Hearted Youtube comments on Psychology with Dr. Ana (@AnaPsychology) channel.

  1. She’s literally my favorite psychologist. Always says difficult and disquiet things in a very easy way.
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  2. Dr Ana, when you’re being a kickass mom you’ll realize that it’s not rocket surgery to treat children with respect. Or to apologize when you make mistakes. I like to ask my son about his feelings and take them seriously, which has lead to real change. Kids are stuck with their parents and good parents remain aware of and take care within that dynamic. That, to me, is how to define good parents.
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  3. I have a little friend group of four of us, and we've been friends since middle school. Now that we're adults, we have a pretty big income range and I'm the poor one. We make it work by gasp COMMUNICATING. My friends never shame or pity me for my financial position and they're mindful to suggest affordable activities when we get together. If they want to do something more spendy, I'll just tell them if I can afford it or not - sometimes they offer to spot me, or sometimes I just stay home. And of course if they do spot me, I say thank you!!
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  4. As a Native American I am so happy and proud that you mentioned all of missing Native Woman. Its not really talked about and it really means a lot.
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  5. Ah finally someone understands the struggle..
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  6. Meg the Stallion wasn't allegedly shot. She was shot by Tory Lanez. Just to be clear.
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  7. I'd like to see a video on "mummy issues" using Norman Bates from Psycho as the case study.
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  8. Off-topic but you're really really pretty.
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  9. Even with my friends, and people I date(first dates and cheating topics come up). In the back of their mind, they’re expecting to get cheated on and “I will work it out” NO BABY YOU DON’T HAVE TO LIVE THE LIFE. It Hurts me so much listening to these people who just accept it. Doesn’t help the fact that half our society praises and encourages cheating... Sick of this.
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  10. I really don’t understand how you’re not wildly popular yet. Every time I watch your videos I forget you aren’t a big YouTuber. Give it time and I guarantee you will blow up 💫 I love your videos btw
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  11. This is pure gold. I also agree into fights are unacceptable but also I know that some people are afraid of arguing as well, and i think that's a red flag because I think arguing is essential to overcome disagreements in any relationship. They may not see a difference
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  12. Having authentic takes has always been a strong suit of yours. I like that you blend in your lived experiences into the video's.
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  13. Sometimes it becomes apparent that someone doesn't respect you and you just need to walk away.
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  14. People exaggerate everything. Being the girl that improves little things over time is totally ok. You don't have to live in a mansion and be rich to adapt it to your lifestyle.
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  15. When being alone is no longer frightening, Loss is no longer a threat.
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  16. "Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art…. It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things which give value to survival.” -C.S. Lewis
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  17. I cackled when you suggested to feed a child every 2-3 months lmao (I know you meant hours)
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  18. If someone seems too good to be true, 10/10 they are trying to fines you. Do not show your vulnerabilities early on. Most times, abusers will deliberately pick their victims as they are easy targets( broken homes, single moms, people going through vulnerable stages in their lives). Always keep a level of suspicion and do not believe anyone blindly. Do not tell them what you are looking for in a partner early on. If you give someone enough rope, they will eventually hang themselves. Stay safe. Is a cold world
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  19. I think videos on practical ways how to improve self esteem would be good. Definitely agree that learning something new like a language is a great way to boost self esteem but also keep the mind fresh, or body fresh, or body and mind fresh depending on what you do
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  20. Geometry with Dr. Ana 😁
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  21. I'm not sure if I'm late to the party. But I would like to congratulate you on becoming a doctor
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  22. Thank you for this!!! He literally just broke up w me but that’s bc I worked so hard to ruin the relationship just to confirm my insecurities. :(
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  23. The cat: 🤸‍♀️🧗‍♀️🪜⛷️🐈‍⬛️
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  24. To an introvert person like myself, this is actually a good reminder why after a certain level of maturity I just intentionally never wanted to become popular. Thank you!
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  25. I'm not even a third of the way through this video and I'm crying. I'm 57 years old and just learning the things that you are speaking of so eloquently. Cannot tell you how much it warms my heart that the younger generations are learning now what I'm learning now. You don't want to be learning these things at my age and just discovering why the marriages didn't work because you were putting up with toxic people. It's just so wonderful that you guys are learning this now. Don't let up. Keep going! So much joy and appreciation watching this. 🥹🙏💪💞
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  26. hold up, lemme send this to my ex... oh wait that’s a sign of immaturity on my part lol
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  27. "Your distress matters and your suffering counts, even if it doesn't meet clinically elevated threshold." Thank you.
