Comments by "fialee8" (@fialee8) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. Ordering something for someone when they told you they didn't want one is a red flag. It shows you are demanding. There could be many, many reasons why he doesn't want a drink. He could be on a diet, lactose intolerant, maybe he doesn't like coffee tastes, or maybe he doesn't drink alcohol.
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  2. These women in their mid 30's... they may not "feel" old, but they are old. Look at it this way... when they were 18-20yo, what did you call women in the mid-to-late 30's? Back then, when you were young... you called those women old. Same thing today.
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  3. A woman 10-15 years younger is fine, and actually is prob preferable for most men.
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  4.  @briankorsedal  It's in China... they can do anything they want. But agree, most women's only gym won't do well.
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  5. What is a common thread here is personal choice to drop out of school because they are lazy. Then, it's compounded by the fact they waste their paycheck on eating out, KTV, and cigarettes.... along with wasting their valuable off time not trying to improve their situation. Lastly, the young women don't appear to be interested in finding a wealthier man to marry before they turn 25yo. This is another waste... as a woman with no education, no money, and especially no youth is essentially never going to improve their situation.
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  6. If someone is at high risk of being laid off... it may be wise to start looking for a new job before you are laid off. Trying to get a new job while still working means you still have value in a new employers eyes... vs those who already unemployed may be looked at differently (why were they laid off while others didn't... was this a poor performer... was this a troublemaker... etc).
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  7. OK... that first guy is a lazy slouch. He is unemployed home all day, and still orders delivery?!?! And cleaning is a "hassle"?!?! And he's going to start looking for a job (what has he been doing for five months)?!?! And lastly, he's playing video games?!?! No wonder the wife is mad. Plus, their kid isn't even living at home... why not take a delivery job or any job? He's a loser... and she should divorce him! If he wanted to save the marriage, how about start cooking meals for the family, clean up around the apt, and stop playing video games all day.
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  8. If someone cannot or won't comprise, they will not stay married long-term. Life is always about compromise, as no one is perfect. Everyone will get old, and beauty will fade... so good looks doesn't last long.
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  9. These younger men will not call these older women "sister"... they will call you "mother, can you drop your dress and give me money".... or "granny, can you drop your dress, turn off the lights, and give me money"?
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  10. You are only a "victim" of your own decisions. Your over inflated ego, and look down on men who don't meet your unreasonable expectations. If you are so "strong" and "independent"... why are you on social media complaining, crying, and unwilling to lower your unrealistic standards?
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  11. These older single women who won't get married until they find the "perfect" partner is great. They filter out someone who won't and can't compromise, and will only bring misery to any man who dates and marries her. To these women, please never change... as men can avoid a life of nagging, unrealistic expectations, and strong willed no-comprise partner.
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  12. You can't make this stuff up.... guy makes all the money, and ex-wife wants to get back to gether with him. So how does she convince him? By arguing and yelling at him at every turn. This person has never had to apologize in their life... and she's not starting today.
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  13. For the driver who couldn't adjust the order for the direct trip... your lesson here is NOT to tell anyone you do this.
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  14. No glove... no love.
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  15. My gosh... that wolan who is 31 says people think she's at least 35. they are being very nice to her... she already looks like she's in her 40's. Seriously, if she want's to get married... find a man, any man ASAP!
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  16.  @royn5349  There is a difference taking a few hours off to do something, or even a week off if they are sick. It's completely different when someone takes 2.5 years off.
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  17. Geez... that woman with glasses is LAZY. She admits that she hasn't worked in a while... and gets past the first interview. Then she complains to her husband that she's not happy in that field, and wants to switch to teaching. Of which, she has zero interest in pursuing... other than the exam is year away, which means another year of doing nothing. She also admits she's unsure she's able to pass the teaching exam, even though it sound very very easy to pass like a driving exam.
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  18.  @minhquannguyen346  I doubt that power woman is a virgin. If you believe that, you must think the world is flat, and sun revolves around the Earth.
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  19. Unfortunately, their happiness includes having a husband. You should not feel bad for them... as they themselves had said they had many opportunities when they were younger, and they rejected those men. It was their decision, and now they have to live with it.
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  20. I would add that if anyone goes to a "retirement" home, it's prob 90%-99% women. Almost all men will die before going to a retirement home, or will die soon after. So men, live your best life, and don't worry too much about getting very very old... as you won't get there. Your concern should be to spend most of your money before dying, and leaving a huge pile of money for someone else.
