Comments by "Elaine R" (@elainer8288) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. ​ @Cindybabe99 Sure. Cooking creates tradition and raising kids has value of course. But there is no reason for the wife of a rich man to spend her time cleaning. That's ridiculous. She'd better spend her time studying and working a job that she likes and developing her mind after the kids grow up a little, if they have kids.
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  2. ​ @eeaotly It is a amazing how they all seem to think a woman should be their maids. Raising kids and cooking can create value, traditions of course. But why not spend her time studying or working instead of cleaning if the guy has money? I'm amazed to see it seems no man care about having an intelligent woman with them. They prefer to have a submissive maid!
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  3. ​ @dancingrl7350  But I didn't say any rich man would marry a maid. That never happens. What I said is that I am shocked to see that a lot of men in these comments and in the video think an educated woman should be their maid even if the guy has money. I think cooking and child raisin has value, but if the guy is rich, he should pay a maid. And the woman should go back to working and studying when the kids grow up.
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  4. As a woman, I don't agree. Any pasdive-agressive approach doesn't work.
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  5. ​ @Gmmmgm  I agree.
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  6. We only really respect people who love us and have character. I agree.
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  7. ​ @hiannahgus574  Excellent.
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  8.  @jeffbetz7344  Sure! They are talking about psychopaths, not most people.
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  9. ​ @learncadadia7832  This is about psychopaths not women! Come on!
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  10. So make your course for women. Maybe a book like Steve Santagati's "The Manual". 😁 Teach us how to find a pattner that wants a woman who likes to read and does not want a submissive servant. Women want a partner and a best friend, not a boss.
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  11. Did you keep working as a therapist while doing all that?
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  12. Excellent. I agree 100%.
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  13.  @sa.sa3917  I hope you get better. 🙏 I've been dealing with some physical problems too.
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  14. I also prefer to be with someone my own age. 😊
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  15. It's crazy how things are in the US. In Germany, nobody has kids before 30. A lot of women are having kids in their 40's.
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  16. ​ @robdavidson4812 I agree. I wish there were more men that respect women like you.
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  17. Very good comment.
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  18. A walk in the park is a great idea for a date.
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  19. Very interesting. It would be nice to see a part 2 with the solution that you recommend to your patients. I saw a channel in which real life cases are discussed in the videos and the therapist says what he would suggest to improve the situation. It was very interesting too. 😊
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  20. ​ @SHANONisRegenerate I've seen this happen too.
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  21. I think women should get married over 30 because they filter out the men who only want to be with young women and see them as a product with an expiration date. Every time a much older men was hitting on me, I thought: "Why can't he be with someone his own age??" These men who only want to be with women who are much younger are the ones that will trade their wives at 40, the "old product" for one who is 20. I have seen cases of women who were 40 and their husbands left them with three kids for one who was 20.
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  22. Very good.
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  23. Instead of looking for a balanced solution for 2024, some men still think we should go back to the 1950! They just ignore all the problems and risks the old scheme had.
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  24.  @andyjohnson5484  I think just some people (not only women) do that. It is too pessimistic to think that most women or most people are psychopathic like this. It is not our true nature.
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  25. ​ @borisnegrarosa9113  I don't think one generation later we as a group involuted to more psychos. Saying most are like this may be too pessimistic.
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  26. ​​ @angelamwatts  I can't believe they do this either. I think it is disgusting when a married man hits on other women. Once I was in a hotel with my sister and there was a couple there in their honeymoon. The guy tried to kiss my sister in the sauna, which she considered disgusting and immediately left! He was in his honeymoon! We felt so sorry for his wife.
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  27. I am a teacher and I love my job. After the kids grow up, I don't see why a woman should stop working and studying if she doesn't want too. The cleaning can be shared by the whole family and the cooking too. And each human being can do their own laundry.
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  28.  @johntim3491  I think he means another kind of respect. He means the attitude of not doing something bad against someone. Of course real respect is based on love, not fear. He just meant something else.
