Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. I wouldn't call this disappointing women. Truly disappointing them would be to give in to them by compromising who you are, which would be unattractive. Losing attraction for you because of YOUR behavior is a true disappointment. A more accurate term would be "having boundaries" with women, but this should be with literally everyone. Not just women. It should be who you are in general. Basically, be yourself at all times with everyone and develop boundaries that you enforce by not giving your time to those that refuse to respect them. A woman can feel safe with a man standing up for his own preset boundaries. She can also feel loved by a man who meets her needs without him going against his own standards.
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  2. Bottom line their actions. They left because they weren't feeling that attraction to you anymore. Simple as that. Thats your answer. And you don't want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you. That's all you need to know.
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  3. @Yumirow  Her vengeful attitude is certainly not love. That's her uncontrolled anger. Assuming he left her, her anger comes from him leaving her, which hurt her. It hurt her because she loved him, and she thought he loved her and she figured things would stay that way. So breaking up with her is like throwing a huge wrench in all of that, and changing her whole life path around. So the anger is understandable, but the immature and vengeful actions are not. If she had no love for him, she would have been unaffected by the breakup because she would not have been hurt, and therefore, she would not have been angry.
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  4. Everybody who focuses on things being allocated in a certain way is robbing themselves of a truly fulfilled happiness. This includes both men and women. You end up focusing on transactions for things to work, rather than giving and accepting from the heart. Focusing on transactions has it feeling more like a business relationship and promotes fear and insecurity, and it only gets worse when one person becomes complacent and imperfect for a time. Whereas giving from the heart has it feeling like a true and loving relationship, and that's where things truly become fulfilling. Of course, most people in the world are not like this because we are not taught this in this world sadly, so it is very hard to find someone that isn't focused on material things or bargains or transactions. Giving freely is what love and relationships are actually about. Thats what really works, and finding someone that shares those same values will allow you to truly experience a fulfilling relationship.
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  5. Because that reinforces your current behavior. Its like giving yourself permission to keep living with your parents and not grow. Plus, it's not true, because you actually are capable of getting up and moving. Telling yourself that just ends up being your excuse to do nothing and it keeps you down. Whereas if you changed your self-talk, you might just motivate yourself. The actions come from the belief and the self-talk, not the other way around. Your self-talk is your belief system. You'll always act according to your belief system, whether that belief is true or not. Change your self-talk, and you change your belief system. Change your belief system to the truth, and you can do anything.
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  6. Well his worldview is that romance works like business. Whether he knows it or not, thats basically believing that true romance is not real, and prostitution is all there is. So all of his ideas centering around romance are going to always be based on transactions, which is prostitution. Hes convinced himself thats how everyone operates.
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  7. Well pick up artists are disingenuous and are genuinely only good at the pick-up. So they ultimately don't fully know what they are doing. Disingenuousness and manipulation is generally disgusting to everyone. Men included. Most men don't understand women. I'd say most men want to improve, but mostly find manipulative advice, which doesn't work. There is lots of manipulative advice out there for women too. Few people know what they are doing WITHOUT manipulation, so they can't give proper advice. The truth is that manipulation is NOT REQUIRED to get what you want. The mistake in this video is the focus on sex. Focusing on sex is needy behavior which is ultimately unnattractive.
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  8. You have a subconscious hang-up on women being the problem for everything, which causes inaccuracies and shortsightedness. Sure, there are many women out there that have no clue how to be a parent, but there are just as many men out there that have no clue also. Many times, the parents just abandon their kids to those who are even LESS capable. These are awful influences and clearly cause emotional trauma. We also have tv shows, sitcoms and romantic stories centered around men being a goofy fool, or a stalker, and somehow still "winning" the woman over as they often call it with their scarcity mindsets. These shows and movies are written by people that don't understand attraction, and only write from their personal fantasies. They may be entertaining, but these are often awful influences on us all. Not only that, but there are a shortage of decent men AND women with integrity. So this isn't an issue caused by women or mothers. This is an issue that is caused by an entire world that has no clue what they are doing, which causes all kinds of emotional trauma, which gets passed down to the next generation, because most people are not humble enough to self-reflect, identify, and root these bad habits out of themselves, and most are quick to BLAME others for their problems. If our issues are always someone else's fault, then to us, there is nothing to fix or change, and so the cycle continues with all of the broken teachings.
