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  1. I had a spiritual awakening 3 years ago that was transformative. It changed my life.
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  2. It's common sense, but not thought about much: People who can't help themselves certainly can't help other people. People who don't have abundance themselves don't have much to give to others.
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  3. Imagine this: You are someone afraid of conflict, pain, discomfort, rejection, failure... But you also had the courage to face them all! Eventually, years down the line, you are now someone who misses the same feelings of discomfort, fear, pain, rejection, failure because they are overshadowed by your success.
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  4. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ You are so good šŸŽÆ Thank you for bringing a great sense of humor to the embarrassment of relationship trial and errors.
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  5. Just because you can explain it doesn't mean it's not still a miracle - Sir Terry Pratchett
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  6. This is so good. I've basically witnessed the same thing in myself where at the point where I told my significant other that I'd love her, it was to some level replaceable. Like... don't get me wrong it's not that ANY other woman could have sat there next to me, but I just felt this sense of deep love, respect and contentment for myself which I was able to express to the outside world and I feel like after this moment everything changed for me, I would not get upset about rejection of the love I was giving anymore.
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  7. Love your channel brother, your clarity is second to none. I hope your content reaches new listeners, it has the potential to bring real positive change to society. Keep up the great work!
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  8. I wanted to laugh but my wife still bitches about me not being nice enough while not feeling the need to be nice to get nice in return. She is still sitting in a paid off house and driving my cars. Just last month she got a job after being a housewife for 6 years, and was talking about all the things she was going to do with "her" money. Meanwhile, I asked her, "So what bills you going to pay?" She did not like that one bit.
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  9. I needed to hear this 3 months ago. It's better late than never, though. Solid wisdom.
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  10. The most important and simple advice ever. If you honestly love your princess you can't constantly treat her like one.
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  11. ā€˜The vast majority of the people who are jealous of WHAT you got are never jealous of HOW you got itā€™. This clever little gem is a loose translation from a quote Chris Williamson ascribes to Jimmy Carr, whom I believe is as brilliant as he is funny. Anywho, I love it, and also believe it to be true. Too, as several of your fellow loyal followers have already pointed out, many of you, Orion, itā€™s refreshing to hear you extol your wisdom & insights beyond the confines of dating & relationships and/or or men vs. women, and shine YOUR beam on some different, yet equally juicy, if not meaningful subject matter/content. Youā€™re very bright and relatable, so itā€™s no coincidence that your channel continues to grow & evolve. Your content is truly top shelf, Orion, and you are helping me to become a better, more authentic person, which is positively impacting all the people around me, which in turn makes this crazy world we live in world a happier, healthier place. iOW - you did NOT miss your calling, and Iā€™m delighted that you have discovered a way to proffer your wisdom & insights at scale, and receive some measure of remuneration. It turns out that itā€™s not the pursuit of happiness. Itā€™s the happiness of the pursuit. Too, itā€™s neither the journey nor the destination, rather, itā€™s who we become in the process, and to your point, itā€™s not what we do for a living thatā€™s important, itā€™s what we do with our ā€˜livingā€™ that matters most. What do you think? Iā€™m teasing. Truly, thank you for getting after it, Orion, and for consistently putting out such meaningful, worthwhile content. You are making an impact, and a very positive, noble one at that. Happy Thanksgiving to you, and yours! XOXO
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  12. Cognitive Shelf Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom- Viktor Frankl
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  13. I get where you are going, but itā€™s a little off. As an Army Officer, I ordered people to do things I could not do all the time. They had skills I did not have. I didnā€™t pretend I had the skills, but they knew I would know if the results were correct in the end. The worse thing as a leader I could have done would have been to try to learn all their jobs, and I might never could have. Cadets were often given a leadership demonstration in my day. One cadet is picked to solve the problem of raising a flag pole within a given time using three pieces of lumber, two pieces of rope, two enlisted soldiers and a sergeant. Inevitably, the cadet tries to micromanage and solve the problem and fails. The instructor then makes a show of asking the other cadets for criticism and lets a few offer advice. He then says he will show how itā€™s done. OIC: ā€œSergeant, Erect a flagpoleā€ Sergeant:ā€Yes, Sir! Privates, erect a flagpole!ā€ Privates:ā€Yes, Sergeant!ā€ And they very quickly erect the flagpole (because they had been practicing for this very demonstration, and they always got a kick out of it, as I suspect you have too). This is a very important lesson on good leadership and respecting your troops. Hell on Wheels, Sergeant!
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  14. The finger guns at the intro let me know this was going to be a banger
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  15. "The Value of Others" is the most valuable, insightful, and penetrating book I've ever read in nearly 80 years of reading because it tells the truth about the subject!!
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  16. Orion you are really in your bag lately.. these videos are incredibly valuable
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  17. This guy STAYS killing it. I copped your book, Docā€”being delivered tomorrow. Thanks for all that you do.
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  18. This is your best video yet. Thank you.
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  19. Yes. Life is a game of chess. He calls it the Meta Game, I call it the long game. I hold my tongue and behavior all the time when really I just want to tell someone what I truly think. I do it for my kids, so I donā€™t ruin their lives. Iā€™m polite and gracious with my boyfriend because I respect him. I rarely give him a hard time. Cuz Iā€™m a mature person.
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  20. Appreciate ya Orion
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  21. I was among the 10% of male psychology majors in a California university in the early 90's. I have been traumatized for life as a result. It was your easter egg scenario weaponized to an astonishing degree.
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  22. Iā€™ve been struggling with a lot of negative self talk. I really appreciate your videos. Lately Iā€™ve been reminding myself that Iā€™m an active participant in my own misery and that I have a choice in how I react to my feelings.