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  29. I work as teacher and I love my job. I would love to be a therapist too. I think studying and working is not with the purpose of becoming a CEO, or anything like it. I think we need to work and study to develop our minds, to grow as a human being, to develop discipline. Women are in a vulnerable position if they don't have their own income. And that is what needed to change.
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  30. The men that think this way, are exactly the ones that will cheat.
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  31. ​ @mandaloin  The same happens to women. It's hard to find both at the same time.
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  32. Good piece of advice. Wow, six months sounds like a long time. Women, be wise! We tend to get attached too fast. So it is better to find an excuse to take things slow to have time to evaluate who you are dealing with.
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  33. The problem is not too much interest in sex; is too little interest in doing other things outside the bedroom. Talking to a lot of married women, what I always see them complain about is: their husbands just come to them for sex, and don't spend enough time with them doing other things outside the bedroom. For a woman, sex begins outside the bedroom and is a long process of connection. A lot of them say this. I would recommend, go on a date once a week, do other things together. It's extremely frustrating for a woman if a man only comes to her for sex, and don't spend enough time with them doing other things.
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  34. ​​​ @claraisnotmebutilikeit  I agree100%. I'd rather have an egalitarian relationship with everybody doing their part of house chores e doing their own laundry and a salary. Throw your brain in the trash, stop going to university and just be someone's accessory. Very tempting proposal... (not)
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  35. I also prefer to talk to people who don't wear a mask and are humble and natural. I feel the same as you with kids and people who suffered.
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  36. I think there is no contradiction. The easy milk is for sport and practice, and the not promiscuous milk can be taken seriously.
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  37. ​ @NolandaNolanda  I agree.
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  38. ​ @EC-yl7xk Exactly. Thank God.
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  39. ​ @marpro212  Wow! You should be the one making the videos! A lot more common sense!
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  40. Wisemen from all time explain that men loose a lot of energy when they have sex or masturbate, more than women. Having a weird feeling afterwards they say is a reflex of this loss. Like feeling guilty for wasting your personal energy and harming your own personal energy and power. Throughout history, they say people should use their sexual energy very carefully because it is very powerful. They reccomend not wasting it with anyone, and using it carefully to connect deeper with someone you already know and love or to create a new life. It's not a "moral lesson" they say, it's just the disciplined way of using these energy to benefit ourselves and be able to apply these energy to our objectives. These wisemen have always said that incentivising people to be promiscuous is making them less powerful. Nothing to do with empty morals, just physics.
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  41. Absolutely agree.
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  42. Dr. Taraban has a really good video about that (for married man) in this channel. I also wrote a big comment on the video The Importance of Sex in a Relationship to which a lot of the few women that watch this channel agreed. I wrote it to help men with this particular question.
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  43. And when this young woman becomes older, you look for a younger one? And why would a 20 something year old woman enjoying her youth want to be with a guy 10 years older? Everything goes both ways. I know a man who is 60 years old, very well financially, who only wants to date women in their 20's! Needless to say he is alone and always afraid the women he dates are only interested in his money. Never got married and never will.
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  44. ​ @Smartcom5  Only superficial people feel this way. But it must be hard for an actress... Suddenly, you can't do your job anymore. That's brutal.
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  45. ​ @TGP109  True! They forget that a lot of this "attention" can be disrespecful, not always loving.
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  46. Hey! 😅
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  47. I love Trump and I'm for women studying, working and having their own money as something very important. I don't know if you can call this feminist. I love men, and love to cook and spoil them and don't want to be a "girl boss" type. By the way: I'M SO HAPPY TRUMP WON!!!!!!!!! THANK GOD! 🙏😊
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  48. It that was true, everybody would be happy and all monks would unhappy, and that is not what happens.
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  49. ​ @MrIrishscouse  Sorry to intrude. I think it is of course easier if you are sure they feel the same for you. If you chose well, they probably do. If they don't, and show it through their actions, you can be relieved and be happy that you are letting go off a psychopath, which is a great thing for your future happiness.
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  50. I think all human beings like to spoil people they like, specially women. But there has to be RECIPROCITY, or people feel taken for granted, and undervalued. BALANCE is the key. SELFISHNESS destroys relationships.
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