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  9. @smokingcrab2290  Really awesome point. That makes sense. Although, I'm afraid that isn't the doc's point of view. The doc thinks you can only respect someone who has the power to hurt you but chooses not to. Orion promotes manipulative fear. He has different videos on this specific topic expressing his inaccurate views on it.
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  10. How can you not see that story is about SURVIVING an evil environment, not attracting a man. It also shows that abusers and those that view others as BELOW them are easily manipulated because Scheherazade manipulated the king's interest in order to survive, and it worked. This is actually closer to what happens with people who are traumatized, because they had to use tactics similar to Scheherazade's tactics in order to survive or at least lighten their abusive upbringing. As a result, they develop bad habits as adults that prevents them from finding good people UNLESS they do the work within themselves to self-reflect, take notice of the issue and actively make a change within themselves.
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  11. @SamanthaRoe-vj8wg  Well, he is right, saying, "Women want to care for you," but he is completely wrong saying that if a man isn't giving you something to do, he isn't into you. That's not an indicator at all. A ton of problems will plague any woman that applies that across the board because it's simply not true. That's what I mean by he always mixes truth with something extremely misleading. That makes it seem like he is never wrong because it makes the misleading statement hard to detect.
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  12. She asked you because she knew deep down that it was inappropriate. If she threw a temper tantrum because of your "no", and called you controlling, that would have been an example of her lack of integrity, which would be a character issue. Good women know that would be inappropriate. People can indeed be controlling, but not wanting your partner to put themselves in a position of possible sexual chemistry with someone else in not controlling, but reasonable. A good partner would not put themselves in that position.
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  13. She could be nervous and shy around you, and therefore scared to take a very real step like a date. She could be liking you, but just wanting to stay single at the moment for any reason. She could be testing to see if you lose your composure somehow, making her feel unsafe, which most guys do, which makes it a legitimate test. There are tons of reasons man and its impossible to know. Whatever the reason, just keep your composure, be your usual cool self. Treat her the same as you always have when you see her. If you've already asked her out, she knows you like her. Nothing else matters. If she's interested, she'll bring it up, because a self-respecting man won't keep chasing or flirting after he has been rejected. In other words, the reason doesn't matter. All that matters is that you went for who you wanted, and now you know the outcome, so you have no regrets.
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  14. This is a limiting belief, man. Hypergamy is not how attraction works. Hypergamy is a lifestyle choice for toxic women. The world in general does not understand how attraction actually works, which is why they gravitate toward superficial explanations like this one. Whether they know it or not, women are attracted to MASCULINITY. Masculinity is not defined by status or amounts of money. Those things are superficial. Masculinity is not superficial. You or I can attract just about any type of woman regardless of her "social status". Masculinity is drive, purpose, mission, succeeding, accomplishing, overcoming obstacles, chasing goals, boundaries, being direct and decisive, taking the lead, and getting stuff done like taking care of himself and his household, and also having humility. These qualities will beat out money every time. The reason why men aren't attracting women in those stats is because their parents don't know how to teach them. TV and movies teach men to be stalkers and act more feminine. Then you have videos like this that validate men in not self-reflecting and learning and continue to blame women for their problems. Not that I think you are doing this intentionally, because you seem like you're genuinely looking for answers, but there are tons of videos out there that blatantly tell men to blame women for everything. Its counterproductive and just as toxic as an actual hypergamous woman.
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  15. So true. I'm happy for you. This is what leads to being romantically fulfilled. Orion has made himself a part of that societal pressure that you're talking about that your wife had to ignore to maintain her healthy mindset and self-respect and to find a good man.
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  16. You described this so well. This video basically shows how the doc doesn't understand women. And instead of accepting them for who they are and trying to understand them and WHY they might do what they do and say what they say, he tries to change them by convincing them to be how he wants them to be. That's a guaranteed way to make yourself more and more frustrated, which is what motivated this venting video.
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  17. We definitely can mess ourselves up when we focus on our fears. I think in that scenario though with the guy picking a fight, the self-sabotage was the fact that he started a fight, because, he could have gotten jail time and lost his job and went downhill due to that one decision to start a fight, or gotten serious injuries or possibly death. The guys holding him back was his safety net, because he didn't really want to fight deep down, but that part wasn't the sabotage. Self-sabotage comes from our own fears, and we make the things we focus on comes true. So if we focus on our fear, we will make that fear come true. The solution would be to actively change our focus to something else or something upbuilding for ourselves when we notice ourselves focusing on our fears. So if the guy starting the fight would have decided to stop focusing on how weak he feels, or how he doesn't care about anything, and changed his focus to how strong he is for making it to where he is, or how there are still things worth caring about including himself, he wouldn't have started that fight. In other words, he would be ok if he stopped focusing on his insecurities and started focusing on the truth.
