Comments by "marriage causes divorce" (@marriagecausesdivorce7540) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1.  @aygwm  So true. Briffault's Law (1927) is real. Women mate and date for hypergamous gain. Where there is no benefit for her there is no relationship.
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  2.  @summersday7894  menopause is menopause. Ovulation failure is ovulation failure. Whether they admit it or not is irrelevant.
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  3. In other words, a man who is a 10 needs to find a woman who is a 1. It sounds rough and sounds like a bad deal but hypergamy is on steroids in 2024. Even the 1 out of 10 women think they are 10s.
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  4. This is a really good point. If there were no problems with divorce law, alimony, division of assets, legal fees, child custody, child support, child support modifications, parental alienation, heated co-parenting, these RP manosphere channels would die. The reason these RP manosphere channels are doing well is because millions of men are suffering and can relate to the content.
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  5. This comment is actually better than the video. If she is making you wait, she isn't physically interested. If she is making you wait, she is just financially interested and trying to determine if he will financially invest in her and how much money she can get out of the relationship.
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  6.  @Atashireality  You don't understand the concept of The Wall. The Wall is about her comparing the amount of male attention/interest she gets at 35 years old versus the amount of male attention/interest she was getting at 20 years old. Its not about comparing apples with oranges.
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  7. the juice isn't worth the squeeze. take it from someone who lose his money, house and kid in divorce. she is not your girl, it is just your turn.
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  8. It ultimately depends on what the woman is looking for. If she is untraumatized (say younger, lower body count) she will probably look for love rather than money. However if she is traumatized (post-wall, higher body count) she will want to "cash her chips in" and settle for the money of a nice guy beta provider and divorce him 5 years.
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  9. it is such a shame I have learnt all this stuff after my divorce (where I lost my money, house and kid). the problem is, I would have never believed this video before my divorce, because I thought women were special, and amazing, and heaven-sent.
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  10. As Dr Orion alluded to at the start of the video, marriage causes sexlessness. Marriage provides a woman with too much comfort and security, i.e. marriage is not conducive to intimacy. If you weren't married and she was worried about losing you, she would jump on right away.
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  11.  @davidedeh8448  She would never dare disrespect Chad or Tyrone, consciously or unconsciously. She genuinely desires their warm embrace and will give them the most supreme treatment. She will give them her mind, body and soul.
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  12. I guess this is why marriage is so problematic. The problem with marriage is that it makes it almost impossible for the husband to negotiate because marriage is a one-sided legal contract, e.g. the wife can take the money, house and kids on divorce. Wives don't need to negotiate. Imagine, trying to negotiate a car purchase where you as the buyer have no leverage because the courts will always support the seller! The buyer (i.e. the husband) will continually get screwed over.
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  13. exactly what i was thinking. it was such a savage take down of old women but so mild mannered at the same time.
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  14.  @fiveleavesleft6521  "And then if he's stupid enough to get married he loses all leverage by having the sword of Damocles hanging over him with biased divorce laws." 💯. Great comment. You absolutely nailed it. 🎯. Most guys only realize this when they are getting divorced and losing the money, house and kids. The only reason guys are getting married is that they don't realize this can happen and/or think it will never happen to me. lol
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  15.  @canelareina3795  its an invalid comparison. Those relationships are a completely different kind of relationship. The most similar type of relationship would be employee-employer where the employee is scared of losing their job hence the respect.
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  16.  @thecounselingcouch68  married men live longer because women chose healthier men. the women are not genetically engineering the men to live longer.
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  17. You will regret it if you don't approach her (you will be alone). You will regret it if you do approach her (you will be divorced). You can't win. lol
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  18. 💯% nailed it. You only really know your partner when you see her in arguments and other stressful situations.
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  19. Divorce court, and losing your money, house and kids, and getting zero'ed out is extremely rough.
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  20. W MGTOW. No divorce. No loss of assets. No child support. No alimony. No child custody battles. No false allegations. No legal fees.
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  21. Most guys demonstrate lower value and start simping out of control. It is an easy thing to do, especially if you are a low value simp. Dr Taraban is right. You need to demonstrate higher value and act with indifference. This will come naturally if you actually are a high value alpha chad.
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  22. So true. They always want more. They are never satisfied. Its always "what have you done for me lately".
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  23. I think this is the heart of the issue. She doesn't really like the guy himself. She just likes what the guy can provide, e.g. kids, child support, alimony, 50% of the assets, etc.
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  24. I hope one of the big red pill channels picks up on your work/channel. Your channel is dropping so many facts but from a PhD psych perspective. I have been through a marriage and divorce, and I 100% agree that if the wives get bored the relationship is dead as she is no longer feeling anything. I also 100% agree that the wife should be the adorer but this is hard to achieve in reality because men have been brainwashed into the adorer role by Hollywood, TV, media, etc. Also, to be the adored, you can't be lazy, you need to be someone worth adoring. Men should really put more effort into being adored (rather than adoring). Your work could actually save so many marriages.
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  25. People, including myself, need to learn to relax, forgive, let go, and move on. 5 stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. Letting go of the hate is great for your body and getting rid of stress hormones. You only get one body and mind, take care of them. Don't be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
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  26. Men are in love while women are in business. Men value love while women love value. Most guys think exactly like you. Its not until divorce court when your losing your money, house and kid do you realize you have ruined your life.
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  27. In other words, happy wife happy life? Alternatively, ideally you want to find someone who is agreeable and where there is conflict/disagreement, this can be handled in a mentally and emotionally stable way.