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  23. This is wonderful. The Bible, Sadhguru and other ancient wisdom teaches this. Dr. Orion makes it simple for those that choose to hear it without using Christian terms. Well done
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  24. This is one I could watch again and again. It's hard and necessary to hear it, much needed in my life!
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  25. Two of the GREATEST voices for Men coming together for this episode, truly impactful. Love & support to my fellow men becoming the best/happiest version of ourselves šŸ’Æ!
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  26. Most of Southern Europe has always understood this. Sex isn't just in the bedroom. It's expressed 24/7. You should always be somewhat flirty and sexual and women should always be in a slight subconscious or conscious state of arousal throughout the day. It's better for sex and is just more fun for men and women.
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  27. Orion, I began reading your book a few days ago after watching your youtube videos for a couple of months - I am very thankful for the information you are putting forth. I have used it to help coach my 3 teen daughters in the modern-day dating pool. I have also used the information you share to check my own behavior and nourish my 2nd marriage which has been going on for 7 years - to take it from ok to much, much better. I seriously think you have a special gift and although some of your videos have rubbed me a little wrong in the way you word them - they are all chock full of tough love type of truth gems. I consider myself quite capable of taking what applies to me, my marriage, my lifestyle choices and what I think is good to pass on to my daughters to give them an edge in the dating world and to leave the rest. I sincerely thank you and I'm deeply grateful that I came across your videos - not just life changing - life enhancing. God Bless
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  28. You are 100% spot on Dr. Orion Taraban. I resonate with this. Itā€™s a strong message for me to stop waiting and ā€œwrite my own invitations."
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  29. Keep doing these great videos. I've been watching for close to a year now, and I've learned so much. We appreciate you, glad these videos are a part of your routine.
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  30. Thank you for your insightful videos on modern intersexual interactions. I appreciate your non-biased, drama-free takes on the subject. We need more of this as opposed to hubris and drama-filled content the likes of Rollo, Whatever, Donovan, etc.
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  31. This is so true. Most people can't find empathy for people who are doing better than they are. You succeed, but you're on your own.
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  32. Thanks! Keep up the excellence!
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  33. Possibly my favorite channel on YouTube currently.
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  34. Been watching your videos for a while now. Your content has made a big difference in my life and how I think about things. Thank you very much for putting your knowledge out there. It's very much appreciated!
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  35. Been following Natural Lifestyles for quite a while. This is truly an unexpected collab! Looking forward to listening to it šŸ’Ŗ
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  36. Through chapter 1 of your book. Love the premise and like how itā€™s constructed so far. Great work!
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  37. The truth sounds like hate, to those that hate the truth.
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  38. Ā @beebee_0136Ā  The license in itself doesn't really guarantee protection against STI. Only proof of trust such as frequent testing, proof of fidelity and protections can guarantee protection. For the children, cats can also have kittens too . And this lead to one simple question: do you care about the children or not ? If yes, then you will nurture them independently to your relationship with the cat. If no, you won't. In both cases, you should not mix your attention to the cat with your attention to the kittens. They are both separate. Furthermore, remember that neither the cat nor the kitten belongs to you. If you were not involve in the birth of the children, they are not your responsibility and you are not the one who must care for them. If you are involve, then you have to assume the consequences of your decision and live with them, even if you have to do it alone. (which is why having a child is not a decision to take lightly and the implications, future investments and sacrifices must be understood before taking the decision...)
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  39. I'm reading "The Value of Others" right now and it is profound, informative, and filled with new ideas about how to think of other human beings!!!
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  40. Just got your book on audible. You have helped me discard many women and use my resources to enforce better behavior. Nice that you self narrated too.
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  41. Thanks for the content. Been watching and benefiting from your content for a while. Appreciate your work and insight.
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  42. My favourite analogy is that the dating market is like an extreme sport for both genders. For men, it's rock climbing, and the man has to pick the best line to get to the top. It is all effort and it needs brains to navigate, but the moment you're at the top it's all good. For women it's skydiving. There's a pilot to get you to the top, so you are cosy all the way. Then the time comes to jump with a twist: Pick your parachute. You may pick one that's good, you may pick one that's faulty, or you may go back with the pilot to die alone. Pick a good parachute and you're set. Pick a bad one and splat. And if you wait too long the good parachutes will be gone.
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  43. Thank you for your messages Orion. The quality of your delivery of your messages in the earlier videos were great to start with. But I felt you have taken that to a even higher level recently. I started following your channel mainly interested in your take on the dynamics between opposite sex. Then I stumbled upon clips and recent podcast interviews where you elaborated your philosophical and spiritual believes, and became even more engaged in those conversations. You are doing great and thank you again for sharing your experience and perspectives.
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  44. I took lsd and had this feeling on the come down at an ice cream shop. My consciousness was empty. No thoughts, just quiet. It was almost frightening, as I never felt that before
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  45. This video brought tears to my eyes. Not tears of sadness but rather tears of joy. When you mentioned the part at the end about being a source of light to awaken others I realized that's what I have and will continue to be. My gratitude to those who came before me that helped me discover the truth, and to myself for persevering through the pain and discomfort to find the peace and contentment in life. May all beings find their own joy in enlightenment šŸ™šŸ¼
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  46. many decades as a human...farts are always funny.
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  47. Dr. Glover's book was a huge step in my RED PILL journey - this was in the ~2004 timeframe.. outstanding work, gentlemen !
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  48. Wow, this is the sort of video that leaves you thinking about it for some time afterwards. And that can only be a good thing...Thanks
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  49. To put it simply. "You gotta give him that hawk tuah!!" Glad I made you day.
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  50. The simplicity is masterful thank you
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