Hearted Youtube comments on Cole Hastings (@ColeHastings) channel.

  1. don’t end this mans retention
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  2. Suffering = good character development.
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  3. The problem is instant gratification. Before, if you felt lonely, you would have to go out and meet someone. Now when you feel lonely, you can instantly chug one out to hyper stimulating videos, and meet random strangers on tinder. Meaning we never get to feel lonely long enough, to actually do something about it, because we keep flushing it away with something fake. That is until it's too late and your anxiety levels are too high, and now it feels like the only solution is the internet services. The truth is, if you unapologetically be yourself and speak to enough people, you will meet someone who's perfect for you. It all comes down to a choice.
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  4. Goggins, Ferris, gym, then Vinland Saga? Okay I feel personally attacked by this intro
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  5. I find that philosophy has been the greatest form of self-improvement. Jung has been a key figure in my life. Dream Journaling, active imagination, shadow work, I've just started doing these recently and they've had a greater impact than years of other motivational videos and dudes yelling at me to never quit. Realize your faults, understand your dark side, and listen to what your unconscious is telling you.
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  6. This video reminds me of that quote "People will dislike you no matter what so you may as well do what makes you happy"
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  7. Being yourself is the most alpha thing you can do. No true alpha dog “tries to act alpha”
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  8. This video needs a trigger warning to remove all mascara before watching. This made me cry real tears and now my eyes are burning so badly it hurts. So wholesome and encouraging. I’m so happy for both of you oh my goodness. It’s very heartwarming. CONGRATULATIONS!!!!🎊🎉👫 where is the biracial couple emoji when you need it SMH!!
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  9. Money can’t solve your personal problems but it can solve your money problems which lets you actually focus on improving your personal life - sounds like a good deal to me
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  10. I love watching these videos as a 17 year old. I always learn a lot.
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  11. Lmao right as I’m procrastinating on schoolwork 😂🤣
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  12. This may be one of the most important videos on YT. Right before COVID hit, I was lamenting to a friend about the lack of love and empathy in the world. I went out into the world trying to be friendly and kind, and my efforts were largely unreciprocated. She essentially told me to be "grateful to be living in the best possible times". I left the conversation feeling like I had been too sensitive and ungrateful to the ills I perceived in the world. Yes, many things are better today - Technology, medical care (if you can afford either), rights for certain groups, etc. Still, I couldn't shake the emptiness I felt inside. COVID has only amplified these sentiments. I am thankful for this video, which acknowledges that there is indeed a problem with connection ( or lack thereof). I needed the reminder that true kindness should without expectations. Instead of wallowing in self-pity, I will go forth into the world with a light heart and spread kindness wherever I go. <3
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  13. I am a virgin at 26 but I don't identify as an incel per say. Throughout the last year and half I've definitely taken a deep look at my experience and realized I wasn't this Big 'Nobody' 'Loser' that people told me I was. I've been getting out more since last year and been unraveling myself as a person, and I gotta say it's one of the most rewarding journies you can take in your life. Having someone to validate you and tell you that you're not alone is important to figuring yourself out and allows you to give yourself the space and compassion that you never really got from family. I hope anyone that ever felt like I did on those Darkest days can one day look at themselves with Favor and Unconditional love because Truly we all deserve it. ❤
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  14. Also remember this: criticism only matters when it is coming from someone who has more experience/accomplishments in a similar area to yours. If someone doesn't understand or appreciate your purpose, their criticism is worth nothing. Keep up the amazing work Cole. A lot of young people (myself included) lack guidance and self-awareness, and your videos are really unique and have helped me understand myself more.
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  15. This is arguably the greatest video you made! The narrative itself would win an award for how good it is
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  16. I feel like alot of people these days focus too much on visual attraction and emotions... you never hear anyone say the words good character, compatible, reliable, easy going, wise, kind, empathic. I find people these days aren't looking for someone to really build a life with, there looking for someone short term to either show off to others, be co-dependent with or find someone temporary that will help them climb the social ladder.
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  17. The older you get the more you learn to NOT CARE what others think! I can’t say I’ve completely stopped caring but it’s definitely less now then the last few years. I’m 16 now and I’m working on myself for me not for others. Thanks for making this video
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  18. this is so real. I spend 10 hours every single day with my phone. I thank you so much for putting me on the right path.
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  19. Being hard on yourself is usually a sign of intelligence. If channeled correctly, this can be a great tool/asset to improve. Ppl who are over confident tend to stay stagnant. Again, used CORRECTLY it can be great, if u are consumed by it, then it works against u.
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  20. "The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts." ~ Marcus Aurelius 🙏😊 Love the video Cole, thanks for creating another banger
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  21. Never been in a relationship before but based on what i learned from watching other people's experiences i think it's important to be transparent w someone and discuss things before you go in a relationship like a heads up if you're always going to be busy, or if you like to be left alone most of the times, etc because i feel like not only is it a huge waste of time finding about these basic things later on it can also be problematic. Also I 100% agree with having a purpose. Nothing is more attractive than a guy having a strong passion towards a goal it's inspiring and motivating 🤩
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  22. Whenever Cole says “let me know if this sounds familiar”, you know you’re about to get roasted
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  23. "If someone tells you they've got their lives all figured out? They're delusional, or a liar. Or they're trying to sell you something." Something my mom said to me a long time ago. Sort of just stuck with me, and it makes me smile every time I think of it.