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  18. @Maybe 1000  Yeah. You're right. People that are choosing based on "timing" are actually choosing based on a fear. Usually, a fear of being alone, and they tend to want to rush things and are impatient. That's a big red flag.
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  19. You did something awesome for him, and you know it. That's what matters. He probably blocked you because he has some issues or misinterpreted things. Anyway, that doesn't make him worthless. That makes him fearful. Similar to bullies, who are also bullying others because there is something depressing and fear inducing going on in their lives and they don't know how to properly handle it. Your actions of helping him feel better hold the utmost value, whether people realize it or not. That remains the truth.
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  20. It's so true that they try and change the way you feel in order to forget things and move on. This isn't just a woman's problem, though. This is a human issue. Some men do the same thing. People don't apologize for these reasons: 1. They are either too prideful and don't like to admit they were wrong. 2. They think it shows strength. (It actually shows weakness). 3. They view being wrong to mean something bad about themselves. They might think it means they are stupid, or they might think it makes them an awful person. They are afraid of these feelings that aren't even rooted in truth in the first place. It's a fear they've developed or learned, so they operate from this place of fear and find ways to distract themselves and others from the fact that they owe an apology. All in an effort to not feel something that isn't even true. Also, good on you for sticking to your integrity and not sleeping with that woman when you knew you didn't like her.
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  21. They can be open to dating while simultaneously working. It happens all the time. Constantly, in fact. The ones you've talked to may SAY they aren't interested in relationships early on, but they almost always end up in one. Look at their actions doc. Not just their words in the moment. You ignore this reality for some reason, and you try to place these unnecessary limits on people. Also, 40 year olds date and get married all the time. You miss out on a lot when you ignore reality, Orion.
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  22. You said, "If you can't beat out your competition". Worrying about competition is a limiting mindset. It makes you insecure and trying to compensate to "beat out" the competition, which is unnattractive behavior. It keeps you in a state of fear. Physical attractiveness and being a good person definitely help a lot, but these things are not what truly creates that raw attraction. Also, social status literally doesn't matter at all. The fact that you think these things matter a lot tells me that you don't understand how attraction works and you have MANY limiting beliefs that holds you back a ton. With respect, because of this, your advice gets it right about 5 percent of the time. Also, introspection can never be narcissistic. Narcissistic people literally NEVER do introspection. This is how they end up being narcissistic. They are constantly avoiding themselves and how they feel deep down inside. The fact that you think this tells me that you might lean more toward narcissistic and/or avoidant behavior because that belief is an excuse for you to avoid introspection. You mentioned being rewarded by the other side. This is like looking at women as if they are your mommy. Your focus on a rewards system for your accomplishments or you doing well or showing something that should be attractive is actually VERY unnattractive and the wrong thing to focus on. It definitely points to your own current limiting beliefs and knowledge gaps. But the world propagandizes us to believe these things. So you aren't the only one.
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  23. Your compromised position of cynicism is not the best you can do. Thats the story you tell yourself so that you don't have to do the work, self-examine, admit your faults and ultimately humble yourself. Any emotional pain you endure while doing so is very temporary, and therefore, an extremely low price to pay for being free of cynicism the rest of your life and being more open to the truth. You telling yourself that cynicism is the best you can do is what is actually NOT GROUNDED IN REALITY. You, in fact, are capable of more. And you are using your intelligence to convince yourself that you are not. Your ultimate message here is to give up and stop looking for a solution. This, in itself, is cynical. Your teleprompter debacle, for example, just was not the solution. The only solution here to not having to look away from the camera is not more technology. The solution is just to memorize your point, and practice not accidentally repeating yourself. Its possible to develop yourself in that way. Don't get me wrong though, I see your point of how looking down isn't even a problem in the first place, because such a problem doesn't actually affect the entire course of your life if not changed, BUT being generally cynical about something completely DOES effect the course of your life HEAVILY, and therefore can literally cost you true happiness and fulfillment in your own life if not addressed.
