Comments by "" (@TellthetruthaboutChina) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. I used to chase girls, but after being ignored and ghosted so many times, I realized that gaming is just more rewarding.
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  2. If he made 30,000 a month, they'd say he's ambitious; if he makes 3,000, they'd call him delusional.
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  3. Women complain about men being picky, but why is it okay for them to have unrealistic standards?
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  4. Men have finally realized the truth: being good to yourself is what really matters. Simps end up with nothing.
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  5. I feel like her begging for reconciliation is only about the money, not love. This kind of behavior is really disappointing.
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  6. He made the right decision. No man should have to bankrupt himself to get married. If she truly loved him, the bride price wouldn’t matter.
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  7. Wow, the moment the law changed, women immediately started asking for tall, handsome, and emotionally intelligent men. Hilarious!
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  8. She thinks her looks give her the right to spend other people’s money? This mindset is truly scary.
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  9. Let’s be honest, many men avoid beautiful women because they know they can’t afford their lifestyle.
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  10. Giving all your money to your wife is really foolish. Even for the sake of the family, you can't completely lose yourself.
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  11. Some older leftover women’s "confidence" is just because no one dares to criticize them. Men’s awakening is a backlash against this blind confidence.
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  12. If she wants expensive gifts on a blind date, she’s clearly not looking for love, just a sponsor.
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  13. The man is called "irresponsible" for not paying, but isn’t the woman even worse for bringing a freeloading squad?
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  14. Even though she has cancer, I don’t think she deserves to ask her kids to care for her. How can 16 years of abandonment be easily forgiven?
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  15. We don’t play games because we’re immature; we play because it’s the only time we feel in control of our lives.
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  16. I’ve seen too many men in their 50s and 60s regret getting married. It’s not that they couldn’t make it work, but they realize they gave up too much.
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  17. This just proves that some women don’t appreciate what they have until they lose it. Men deserve better than this.
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  18. Men work hard for years to save money, only to spend it all on bride prices. How long can this unequal system last?
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  19. Men aren’t ATMs. If a woman only cares about who’s paying, this relationship has no future.
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  20. It's not about betraying Chinese women; it's about finding a partner who values emotional connection over money.
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  21. She looked down on him when he was poor, and now that he's rich, she wants a share? Marriage shouldn’t work like this.
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  22. A 40-year-old woman unwilling to make compromises in marriage still expecting a dream romance? Come on, be realistic.
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  23. Flight attendants' high standards might be why so many remain single.
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  24. You say you don't want marriage, yet you envy young girls for being popular. Isn't that contradictory?
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  25. The "confessions" in the video feel like self-comfort to me. Many older women don’t realize their emotional neglect.
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  26. Many Chinese men say not to get married because they feel that modern marriage is 'unfair' to men. High bride prices, financial stress, and imbalanced family roles are making them hesitate about marriage.
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  27. Leftover women want to be understood, but have they ever considered the pressure men face? Building a life and starting a family is tough for men too.
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  28. A “sexless” marriage like this might be even more painful than being single.
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  29. Marriage is no longer a guarantee of love; it's a transaction. Especially in China, men have to give too much and receive too little in return. Rather than being trapped in an unhappy marriage, I'd rather live alone.
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  30. Marriage = lifetime debt, divorce = losing everything. Who would want to take that deal?
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  31. Men's youth is shorter, and the risks of marriage are higher. If the conditions aren't right, I'd rather stay single than compromise.
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  32. Some women over 40 have lost their sense of self-worth and always think they’re forever young.
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  33. Women ask men to cover wedding expenses, isn't it fair for men to ask for a premarital checkup
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  34. Older single women claim they are exceptional, but why do they keep getting eliminated in the marriage market?
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  35. I believe that there is no need to go to fancy restaurants on a first blind date. If a woman insists on going to such places, she's usually not sincere. Brothers, you need to be careful.
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  36. Our generation doesn't not want to get married, it's just that the cost of marriage and having kids is so high, even surviving is a problem.
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  37. This proves that hypergamy doesn’t work when there aren’t enough high-status men left to pick from
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  38. It’s ironic that many women complain about men being irresponsible with money, yet when they take over the finances, they often use it as a tool to belittle and control their husbands. Is this the equality we strive for?
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  39. If a woman cheats, the man should have the right to demand a paternity test without any backlash!
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  40. Foreign women marry Chinese men more to find 'the real self' rather than rely on materialism and money. This contrasts sharply with the materialism in the 'marriage market' of Chinese women.
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  41. Why is it that when a man does housework, he's a loser, but when a woman does it, she's a virtuous wife and mother?
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  42. I was actually in a similar situation, and it’s not just embarrassing, it’s infuriating. You think you're being polite, but in reality, you're just being scammed. The worst part is, you feel like an idiot afterward.
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  43. Men have the right to choose not to pay for a bunch of strangers. After all, this is a date, not a free meal event!
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  44. Older single women now blame men for not pursuing them, but they don’t reflect on why men stopped buying into it.
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  45. After marriage, a man's youth, energy, and money become a "sunk cost." When divorce happens, women take half of the assets, and men still have to pay child support. What’s in it for men?
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  46. The dowry is already high, and then to demand drinking foot water—it’s completely incomprehensible. Marriage is not about humiliating each other!
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  47. Matchmaking events today feel like competitions where men have to "win" over women by proving their worth. It’s exhausting, and it doesn’t build real connections. This just pushes more men away.
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  48. I think it’s a smart move that men are finally realizing spending money on nightclub girls is a waste. Why should we pay for someone who’s just there for our money and not genuine connection?
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  49. Streaming platforms should label which streamers use beauty filters – viewers have the right to know!
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  50. Never blindly follow a friend’s advice; they won’t live your life for you."
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