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  24. So the moral is: To understand life, understand the full expression of every known human emotion without judgement or shame of its existence.
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  25. I’ve always seen it this way: healthy masculinity is about protecting the vulnerable. Toxic masculinity is about harming them. It’s a shame society (and some men) get the two confused. Real, healthy masculinity can be really vital and beautiful for people who want to choose and develop it. Shame masculinity is just associated with crazies like Andrew Tate 😂
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  26. being alone is my favourite feeling, you learn you and it’s easier to work on your goals
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  27. I regret going to college despite of schizophrenia and dropping out of college because of delusions and other symptoms. Now i am in a small factory with low salary but many nice and friendly coworkers. I value the friendly coworkers more than working with proud people with a degree.
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  28. To this i’d like to add, change your selfimage. If you see yourself as an introverted, shy quiet person, then you will act in a way to fulfill this. Instead see yourself as a confident, outgoing and social person, and over time you will become such. You can update your selfimage by doing things which fit the new self image you want, or through visualisations
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  29. 19, no friends, but now so much is going through my mind rn this video was like a therapy session. Like I just went from the lonely to alone change.
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  30. Nah, that's a myth breh. They're just tryna get to that Nutritional Yeast stash he's got.
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  31. The problem isn't that there will be fewer people, but that there will be many more older people than young ones. If you think taking care of children is expensive, just wait until you have to take care of old retired people, be it directly or indirectly through taxes. And with the current birth rates in europe and north america, in the future young people will have to take care of 3-7 old people per 1 young person. That is catastrophic.
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  32. “Overdosing on information will numb your curiosity.” Hits home on so many levels…
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  33. 2021 is gonna be your year, this channel is gonna BLOW up, deservedly so🔥👏🏻
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  34. Cracked up at the brazzers part holy shit
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  35. Just because you can accept these truths yourself, doesn't mean you can't be a better person and care about other people. Have empathy, find out what really matters in life to you, foster those important relationships, remember to live in the moment, tomorrow is not guaranteed
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  36. You are here to be you, don’t try to be anyone else, you have a part to play, otherwise, why be here? Love yourself, you deserve it, you’ve been through a lot.
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  37. Cole has found the real meaning behind breaking the matrix.
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  38. Sometimes I feel like people turn super disciplined because they have to prove something to someone. Prove all the haters wrong. Or maybe they have to prove to themselves that they are a valuable person . Being disciplined is great if you dont base your entire life and self-worth around it
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  39. Another thing is that some families can be toxic with stuff like this, such as babying their children to a point that they don't have basic life skills, or telling them that they should only focus on school, and not work, which is also very damaging too.
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  40. feels like you were talking to your younger self
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  41. you are the reason that im overcoming these dark times life throws at me, THANK YOU COLE <3
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  42. I got my testerone levels tested recently and saw I'm at 300 which is at lower end of today's average. It explains the mental health issues and lack of motivation. I'm now working on changing that through going to gym consistently, eating clean, avoid foods that kill testerone like oils, making self improvement videos with the goal of making it as a YouTuber, having goals helps a lot, trying out new things, cold approaching girls, etc... I'm hoping by 2024 I'll be at 600 at least
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  43. Just hit 90 days yesterday. Having a spiritual practice like Yoga, Meditation, Qi going, breathwork and tai chi to do daily is crucial to keep the urges and wet dreams at bay.
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  44. You gotta work more and more for less and less. Its actually impossible to buy a home with a regular job. Our parents had it way way easier. The rich are buying all houses and pushing up the rent. So we are forced to rent until we die. This is btw the american dream. We are fucked.
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  45. i admire your courage cole. this is probably my biggest fear deadass
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  46. I stopped smoking weed the moment I realized these 2 things: If I applied the same amount of effort to getting/buying weed as anything else, I'd be much further ahead and purposeful. And, when I found myself jumping at the idea of smoking even when nothing else gave me that same motivation. In some cases, literal arguments have started with people I've known over weed related things and it just makes you feel like a fiend. I don't regret having those experiences but man if I could get back the time.
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  47. I decided to do Japanese for 10th grade on Saturday and we learned Hiragana and Katakana, and other basic vocabulary’s for speaking. So basically a lot of what you learned in the 30 days. I am going to learn Kanji this year for 11th and I’m so excited. My Japanese teacher also uses the textbooks you bought. But you definitely would have been her top student for all the studying you did in 30 days lol. You kinda pushed me to study more and watch YouTube videos, along with joining my Japanese class on Saturday. Definitely like these videos! Hope to see you do more languages aha.
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  48. Genuinely loved this video and couldn’t agree more with everything you said!!
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  49. Looksmaxing is a sad sign of the times. Superficiality maxed to the hilt.
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  50. The timing of this video is scary. Been feeling the exact same feelings recently. You’re a master at connecting with your audience Cole, I guess we are all pretty similar.
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