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  24. Pride is a human problem. Not just a woman problem. Men have literally the same issue. It takes humility to admit that.
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  25. You say it isn't petulant just because you sound calm, but it is. You would basically be like a little boy throwing a quiet tantrum, because he can't get his way. It's not attractive to a healthy woman and it's a huge red flag. By doing this, you'd attract very fearful and insecure women that cause unnecessary problems and that will use similar type of tactics, because those are the only ones that will put up with that type of behavior.
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  26. I don't think people are concered that you don't care about them. I think they are more concerned that toxic advice is being given. You say you are just saying how some successful people operate, but most people look at what you say as advice due to your position as a psychiatrist. Also, paying for services as transactions is normal and getting along with that person is normal. No one has an issue about that. Being in fully PERSONAL relationships and looking for them to be fully transactional is not normal or healthy and would be toxic to the personal relationship. This is because they require love to thrive. And in order for actual love to be shown, affection and time has to be given freely from both parties. If its not free, then its not love. Granted, giving love does spark others to do the same, but it all still has to be given without expectation of something in return for both people to be and feel free and to show love. It's the only way a person can FEEL you caring for them in a personal relationship. Now, there are those that would take advantage of your affection by taking it while not truly caring for you or treating you bad. This is why you have to have self-respect or self-love in order to recognize it and walk away from that person. THIS is the only healthy contingency.
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  27. Wow. Such a good example showing that what the doc says is backwards. I wonder if the doc would change his perspective if he had your experience. With his twisted thinking, he would probably say that the reason the man is rich is because he doesn't tip lol.
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  28. Beautiful comment. He doesn't think about the reasoning behind a loss of attraction, because he only focuses on getting his own needs met. You just can't have a healthy relationship that way.
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  29.  @carlospita6442  You think looking into the reasons for something is simping?
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  30. @Morgy Orgy  I completely agree with you. I'm saying that people like her are still capable of feeling love. They can feel it for someone, but not know how to properly show it due to never having a proper example. She doesn't know HOW to love. That's why she could not properly let you go in a loving way. She likely saw others be vengeful and scornful as she was growing up. She wasn't taught self-control, which is a big part of love. I'm not making an excuse for her. What she did isn't loving at all. It's still not ok no matter what. She just didn't know how to show love, especially in that situation. She is basically a feral person when it comes to these situations, because she was never taught correctly and was likely inadvertently taught the wrong things. That doesn't mean that she cannot FEEL it. Everyone is capable of feeling it, but feeling it and showing it are two different things. So if she said she loved you, it's not that she was lying about that. It's just that she had no clue what she was doing. Many people have this problem due to many parents not knowing what they are doing either, and we have to apply ourselves and learn these things as adults if we are willing. Her upbringing or her ignorance does not excuse her actions, though.
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  31. True that men don't want a challenge when it comes to romance. False that men prefer to chase. He only initiates the chase or the courtship. Chasing overall is submissive. Therefore, it is feminine, which means that it's unattractive when a man does it aside from initiating the courtship. This might explain why you have issues with keeping women attracted despite your material resources. I really hope you can understand this someday so you can stop misleading people. This is why it's all about your behavior, not transactions. This is why any man can be attractive, but not with the insecure and weak transactional mindset that you teach. Also, this does not mean a woman should give up her body immediately because they will repel the good men by doing that.
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  32. He's wrong most of the time and he is learning as he goes. The discrepancy you noticed is a perfect example. He also used to think money mattered and now he knows that isn't true. Eventually, if he keeps learning, he will stop saying relationships are like a business and he'll say that women should have self-respect and not give it up so easily. So just be careful of the advice you take from him, because he is barely learning this stuff.
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  33. True. This video just seems like he is looking for reasons to dismiss legitimate criticisms of himself. Which is pretty normal for most people because most people are avoidant like that. Or I could be wrong, and maybe he just genuinely feels like hard work equals the answer to everything. But I just feel like he says stuff like that so he could avoid looking at different perspectives. Because if someone criticized his workout stats, that would be wrong because he is literally working on it the proper way, but if they critiqued some of his advice, it would be legitimate because much of his advice is literally toxic and he isn't doing the work to look at things in a more healthy manner.
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  34. I get what you mean, but you still technically trusted someone with your heart, and they broke it by unilaterally ending the relationship. Perhaps you can say that YOU invested all of that in the wrong person and gave your heart to the wrong person. That helps you learn from your choices, but ultimately, they chose to break your heart. You gave it to them after all. It's ok to allow yourself to feel the pain of it for a bit. Gotta feel it to heal it, right? Then, keep moving forward.
