Comments by "" (@vvcc-kg9dp) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. Men are tired of being treated like walking ATMs. If you want equality, why not share the financial burden in marriage?
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  2. What’s the point of such a marriage? Why not just divorce sooner?
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  3. Are young people not getting married because they don't want to or because they can't afford to?
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  4. Honest men always end up as backup options. Women prefer men who keep them guessing, not those who are upfront from the start.
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  5. Women demand us to buy houses and cars, but are they willing to share life’s burdens? Marriage isn’t a transaction!
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  6. Playing games is my only escape from daily stress. I don’t see anything wrong with it. It’s my way of unwinding.
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  7. Some people treat going abroad as an escape, not an opportunity. What you need to realize is that going abroad could also mean starting over.
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  8. Why should we men sign a prenuptial agreement that is unfair to us? Marriage should be based on trust and love, not on splitting assets before it even begins. If there are so many conditions upfront, is it still called marriage?
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  9. I think a woman in her 30s with a man in his 20s is bound to face clashes in viewpoints. Different life experiences — there’s bound to be a generation gap, isn’t there?
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  10. Urban folks mock rural banquet culture, but urban weddings costing hundreds of thousands—aren’t those worse?
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  11. Can the bride price really represent a family's wealth? If it can, then this society is unworthy of discussing love.
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  12. You must cherish your husband. After all, it is not easy to build a family, and divorce will hurt the children too much. And the first one is often the best.
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  13. The car sales industry is so competitive, and some salespeople might let their principles slide just to hit targets.
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  14. Being 30 without friends is not just a personal issue, it's a societal problem. With today's cutthroat competition, men simply don’t have time to build friendships!
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  15. Hearing female drivers complain about low income, I honestly think they should switch industries. If they can’t handle ride-hailing, they should try something else.”
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  16. Many women prefer mature men. Does this mean young guys truly lack appeal? It seems like only financial stability can capture their attention.
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  17. This story is truly heartbreaking! Some men just bring it upon themselves. Money can’t buy true love, it only buys "gold-diggers"!
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  18. Is such a high bride price really about selling their daughter? Marriage should be about two people's happiness, not a financial transaction.
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  19. I think this guy's actions are completely justified. After divorce, a man should have his own life and not be constantly controlled by his ex-wife. The real problem is that many women refuse to let go after divorce and try to control the ex-husband's life through the child. Honestly, some women have no sense of responsibility. Raising children should be a joint responsibility, but often it's the man who carries the whole burden.
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  20. A model’s life isn’t as glamorous as people think. The industry is brutal, especially for women. Once you age, you’re replaced. It’s like being thrown away.
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  21. Men today are being taken for granted. If we don’t provide everything, we’re seen as failures. Why is it always our responsibility to make women’s lives better?
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  22. The pressure in society is increasing, especially during times of economic downturn. Working for others is no longer a foolproof solution; you never know when your boss might lay you off. I think the last point makes a lot of sense: the smart approach is to sell your skills directly without relying on your boss.
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  23. Some women are too greedy, and young girls have much lower material requirements.
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  24. The government and developers keep passing the buck, but it's the ordinary people who suffer in the end. How much longer can this model continue?
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  25. If a man is willing to spend money on you, it's because he loves you. You spent so much of his money but don’t plan to marry him—it’s clearly taking advantage of him. This behavior is totally unfair.
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  26. Maybe it's time women realize that relying on a man isn't always a bad thing. Independence is great, but when the economy hits hard, having a partner can provide stability.
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  27. After watching this video, I feel like these women's confessions are just seeking sympathy. Don't they want to make more positive changes in their lives?
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  28. Western countries don’t have bride prices, but women receive spousal support after divorce. I wish China had similar legal protections.
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  29. Why do so many women rely on beauty filters instead of embracing their natural looks? If you’re confident in yourself, aging shouldn’t be such a big deal. Looks fade for everyone, but personality and character matter more!
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  30. It is indeed not easy for women, especially single mothers, but don’t ask for too much.
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  31. I understand that women in their 30s may want to focus on career and freedom, but have you considered what happens when you’re in your 40s or 50s and all your friends have settled down? Will you feel lonely then? Even with financial independence, emotional emptiness can be hard to fill.
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  32. I also want to start a business, but there is really no way out working for the boss all my life.
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  33. Seeing the delivery guy working so hard to save up, I wonder—can those who look down on service jobs work this hard?
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  34. Shouldn’t the men who spend money at nightlife venues reflect on their own actions too?
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  35. After reading it, I felt very angry. It's not that old people are bad, but that bad people are getting older. Girls must pay attention to safety
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  36. There is no doubt that driverless cars will really cause drivers to lose their jobs.
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  37. Thanks to the author for allowing me to see such a real video. I feel that the Chinese people in the Qing Dynasty were so indifferent and ignorant.
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  38. "As a woman, I believe these are their own choices. In fact, they haven't affected anyone else; it's their own decision. However, as they get older, they might regret it."
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  39. I think the anxiety of older unmarried women is not entirely without reason. Society has very harsh standards for women's appearance, especially when it comes to age. Men, on the other hand, face relatively less pressure, since we can still find partners as we age.
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  40. The career switch you talk about is very realistic, but if even programmers can't find suitable positions, who will dare to learn programming? Is programming really just for the young? This issue is worth pondering.
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  41. As an ordinary man, I think the demands of older single women for their partners are really too high! They want to find men who have houses, cars, and successful careers. Don’t we deserve understanding as well? Older single women, don’t just focus on your high standards; consider the feelings of ordinary men too! We also have our own life pressures and aspirations. Just because of our age, we shouldn’t be labeled as "hard to pursue." I sincerely hope we can all understand each other instead of just being overly critical!
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  42. Some women say being single is great, but deep down, they still desire marriage. It's just that their circumstances don't allow it.
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  43. Parents shouldn’t be this irresponsible. Anything could’ve happened to the child.
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  44. This is not love, it's strategic harvesting
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  45. If this happened to you, would you still accept the children?
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  46. This video really touched me. Society is changing rapidly, and so are perspectives on marriage. Both men and women are facing more complex choices and pressures. For many Chinese men, marriage is not just a personal decision but one that carries the expectations of family and society. For Chinese women, balancing independence with marriage brings its own set of challenges. I hope we can all show more understanding and compassion. No matter what choices are made, I hope everyone can find their own happiness.
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  47. The gate was smashed—just how big was this tiger?
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  48. I think this is a weakness of men — easily being deceived by a woman’s “gentleness.” Massage girls know exactly how to exploit this psychology, it's honestly painful.
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  49. Maybe society puts too much pressure on women to get married. If they were treated like men, they wouldn't feel this desperate.
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  50. Your requirements are too high! Not every man can meet these conditions.
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