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  28. As philosophy majors, we learn in intro to logic that a valid argument may not be sound. Validity is whether the argument follows from the premises and soundness includes this but also entails that the premises are factually correct. So all feeling may be valid, but not all feelings are sound
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  29. i think it hurts me more to read(in the comment section) that people who were cheated on choose to stay with the POS than to actually have had experienced the cheating myself. Like I can’t understand why stay? They don’t respect, they don’t cherish you, they don’t love you. Cheaters are a sewer clump of issues, YOU deserve so much better, you deserve a better YOU who then deserves someone Decent!. There are wonderful people out there who won’t cheat on you, in fact, will make others vey jealous OF YOU. Idk, I just feel so emotional today that Reading these comments is making me very depressed. Cheating is rampant in my family, my grandma being old school stayed w her husband, and My mom who herself cheated Is Oblivious of HER dad being a cheater.
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  30. I remember watching that video back then (I was in a relationship) and not thinking anything of it and just taking notes but now I realize that I was guilty to some point of all the "traits" it's funny how sometimes you don't realize your own flaws Anyway love your videos and thank you for educating me ❤️
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  31. Thank you for talking about how a certain level of attractiveness gives advantages but when it gets past a certain point it can lead to envy/the opposite of an advantage - I'd love to see a whole video on this because no one ever really acknowledges it but it's a very real thing lol
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  32. you don’t realize how many lives you’re changing rn 😩
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  33. "It is a mistake to look at someone who is self assertive and say, "It's easy for her, she has good self-esteem." One of the ways you build self-esteem is by being self-assertive when it is not easy to do so. There are always times when self-assertiveness requires courage, no matter how high your self-esteem". Nathaniel Branden
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  34. That casual pregnancy announcement tho. Congrats! 🎉🎉
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  35. It's pretty victim blaming to say if can't handle the trolls don,t be a content creator...like if women can't handle harassment they should not go outside, that's the same train of thought of putting the responsibility of harassment on the victim instead of putting the harasser accountable
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  36. Dr. Ana?!?!? AH!!! Im so proud of you!! I’ve been watching you since 2021 when i decided to pursue a major in psychology. You inspire me to keep going. Congratulations!🥳🎉
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  37. "Dr. Ana" congratulations!
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  38. Something I've consciously worked in the previous years to overcome from my own inner biases. Making true friendships with women who are far mote successful than me has helped a lot.
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  39. Look out for financial abuse early on, too! My first date with an abuser was such a red flag, looking back on it. He showed up straight from the gym, so hadn't showered or changed or anything, and then acted like he forgot his card so I ended up paying for the meal. He CONSTANTLY "needed" money from me for the duration of our 4 month "relationship." Also, during our first date conversation, he was already negging. Ex: "guys must really be intimidated by you because you have a master's degree. You must have a hard time dating." It was true, but that's such a weird thing to say. Sane, clear-thinking, healthy people would just engage with me about what I studied or try to find common ground over college sports teams or something like that. Not sit there and 1) neg me while simultaneously 2) trying to make themselves seem different and special like "ohhh look at me, I'm not like the other people you've dated because I'm not intimidated by your level of education."
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  40. Definitely, you start to feel smaller, you make yourself smaller, share less, lie about what your plans are to avoid any backlash. Not allowed to say how you feel, not allowed to set boundaries!
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  41. This is disheartening, but women and girls deserve to know the truth. Thank you for speaking about this
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  42. When I meet people who come across as stubborn or defensive, I allow myself to explain things three times. This gives either of us a chance to cooperate. However, once those three attempts are used up, I am done. I'm going to do it or speak up the ugly truth anyway, whether you accept it or not.😊
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  43. As a current psychology student it’s so enfuriating to see people with no credentials charge so much for services they’re not even qualified to give…
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  44. I really appreciate when someone can balance sass and a bit of edge without being overly condescending and maintaining a healthy dose of humility. Enjoying the slightly more aggressive/callout tone here. Nice!
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  45. That person în the article hit the nail on the head with "it's the way it's written, as if it can be excused or just part of a normal relationship", "girls who endure disturbing behavior from their partners". I read a couple of her books as a teenager and was confused as to how to feel about the relationships' portrayal. Now, looking back, I know better, but being exposed to that whilst still maturing and learning about relationships, it definitely shaped what I viewed as normal behaviors in relationships.
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  46. One thing that I notice is that when you grow up with family who exhibit this behavior, you can internalize and pick up bad habits as well. I’m using this just as much to unlearn my own crossing of boundaries and notice it when others do it as well. Thanks!
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  47. I am so tired of people labeling other people with narcissism over the smallest things. This is why i strongly dislike when social media learns a word or a phrase lol because people then over use it and misuse it and completely diluted the trrue meaning of the word.
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  48. Next part: How to keep your new friends! 😃
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  49. Queen of labeling different sections of the video!!!!
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  50. My subjective opinion is that NOONE is bad, and that EVERYONE makes mistakes. Sometimes we make small mistakes, sometimes we make big ones. Sometimes we do it subconsciously, sometimes we do it consciously. Sometimes we're in a dark place and questioning who we are, what are morals are, and what the meaning of life is, and it leads us to experiment in behaviors that don't define who we really are.
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