Comments by "" (@TellthetruthaboutChina) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. Sometimes I think I'd rather stay single forever than push myself to the brink for marriage.
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  2. Women want equality, but where is the equality when it comes to bride prices?
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  3. I’m tired of being the provider for someone who brings nothing to the table. If you want luxury, get a job, don’t expect men to foot the bill.
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  4. This woman is definitely a repeat offender, scamming more than one man. The law should investigate thoroughly!
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  5. Are we just supposed to be ‘stepping stones’ for women to climb up? Seems like love is a transaction now.
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  6. Rural banquet culture is all about saving face, but why is no one willing to be the first to break it?
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  7. If she keeps breaking up with good guys because of her friends’ advice, she’ll end up alone. Not every guy will stick around for drama.
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  8. HaoGe’s persistence and sincerity moved me deeply. True love is about pursuing courageously and having no regrets.
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  9. Ms. Li never knew how to appreciate. Now she realizes that Mr. Wang was the one she should rely on, but it’s already too late.
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  10. The sad part is, she’s so focused on her career and independence that she’s missed out on the opportunity to build a meaningful relationship.
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  11. A 1,000-person matchmaking event with no men attending—it’s not about looks, it’s about the harsh reality of relationships.
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  12. This man's behavior is the classic case of the "stupid rich guy" who doesn’t realize money can’t solve emotional problems.
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  13. Sometimes I even wonder if marriage is worth it when I’m burdened with such heavy financial pressure.
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  14. Everyone has a peak period. If women missed theirs, that’s their own responsibility.
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  15. Maybe it's time for women to stop blaming men for everything and start asking themselves why so many good guys are walking away. Could it be that modern dating expectations are just unrealistic?
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  16. Older women struggle to find jobs because younger people adapt to new tech more easily. Companies obviously choose them.
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  17. Bankruptcy isn’t the worst; the worst is how people start looking at you, like you’re the embodiment of failure.
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  18. Why is society so hard on middle-aged men? We provide for families, work hard, and yet as soon as we hit a certain age, we’re marginalized. When will society and companies treat us more fairly?
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  19. She should have made it clear earlier that she didn’t want a married life instead of dragging it out for two years.
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  20. Love is that simple—two people in love, no matter how far apart, will find their way together.
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  21. "Why do women see being single as a failure, but for men, it's often just freedom?
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  22. The bride price shouldn’t be a way for parents to make money. It’s a gesture of respect, not a business deal. If it feels like extortion, then it’s gone too far.
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  23. Often, when working for someone, they treat you well only when they need you; once you're no longer needed, they will dismiss you without hesitation.
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  24. After 30, we still have to work hard for money and endure discrimination from both society and family. Who understands a man’s pressure?
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  25. Even though she betrayed him, he’s also a irresponsible jerk.
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  26. If a woman only cares about a man’s money and not the man himself, she doesn’t deserve me spending money on her. What I can give you is my heart, not my wallet.
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  27. When women demand financial security from men, they should also ask themselves what they’re bringing to the table beyond looks.
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  28. She set a trap for him and expected him not to fall for it. That's just selfish.
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  29. If men started demanding a bride price too, would you still be willing to marry?"
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  30. If you want to keep your marriage strong, you can’t just focus on the gym. A healthy relationship requires time and effort, not just a perfect body.
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  31. If Huang Yan really wants to get married, she should lower her standards instead of staying on her high pedestal.
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  32. Tiffany and Cai Xiaohua's story made me believe that true love has nothing to do with age or appearance.
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  33. 16 years of lies and betrayal, and people still say ‘blood doesn't matter?’ Then what does matter in a family?
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  34. It's tough for men to start businesses in rural areas. We're always misled by these 'get-rich-quick schemes' and end up buried in debt.
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  35. Forget it, it's best for the man to let go. There's no need for him to hold onto memories of this woman anymore.
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  36. It’s sad, but true. Once you hit 30, you’re basically irrelevant in the modeling world. It’s a youth-based career and that’s the cold truth.
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  37. This kind of girl has no real feelings at all. Be careful when you meet her.
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  38. Women have the pressure to get married, but men have the pressure to buy a house. Whose pressure is bigger?
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  39. My wife is always on my back about gaming. Why doesn’t she understand that it’s just a hobby?
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  40. It’s frustrating when women expect us to pay for everything, whether it’s dinner, gifts, or even vacations. Why is it that a man’s worth is measured by his wallet? Shouldn’t a healthy relationship be about both partners contributing equally, whether financially or emotionally?
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  41. Why should we get married when most women want someone who has everything? It’s like being expected to buy a luxury car, but being offered a second-hand bicycle in return.
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  42. No matter how hard women work, many job positions still exclude them because of their ‘age’ and ‘marital status,’ something that’s unimaginable for men.
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  43. Is it possible that women who are still unmarried at 30 are being too focused on perfection? I believe marriage is about mutual compromise and acceptance. If you keep being picky, you might end up missing out on someone who’s willing to build a life with you. No one is perfect, so why wait for the so-called "perfect partner"?
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  44. Women say 'beware of fire, theft, and besties.' Should men start saying 'beware of wives' besties' too?
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  45. Why does everyone think it's a problem for men to have no friends at 30? We don’t need to rely on social connections like women do—being independent is what gives men confidence.
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  46. Nightlife girls use sweet words to capture men’s hearts, but that’s not real love.
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  47. I find it interesting when women say they want a man who is both capable and handsome. You’re 40+, and still looking for that? Maybe it’s time to redefine what ‘ideal’ really means.
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  48. I seriously doubt if this is a man's era; it feels like hard work can never catch up with life's pressure.
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  49. Men are responsible too; we shouldn’t always be drawn to fake beauty. We should value inner qualities more.
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  50. It is a touching and beautiful love story. It seems that there are still pure girls working in the city. I wish them happiness.
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