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  35. Orion is all about the fleshly desires, sadly. He literally teaches the opposite of the bible all the time. His entire channel is about giving into one's fleshly desires. You can tell that he knows he is wrong on some level because videos like this one show his thought process on how he uses his intelligence to rationalize NOT changing his mindset of superficiality and transactions, thus enabling himself to keep his current outlook. Giving himself an excuse and then teaching those excuses to others. That's avoidant behavior. Notice how he said that spiritual people tend to be envious of materialistic people. Well, that tells you that he is having trouble brushing off certain criticisms because he knows they're right, so it's easier to call them envious in order to dismiss them. That's avoidant behavior also.
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  36. Doc, based on your story and your worldview, it seems to me that you have psychopathy. The personality disorder where you are incapable of feeling empathy or remorse. It's basically a disability you were born with. I say this because even now, as an adult, you literally can't understand that your mother felt sad for your younger sister. You think that she was just trying to avoid dealing with a crying kid. This is because you don't understand empathy, so all you can see is the competition in front of you. Even now. It was your empathy that your mother was trying to appeal to, but she didn't know you had a disability in that area. All of your videos make so much sense now because the main thing that all of them are missing is empathy and remorse. And THATS why you promote manipulation and THATS why you look at EVERYTHING as a competition. And THATS why you thrive in an actual competitive environment. Because people with psychopathy tend to hyperfocus on competition. Those are common things for a person with psychopathy to do. Anyway, I think it would do you a lot of good to be aware of this about yourself.
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  37. @Mark Patterson  Practicing being myself included saying what was on my mind out loud, instead of holding it in as only a thought. Making a joke that came to mind even though there is a chance no one would laugh or care, voicing my disagreements, no matter how unpopular my opinion might be, and not being afraid to smile and wave at people when I want to, or compliment a stranger or anybody really, or being honest about embarrassing things about myself, or say "no" to people when appropriate for myself, or tell someone that I do not appreciate something said about me, and not just laugh it off if I didn't feel good about it. Even something like doing random stretches and exercises when I wanted to around groups of people, even if they made fun of me for it. Also, not laughing at jokes I didn't like, such as jokes at someone else's expense or jokes that I felt were shallow and gross just to make the one making the joke feel more comfortable. Or just not changing my demeanor when speaking to someone with lots of power or a woman I felt was extremely beautiful, or a man that looks like an extremely rough gang banger. Treat everyone the same and keep the same boundaries with everyone. I'm still working on this stuff to be honest, but I've gotten much better. The practice just consists of those little things that I think anyone can start practicing one at a time if they really wanted to, and if they were willing to honestly examine their own behavior.
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  38. This is basically a bribe for sex and you are desperately trying to convince them to accept. You won't get anywhere like this and you'll keep turning women off with this mindset. Women are not repulsed or disappointed by men, they are repelled by men with mindsets and behaviors like this. Wouldn't you rather have a woman thats crazy about you and is passionate for you? Its impossible to get that by viewing them this way.
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  39. I acknowledge that you're getting better, Orion, especially with understanding that your behavior as a man matters, BUT you're not there yet. You don't have to be more competent than her, and you don't look at it as giving orders. THIS viewpoint of yours will get you rejected because worrying about her competency COMPARED to yours is motivated by fear, and you will over compensate out of insecurity. The truth is that you don't have to be better than her at ANYTHING. And you don't have to give her orders. Stop worrying. Relax. All you have to do is TAKE THE LEAD and give her the freedom to follow. This means to go first. This means you plan dates, pick the place, and have a genuine interest in what she would like and be thoughtful about your choices. You don't give orders. You INVITE so that she has the option to REJECT. This means that you need to be literally ok with rejection. That is true confidence. This is the loving way to lead.
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  40. This is a beautiful appeal to him, but I don't believe he is looking for balance at all. In this video, he said that women should give up sex, whether she knows the man is truly interested or not. She should just take a chance and give it up. So he actually already considered the risk of being used for sex and he doesn't care. Then he literally said that women just need to make themselves useful to men. So his whole message basically amounts too, "Just let me use you for sex". He just masked it in a complicated sounding way so that it's harder to detect how awful and horrible and unhealthy the message is.
