Comments by "" (@benjaminaltman4895) on "Charisma on Command"
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Hey Bananenbauer123! I completely agree, sometimes the best conversations are about the meaning of life, morality, etc. What I was trying to get across with my last point wasn't to avoid those topics, but to filter for people who also enjoy those topics!
And for people who don't, filter them out, or find what they enjoy speaking about, rather than trying to force them into a topic they might not enjoy. Not that you have to do this, just that it might lead to being interrupted if you were to try to pick the same topic with every person you meet.
Because if you like the universe, and they like the universe, then it WILL be an enjoyable conversation for all involved :-)
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It's interesting, recently I've actually been working on raising the pitch of my voice a bit when out so that it carries more through ambient noise. That said, for a deeper voice, I think things like relaxing your jaw, relaxing your chest/back/abs/low back, basically creating less tension, that seems to help. Relaxing, speaking more slowly. If you get tense or speak really quickly, your voice will rise in pitch, so I'm just assuming the opposite is true. I've worked a TON on getting healthy vocal mechanics and getting my voice to carry, but not a lot on depth, so hopefully that's helpful but beyond that I'd say give it a google.
Also personally I think that unless you sound like Mickey Mouse, your voice pitch doesn't really matter. Charlie has a voice that is on the higher side of things, and is one of the most persuasive, charming, funny people I know. I think there are much more important aspects like conviction, body language, etc. that will have a more positive impact on your charisma than trying to change your voice pitch :-)
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