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  28. They ultimately still win either way. Even with a low value guy, on divorce they will get the money, house and kids. So they still win. The low value guy is left with nothing, while she walks into Chad's arms with the money, house and kids.
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  29. I guess this is why evidence, data, statistics, etc from credible sources is so important. At least then, you can compare your own individual feelings (e.g. I FEEL LIKE marriage is a great idea, etc) against what is actually going on in reality (e.g. there's a 40% chance of divorce in the USA, or 50% chance of divorce in the UK, etc).
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  30. Great insight at the end. I too have noticed that men tend not to disrespectfully question or cause drama and chaos. They seem to have a more avoidant attachment style. While women do tend to disrespectfully question and cause drama and chaos. They seem to have a more anxious attachment style.
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  31. My understanding is that women are increasingly out competing men, e.g. education, higher salaries in their 20's, dominating the intake of the professions (e.g. law, medicine, PhD research, etc). While men are being consumed by their screens, e.g. OF, P Hub, YT, gaming, etc. I can only see this gap continuing to increase as more and more women prefer to be single, focus on their career, and not have to worry about children, etc. We are already seeing this trend in Japan.
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  32.  @uhnborhn5032  this is exactly what happened in my divorce. my ex-wife was stashing away and hiding a bunch of money over the years. divorces just don't happen. they are usually planned out.
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  33.  @James-pl5uc  chance of car accident and chance of divorce are completely different numbers.
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  34. Understandable. But the whole "she loves me for me" thing is a bit blue pill. Briffault's law states that women mate and date for gain. They only enter into relationships where they can extract benefit from the man.
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  35. Getting into the relationship is the easy bit. Maintaining the relationship over a 5, 10, 15 year period is the difficult bit. As Orion says, online is beginning to overtake "in real life" as the easier/stress-free/happier option.
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  36. Women are generally not going to use talking as a punishment for Chad and Tyrone. Women are only going to use talking as a punishment or weapon for a short, ugly, broke guy. In other words, if she is using talking as a weapon or punishment, she is trying to change you because she doesn't really like you.
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  37. Nothing is ever good enough. They always want more.
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  38. RIP older women. Got to be one of the most savage take downs on youtube. Older women are "expensive" and "depreciating". Remind me to never mess with or criticize Orion.
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  39. s/o cappy. that guy is a legend. as he says, "do not get married".
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  40. the red pill is not about men hating women. The 2 main components of nearly all red pill content are 1. self improvement to become more appealing to women, and 2. how to minimize the risks that come with relationships, e.g. divorce laws, pre-nups, unequal property division, alimony, child custody battles, legal fees, false allegations, common law marriage, biased judges, marriage being short term, etc. The problem is that laws and judges are extremely unfair and unfortunately many men go into things like marriage without realizing how dangerous and damaging it is. The red pill allows men who have been badly burnt by the system, to share their experiences, so that other men in the future don't get screwed over by making silly decisions. Although the guys who have been destroyed by the system can't save themselves, it's too late for them, they can help to save their sons and other guys about to make the biggest mistakes of their lives.
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  41. Rollo Tomassi / The Rational Male said he would like to interview you (even on a remote basis) in his latest live stream (around the 50 minute mark). Not sure if you would be interested in doing this (?) but if you are interested, the offer is there. Would be great to hear you both discuss relationship goals, exchange of value, love in marriage, hypergamy, evolutionary biology, evolutionary psychology, how to maintain a stable marriage, etc.
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  42. 💯% facts. She is not your girl, its just your turn. She will eventually start moaning, complaining, and will take the money, house and kids on divorce.
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  43. this is 💯% the best strategy. however, most guys only realize this once they get divorced and lose their money, house and kids in divorce, and end up single, broke, lonely, homeless and depressed.
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  44. Are you nice to be around, or do you moan and complain at him all the time? If you moan and complain at him all the time, he probably doesn't want to be around you and would prefer to be left alone in peace. I think Dr Orion did a video on this recently.
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  45. Great video. Many women prefer guys based on looks. These good looking guys have many options and therefore have never had to bother with catering to a women's emotional needs. It is the fact that many women go for looks and that this incidentally comes with bad boy behaviour. Although, even if the good looking guy was a nice guy, I am sure many women would still be able to find something to moan and complain about. For example, maybe they would say the nice guy is boring and dull and doesn't make them feel anything/feel any emotion.
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  46. All men pay. The John in the parked car pays a lot lizard. The married man pays his wife with a diamond ring, house, alimony, and child support. In fact, married men pay a lot more than The John. The issue is, women no longer need men now they've jobs and divorce can keep the woman paid but without the headache of the man.
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  47. women have been rumbled. bravo, dr taraban.
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  48.  @RShaun  if you want a relationship you have to accept the whole thing is a risk and can massively back fire. If you want a relationship you have to make your best guess and hope it works out for the next 50 years. All you can do is de-risk, e.g. not get married, or get married with a prenup, or only have 1 kid to minimize child support payments, etc.
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  49. best comment. if a girl genuinely likes you, she won't care if you are just meeting up for coffee or a park date. she is just glad to spend time with you. guys, spending loads on 1st dates are just compensating for a lack of personality and attractiveness.
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  50. long relationships tend to be lose-lose for men. if it doesn't work out you could end up losing your money, house and kids in divorce. if it does work out, she will end up moaning, complaining, causing drama and chaos, and you lose access to other women. the juice isn't worth the squeeze, gentlemen.
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