Comments by "" (@vvcc-kg9dp) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. Seeing their happy family of four makes me feel that the meaning of love and family truly transcends borders.
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  2. Marriage is about equality, not financial dictatorship. No man should feel like an ATM in his own home.
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  3. Older women who think they’re still competitive are just fooling themselves.
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  4. Let’s be real. If you think spending money is the way to show love, then you’ve got the wrong idea about relationships.
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  5. Why waste money on nightclub girls when you can find genuine companionship elsewhere?
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  6. Married for 3 hours and the bride ran away? This isn’t marriage, it’s legalized robbery!”
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  7. Beauty filters create an illusion, but reality always catches up. Better to face the truth early.
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  8. If you're willing to offer a bride price, doesn't that mean men are actually the 'scarce resource'?"
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  9. Paternity tests should be mandatory in all marriages. If you have nothing to hide, why refuse it?
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  10. Men deserve respect too. Stop using tests and demands to measure love.
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  11. When a Simp gives everything, he ends up with nothing. It’s time for men to wake up.
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  12. It's reasonable that companies choose not to hire modern women. Many women are too focused on individualism nowadays and ignore the value of teamwork.
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  13. She rejected that man who was chasing her back then. Looking back now, it’s such a pity.
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  14. Some women set high standards for partners, only realizing in their 30s that they've missed many opportunities. They’re reaping what they sow.
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  15. This is because many married men lose themselves in marriage, especially when facing family pressures, financial burdens, and conflicts with their spouse. If marriage is only about stress, who would want to get married?
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  16. Why is it always men who have to provide, earn money, and buy a house? Are women only responsible for "being beautiful"? Isn't marriage supposed to be a partnership?
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  17. Sounds like she values her friend's opinion more than her own boyfriend. In that case, maybe she's not ready for a relationship
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  18. Crossing borders and cultures just to be with each other, this kind of love is so beautiful.
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  19. She ignored her responsibilities as a mother for 30 years, and now she demands her children take care of her? Motherly love isn’t automatic, and neither is responsibility!
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  20. It's rare for a girlfriend to stick around, but a man has to be able to support a family. Can this kind of life truly make her happy?
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  21. Without beauty filters, would these streamers still have an audience?
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  22. Women keep complaining about being urged to marry, but don’t men also want to marry someone who’s less picky?
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  23. Can taking wedding photos alone really bring happiness? This type of romance seems more like self-consolation to me.
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  24. Most of us just want a peaceful life. Marriage and kids? Too much pressure. I'd rather play games and enjoy life alone.
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  25. If a couple has come to the point where they are arguing over every penny like this, it really doesn't make any sense.
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  26. This video really opened my eyes. I’ve been to places where the bill was ridiculously high, but I didn’t realize it was a scam. I guess I was just too embarrassed to leave. It’s messed up that men are expected to pay for everything, but now I know better.
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  27. Demanding 1 million yuan in compensation, is this what we call “standing up for oneself”?
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  28. Why should I pay for everything just because I'm a man? If she's truly independent, she should be able to pay her own bills!
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  29. Marriage requires a house, a car, and a huge dowry. If you don’t have money, you’re not even qualified for a blind date. Instead of going into debt for marriage, staying single is the better choice!
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  30. If these women don’t genuinely give their hearts to men, they shouldn't expect true sincerity from men either. When they grow old, they will regret it.
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  31. At 39, shouldn't you be more realistic? Love isn't a CEO romance from a novel.
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  32. As a girl, I just want to say that if you are too demanding on a boy, or even deliberately let him spend more money for you, it will be you who will be hurt in the end.
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  33. I do think 30 is a career ‘bottleneck’ for women, but it's not something that can’t be changed.
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  34. Mr. Wang has been more than forgiving to Ms. Li, but she still doesn’t appreciate it. Instead, she returns with anger and jealousy. No matter how good a man is, he can’t keep tolerating this.
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  35. Not every man minds age, but for women over 35 who are still single, it does make one wonder why.
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  36. I understand why young people don't want to get married. It's hard enough to maintain your own life, let alone support a family.
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  37. These tests will only push the relationship towards a breakdown. Trust is the foundation of any relationship, not constant tests.
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  38. I chose not to marry because I've seen too many failed marriages. Marriage is no longer about two people; it's become an economic transaction. Instead of risking it, I'd rather enjoy the freedom of being single.
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  39. Parents are indeed the people who love you the most, and they often worry about your marriage more sincerely than anyone else. When they urge you to get married, it's for your own good. However, many older single women often find their parents annoying and bothersome. Only when your parents pass away will you regret it; when you are alone and grow old in solitude, you will realize how much you hurt parents who loved you so deeply.
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  40. Not working is a personal freedom, but how does society view women who make this choice?
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  41. If you had focused on marriage and children when you were younger, maybe you wouldn't be struggling now.
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  42. I’m willing to give for the person I love, but I don’t want to treat love as a material exchange. Love should be based on understanding and mutual respect, not money.
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  43. If Chinese women weren't so focused on material wealth, maybe more men would choose to stay. It's not just about love anymore."
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  44. The leftover women seem to really regret it only when they reach their 50s. Then they will realize the loneliness once they enter a nursing home.
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  45. If being single for too long leads to mental instability, isn’t it a personal responsibility to address it?
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  46. 1,500 yuan to get married? That’s not even enough to rent a wedding dress!
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  47. What kind of man doesn’t touch his wife for five years? What is he thinking?
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  48. If a woman isn't even willing to go through a premarital health check, how much trust is left? Isn't marriage supposed to be built on honesty? If she has nothing to hide, why is she so afraid?
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  49. I fully support the husband's demand for the return of the bride price. Marriage is not a transaction, why should it be treated as one?
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  50. It’s hard to believe that a woman with such high standards can expect to find someone who meets all her requirements. She’ll be single forever.
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