Comments by "worn down" (@worndown8280) on "The Podcast of the Lotus Eaters" channel.

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  14. @S. Its a matter of choice not fault. It doesnt have to be a pejorative. But every choice has a consequence. If a woman wants a man her own age, she will be hard pressed to find one who has made his way in the world. Not only do young men have to compete with other men, they now are forced to compete with women as well. So she may look to one in his 30s or early 40s, will most women your age do that? No, its to stigmatizing. Well thats a choice. These are all unintended consequences to choices. But they are still consequences. When women want kids enough, they will stay home and take care of their own and maybe take care of their neighbors as well. Earn a little coin doing it too. But that would require a change in lifestyle no? Again, its not blame, its not good or bad, its just choices. And every choice, has a consequence. How you view that consequence is up to individual interpretation. And you dont need as much money as you think. But you want that much because you like those things. When you want kids more than you want those things, you might compromise on it. Until then, again, its a choice that has a consequence. I lived in California until last year. Arguably more expensive than Britain. I got married, had 3 sons, and bought 4 different houses. I did it on an income that maxed out at $65k, thats roughly 48.5k pounds. I just want to say I dont blame young people, most are utterly ignorant of basic economic principles because they have never been taught them. If they did they would burn down their respective governments. And lets be honest, most women have been so utterly brainwashed that most dont even think of getting married until maybe 28 and having a kid or maybe two once they are in their early 30s. I dont mean to sound insulting but its stunning how talking to younger women they all parrot the same thing. Yes I am also aware of how utterly stupid a man in his 20s is. I was one several decades ago. But men have the luxury of something women do not, time.
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  23. @S. You are joking arent you? Family planning was always a thing. People typically didnt have more kids in the US than they could care for. There is this view that men didnt care what happen to their wives. That they were just baby machines to their husbands. As a man I find this laughable. In the US in 1800 the average family had 7 children, half statistically would die. By 1900 the average family had 3.5. What changed? In both cases family size was stable. Ill admit I dont know late 19th and early 20th century British domestic history, but was it really so different there? You are right on the economics though. But and I want to say I cant cover everything in a post because who will read it, A lot of the expense is coming from political policies used to buy votes. A policy, like lets say rent vouchers for the poor, sound like a good thing. But then there is more money and more competition for rental spaces and so guess what happens to prices, they go up. Same when people do it for food. the same with health care. And soon people see it as a right and anyone who comes and says hey I know these policies seem good, but they are causing all these unintended consequences. And they are very quickly called every name in the book and they learn quickly that no one will listen to them. I mean you have done it to me several times. You even think I dont care, when in fact I do. Most of the economic issues of today exist because of the added economic value the last 4 generations have had. If you want to fix it you need to remove those programs. But people dont want to because its their turn to get the free stuff. Its like the doctor who wants to treat a patient but has to cause them a pain. Bitter medicine that the patient does not want to swallow. In the end thats a choice. But when a leg turns black or you get sepsis and die, thats not the doctors fault. its the fault of the patient who refused treatment. Who is blaming 20 year old women for a 100% of what? I am not even following you on that. Can you explain that a bit more please?
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