. She always takes her ‘real’ daughters side over mine. Only Kevin cares about me.” Then he starts the sexual intimacy and talks about how they could be a family, which he has to know Sabrina MUST be craving a real family of her own, and she’s got “daddy issues” ( what abused young girl doesn’t?) So, while I see that Sabrina is to blame, this was ALWAYS his end goal. Kill Lisa without actually having to do the work. Then he gets nearly a million dollars and, in his disgusting plan, Sabrina goes to jail while he just gets rich. Oh and I think Sabrina stabbed Lisa like she did because of Kevin “crying”. At least that’s why she starts off so viciously , IMO. Just Kevin’s manipulations running through her head as she’s doing something she DIDN’T want to do. So I would say that 90% of the blame here is ALL Kevin. He knew the buttons to push to get Sabrina to be his terminator. Yes Sabrina did kill Lisa, but she was a victim as well.
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  47. The way to determine if he was faking would be did he do it in court and is he still doing it while in prison. If he’s faking he can’t keep it up indefinitely.
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  48. Yeah I think if one of my friends when I was a teen had said that I would be informing someone.
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  49. More than likely Lana probably wouldn’t sleep with him. And he probably got agitated, doing a lot of “Do you know who I am” BS. And she probably said “Look I’m gonna go. Thank you for the drink.” And he said “No! You can’t leave! I’m Phil Spector!!” And then he shot her.
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  50. I had never heard of this case! But then I don’t see the purpose of TikTok. I guess it’s just the new Kik.
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