Comments by "" (@TellthetruthaboutChina) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. High bride prices turn marriage into a transaction. The groom refusing to be pressured shows he's got integrity.
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  2. Extreme measures won’t solve the problem, but should society offer more protection to the vulnerable?
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  3. She’s stunning, but she doesn’t get it. Men don’t care about beauty if you’re arrogant and picky.
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  4. Women always say men should be responsible. But what about her? She ignored her kids for 30 years, and now she suddenly remembers them because she's sick?
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  5. This must be a once-in-a-lifetime experience! The old man is so composed!
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  6. Marriage in modern society is becoming more complicated. The man is expected to pay a high bride price, yet even a simple health check is an issue. So, is it that our standards are too high, or their standards are too low?
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  7. It’s fine if modern women want equal rights, but they should also take equal responsibility. You can’t enjoy a man’s money and then refuse to take on the responsibility of marriage.
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  8. Sister-brother relationships sound nice, but in the end, it's just women trying to control everything. Can young men really handle that kind of pressure?
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  9. Many leftover women refuse to lower their standards, but the reality is, men have the advantage in the dating market. Can they really afford to wait?
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  10. When he gave his last ten yuan to the old man who picked up garbage, I was very moved and hoped that he could live a good life.
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  11. If she wins 500,000 yuan, will more people start treating relationships as an investment?
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  12. I just can’t understand how his ex-wife doesn’t want to care for the child but still demands to transfer custody to the father. As a mother, it’s not about being selfish and living your own life—it’s about thinking of the child’s well-being. If she truly loved the child, she would take responsibility as a mother, not push that burden onto the father through coercive actions.
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  13. He’s too young to even realize how much danger he was in.
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  14. I think women should focus more on their own growth rather than just relying on a man’s so-called ‘mature charm.’ Can such a relationship really last?
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  15. Marriage requires a house, a car, a dowry, a wedding… Can you really blame men for not wanting to get married?
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  16. Their demands only consider the man—what about the value they bring to the table?
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  17. They bought a house and lost their heart—too expensive a price.
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  18. The tricks women use are too many and too terrifying. Many of them I’m hearing for the first time.
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  19. Thanks to the author for the excellent video, it's very interesting, these girls are so demanding.
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  20. Perhaps we should ask ourselves whether the "tradition" behind the bride price is truly worth continuing, or if it has already become a social pathology.
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  21. If there is real affection, why not pursue a woman with whom you can mutually invest emotionally, instead of choosing someone who’s a “role” in a business transaction?
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  22. Whether it’s a cross-cultural marriage or ordinary life, love is the greatest power.
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  23. The job pressure in China is heavy, but going abroad may also bring significant challenges. Who can guarantee that you’ll find the right job abroad?
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  24. He's so creative! Selling skewers on a snowy mountain—genius or crazy?
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  25. The world of the rich is far more complicated than we think. No one can just waltz in.
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  26. I don’t oppose dating younger men, but are these younger guys really ready to take on family responsibilities? Or do some women just want a temporary thrill?
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  27. The boss's proposal to buy cars for the employees is clearly just an empty promise.
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  28. I agree, it's too much. It's a humiliation for men.
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  29. Is someone like Xiao Yu shaped by harsh realities, or has she never found the motivation to change her path?
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  30. I also think this woman has a point. Her name is on the property deed, and the house was built after she got married to her ex-husband, so she is quite pitiful in a way. It seems like the stepson wants to take the entire property for himself. However, it was a bit wrong of her to leave her husband for such a long time. This case is somewhat complicated.
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  31. I don’t know why, but after reading it, I still feel very sad. These were their own choices. Now that they're old, it’s too late to say anything; there’s no such thing as a magic pill for regret in this world.
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  32. Many women nowadays only want a 'balance' between career and life, but in reality, they don’t put as much effort into work as men. Why should companies hire them?
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  33. I’m touched… Who would’ve thought a fishing rod could save a life?
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  34. Age discrimination is a chronic issue in the tech industry. Until this problem is solved, female programmers will always be in a marginalized position.
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  35. Calling this “female empowerment” is laughable—it’s just a gold-digging game.
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  36. Quitting work to focus on family can be a choice, but it will cost women more opportunities.
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  37. Being an independent single man is a thousand times better than being a pathetic Simp.
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  38. This old man is so infuriating and so rude, poor girl.
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  39. Many rich second-generation guys are indeed controlled by their families, but women shouldn’t solely rely on their background. Love should be a mutual effort.
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  40. Projects like Weihai Yintan are not isolated cases. How many similar ghost cities are there in China? Something to ponder.
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  41. An older leftover woman, you're getting older, yet you're still setting high standards when choosing men. No wonder people see you as a parent. Do you really think you're still young? Do you still consider yourself a young girl?
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  42. Men are looking for wives, not beauty-filtered illusions. Reality matters more than virtual perfection.
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  43. Watching this video, I now realize how many unspoken rules there are in car dealerships.
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  44. Men are not obligated to ‘save’ older single women from their psychological struggles.
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  45. When the boy finally plucked up the courage to confess his love to the girl and they finally got together, I shed tears. Pure love without material things is truly the most beautiful.
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  46. This society has too strong a dependency mindset for women. Women should be independent, the bride price is theirs, not something to be handed to their parents!
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  47. The workplace is competitive. If older women can’t adapt to changes, shouldn’t they accept the possibility of being replaced?
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  48. Women today claim they want honest men, but can they really handle the full truth? I think they just want to hear the kind of 'honesty' that aligns with their expectations.
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  49. The dating market is too realistic nowadays; it's indeed hard for female delivery riders to find partners.
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  50. I get that aging is hard, but the reality is men also age and we don’t make a big deal out of it. Maybe it’s because women place too much value on appearance. Aging is natural—accept it and move on.
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