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  41. You do need your own things to do and some alone time, yeah. Although, you speak as if you aren't even truly interested in the woman you're with. You said to see her as little as possible? Then why be with her if you don't enjoy your time with her? Also, its never been said you must spend all of your non-working hours together. Just learn how to have fun with your woman when you are together. Also, you make excuses as to why you don't have to listen to her or try to understand her saying its impossible, but its literally not, because she is a human being just like you. Helping her feel heard and understood actually ignites her attraction toward you making her want sex more, yet you advocate against this. No wonder you feel you must try to convince a woman to have sex because you refuse to do the things that actually cause attraction. Also, you're right that sex helps with the emotional aspects, BUT you focus on sex FIRST, instead of just having fun and getting to know her first WITHOUT sex. This doesn't work and that's why you come off as sex crazed, because you put sex first. Its the wrong order.
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  42. Keep in mind that it's basically people focusing and speaking from their fears and insecurities. This video enables those fears and insecurities.
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  43. Orion's words are the words of a man that doesn't understand women and doesn't understand how to get along with them and makes excuses as to why so he doesn't have to learn. He literally thinks it's impossible to understand a woman, so he gives up. All the things required to be happy with a woman, he discouraged in this video. It's no wonder he can't spend much time with her. He has no clue how to hang out and have fun with a woman. Anybody with this type of limiting perspective will never be able to enjoy the kind of relationship you have with your wife. You are not an anomaly. You just have the proper view on things.
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  44. Men monkey branch when they are currently with a woman they are not truly interested in, and women monkey branch when their romantic feelings are gone or has gotten very low. This is what I've learned. Basically, its wrong to monkey branch. It requires a major lack of integrity, because a person would have to start lining up other prospects while not leaving the current relationship. That is dishonest and a violation of one's own commitment.
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  45. You're just hanging around the toxic places. Dr. Orion doesn't realize it, but he has a toxic belief system around romance, which attracts men with toxic and negative views that they want validated. So you are just going to the wrong places if you are looking for emotionally healthy men.
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  46. The moment you noticed her avoid answering questions about her past was the red flag you need to know she had something to hide that she knew you would disapprove of. Also, anyone avoiding answering any question at all is a way to let you know that person is not trustworthy and has something to hide. The only exception is if that particular question is too personal and is trying to elicit obviously private information.
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  47. Feeling like you aren't good enough can come from multiple things. Its not necessarily from a negligent mother. The doc is wrong about this being the only cause. It's actually only a potential cause because people cope with it in different ways. If you have feelings of not being good enough, it can come from anybody putting you down or not giving you recognition at any point in childhood or even adulthood. This becomes an insecurity that stsys because of putting yourself down and being too hard on yourself. At the end of the day, it's just a perspective you have on yourself, and you have the ability to change that perspective to the truth by giving yourself permission to be a beginner and learn slowly and be patient with yourself and stopping negative self-talk in it's tracks when it comes up. And remember the truth, which is that you are good enough for anything just like everyone else is, and just because you can't get what you want sometimes doesn't necessarily mean something about you.
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  48. @Anders Nielsen I didn't mean to offend. I wasn't talking about you. I was speaking in a general sense.
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  49. Hang out and have fun. Plan dates once a week or once every two weeks. Something small. Doesn't have to be expensive. Also, just talking. Asking her about her opinion on things or asking her what type of stuff she likes to watch on the internet. Like what type of stuff she subscribes to on youtube. Overall, just be interested in her, and let her tell you and listen without being judgemental so that she feels comfortable being herself around you. And don't force any answers out. It's ok if she doesn't feel like answering at the moment.
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  50. Lying doesn't work because things don't work that way. Good women can detect your BS and will move away from you due to how your disingenuousness is making them feel. It's like if you were telling the truth about wanting only sex that night. You'll likely get rejected for causing the same feeling alarms to go off when you're lying. This only includes women with healthy perspectives, by the way. Desperate women with no boundaries like you will notice the disingenuousness and will go forward with things anyway. So your desperate mindset showcased by lying will, in fact, have you attract others with the same disingenuous lying mindset. The way around this is to stop allowing your lustful urge for sex to control your decision-making. Have some self-control and focus on other things so you don't have to lie, and you don't have to come off so desperate and disingenuous. Just trying to help, man. Because you are inadvertently making the world worse by telling people to be a liar.
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