Comments by "" (@vvcc-kg9dp) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. I don’t want to attend matchmaking events. They make no sense. It feels like shopping for a product.
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  2. Why should men pay for entry when women get in free? It shows that men are still seen as "providers" and women as the "prize." Until that changes, I doubt the attendance will improve.
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  3. Marriage shouldn't be a transaction. If the bride's family values money more than the relationship, it's better for the guy to move on. Why should a man spend his life paying off a debt just to get married?
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  4. To be honest, age is a huge factor. No matter how capable you are, men are naturally attracted to youth.
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  5. It’s not that we don’t want to date beautiful women, but the maintenance costs are simply too high.
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  6. Why would I waste my time chasing women who only care about money and looks? Video games give me real satisfaction without the drama!
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  7. Why do Chinese men choose foreign women? Many people say it's an 'overseas study' fantasy, but that's not the case. What Chinese men value is not just foreign women's looks, but their sincere attitude toward family and marriage.
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  8. Over thirty and still demanding 'tall, rich, and handsome'—isn't that a bit unrealistic?
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  9. It’s a harsh reality—losing a job at forty makes it almost impossible to find employment again, especially in major cities. We worked tirelessly in our youth, only to find we lack competitiveness in middle age. This society truly feels heartless.
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  10. Why is it "reasonable" when women make high demands, but when men set conditions, they are accused of "dreaming big"? Isn't marriage supposed to be a two-way choice?
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  11. A 600,000 yuan dowry is an insult to men. Are we just marrying for money?
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  12. She divorced just because her bestie said so? Where’s her own judgment?"
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  13. A man asking for a premarital checkup isn't distrust, it's about protecting himself!
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  14. Honestly, the standards of older women in choosing partners are often disconnected from reality. They missed good opportunities and still expect everything to align with their ideals.
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  15. The reality is, when a man is poor, even having dreams is a mistake.
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  16. Why does marriage feel like a transaction now? The bride price makes me feel like I’m buying someone, not marrying a loved one.
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  17. These so-called "leftover women" have no one to blame but themselves for ending up in this situation. It was their own choice, and now they must taste the bitter fruit of it.
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  18. The husband's stance is understandable—divorce means moving on separately. Her demands seem a bit excessive.
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  19. We don't need to be married to be happy. Society's pressure to marry is outdated. I'm happier living alone.
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  20. Many women had unrealistically high standards when they were younger, thinking they could wait for something better. Now they regret it—who's to blame?
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  21. I’m tired of hearing how men are expected to carry all the burden. What about the women’s role?
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  22. This mother's behavior is so selfish. She abandoned her kids for 16 years and now wants them to take care of her. It's not that simple!
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  23. A woman over 40 still asking for a 390,000 yuan bride price? She must be dreaming. The reality is men don’t pay for 'expired goods'.
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  24. Matchmaking agencies are businesses, not miracle workers. If a woman at 40 is still dreaming of a prince, isn’t that her own issue?
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  25. Flight attendants are attractive, but is their lifestyle really compatible with marriage?
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  26. If a man brought 23 relatives to a blind date, would the woman be willing to pay?
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  27. Totally agree! Handing over money to your wife to manage is risky, once something goes wrong, you have nothing left. Men should maintain their independence.
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  28. A 43-year-old woman with all these expectations? She’s living in a dream world.
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  29. Women born in the '80s who are still single now have to taste the bitter fruit of their own choices. There's no other way, many times it's the result of their own actions.
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  30. If marriage means raising someone else's kids for 16 years, what's the point of getting married at all?
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  31. This new marriage law is a win for men! Finally, we won't get robbed in a divorce.
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  32. I love fitness, but I wouldn’t let my wife go to the gym alone. Not because I’m controlling, but because of the environment in most gyms.
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  33. If you're a "leftover woman," would you still stick to your high standards? The male resources in the matchmaking market are shrinking, while the demands are getting higher.
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  34. The man didn't want to pay because he saw through this dating scam. These women are just looking for a free meal ticket, not genuine companionship.
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  35. How can anyone respect a family that sees their daughter as a commodity to be sold? It’s one thing to show respect, but demanding an astronomical bride price is just exploitation.
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  36. You're already 40, and you're still being picky? Be realistic.
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  37. Once women hit their 30s, they rush to find younger guys to relive their youth. Unfortunately, young men might not even be interested, times have changed.
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  38. 1,000 women waiting for men at a matchmaking event, yet not a single man showed up. What does this tell you? Men have seen through the game and refuse to be suckers anymore!
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  39. This is not just a love story, but a powerful testament to the courage of pursuing happiness.
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  40. The biggest problem for older leftover women is their mindset. On one hand, they want love, but on the other, they are unwilling to let go of past prejudices and fantasies.
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  41. Some women over 40 think they can still demand a man who has a six-figure income and a perfect body. But the reality is, most men in that league prefer younger women. It’s tough, but it’s the truth.
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  42. Women complain about rich guys yet crave their resources and connections. Isn’t that a bit contradictory?
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  43. Many times, women do not cherish their husbands when they have them and treat them poorly. It is only after divorce, when they encounter worse men, that they realize how good their husbands were, but by then, they have already lost the person who loved them the most.
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  44. A wife bought with a bride price can't possibly be loyal to you. Marriage is built on love, not money.
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  45. This case makes me question marriage. Marriage should be a commitment between two people, not a transaction.
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  46. If it were me, I wouldn’t attend either. After all, I know it would just be a waste of money, and those women wouldn’t be interested in me. Why should I go and humiliate myself?
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  47. Women always say men love to watch beauties, but if you keep deceiving with filters, what can we trust?
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  48. This woman is clearly committing marriage fraud. Divorcing after just a few days and refusing to return the bride price? The law should severely punish such behavior!
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  49. Russian women don't ask for too much from men. They value emotions and family more, unlike some Chinese women who list all their demands clearly before marriage.
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  50. Instead of complaining about our gaming, why not ask yourself why we prefer the virtual world to real-life interactions?
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