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  21. Glasses girl needs to re-watch her own video. She says... I don't care about money, but everything I talk about is money, and he needs to have more money than average. You can't make this stuff up.
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  22. The 35yo admits she's old and not very good looking. That self awareness should be very helpful. Since she is thin, this could only lead to 1) her requirements are still to high for her looks & status, and 2) need to re-assess her personality. If she's not nice, or not pleasant to be around, that is a huge turn off to men. Men do not want a woman who complains all the time, are too demanding, or changes their mind often, and for no good reason, other than she "feels" different this minute.
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  23. Mole girl loves to give advice about marriage... but will likely never marry herself. Is that someone anyone should be taking advice from?
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  24. If a company can fire you on the spot, and have you leave basically immediately, that means you have little value in the company because your work is not mission critical, and can be easily replaced. People need to build a job/career that makes them difficult to be replaced... either taking a job that is very difficult, or extremely complicated that someone without special skills cannot do. Otherwise, if you have a generic job... of course a company would rather find someone to pay less, and get the same quality of work.
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  25. For female (or any) ride share drivers... you can complain now about customers and profits, but within five years, you be fortunate enough that you'll no longer have to complain about these things. Why? Because you'll be replaced with robo taxis, and don't have to complain about driving anymore.
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  26. Does anyone know how hard it is to get into a pharmaceutical sales job? In America, they are typically a woman 21-29 yo, and are EXTREMELY attractive. With more women becoming physicians, there will likely be many handsome men getting into those roles. If you are not extremely attractive, it's very unlikely you can get a job with a big phrama company.
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  27. For the garment worker who worked through the Holiday, and then took a day off, and got fired the next day. My question to her is that, did she ask for the day off in advance... or just decided not to show up and not tell her boss? Also, what was your past work history, and taking days off?
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  28. A nursing home is a miserable place to live the remaining days of your life. Aside from possibility getting terrible roommate, or housing unit... those who don't have family visit often are likely to be the most neglected, or possible abuse. I would disagree that having money won't solve the problem. If someone has enough money, they can pay for a dedicated licensed nurse or two to live in a home. Or even if one was to go to a nursing home, you can pay someone to check on your every week or two, and talk to you on a regular basis. Is this cheap... no, but if you have money, you can buy attention and better care. Lastly, I would say 98% of residents of long-term care facilities are women. Most men die before they make it to a nursing home, or they don't live long after entering. That is another thing to consider.
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  29. His eyes got bigger than her teeth... which is a feat in itself.
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  30. An older woman needs to find even an older guy. Prob someone who's about 20+ years older... so she is now the younger woman. This is the same in the West... rich and successful men want younger women, so you need to be that younger woman to the older man.
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  31. Quitting a job, and opening a bakery... talk about not learning from past failures.
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  32. So what would she prefer... a guy going out drinking and chasing women, or comes home and playing games? Her words are true... she's only mad because he's more relaxed than her. That's why she's mad.
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  33. I think 90% of these divorces came about from external influences... either through another man, or their "besties", or social media. They were prob happy in their own lives, but it changed when they compare themselves with others. No one to blame but themselves.
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  34.  @stevec3526  I have no problem with the cost of the purse. What is the problem is that guy only makes 10,000 yuan, and that she is basically demanding him for 3/4 of a month's salary for something that has no value to him. If he made 800,000 yuan a month, then 8,000 yuan purse might be a bit more acceptable. That said, she's just a greedy gold digger, and not serious about the relationship. If she thought he might be her husband in the future, she would think why spend that much money on a pursue vs investing it or save it to buy a house for their future together. That said, I think she's 32yo based on her bday in 1992... so she's left over and used up, and will likely have to find a 55 or 60yo man to take her in.
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  35. The hard reality is that, regardless if in China, US, or Europe... the hardest time to find a job is when you don't have a job. First, if you are unemployed, that means another company did not find value in your contributions. If another company didn't value your contributions, why would a new one? Second, if someone has changed their job frequently, that means a lack of attachment to a company. Hiring someone often takes many months, or even up to a year, before an employee starts to make meaningful contributions. A company does not want to make the investment, and training for someone to then just leave after they just started making contributions. Third, an experienced employee typically has higher salary demands. A company must make an evaluation of hiring someone making 20,000 yuan per month vs 30,000 yuan per month. That's a 50% increase in pay, and that's 100% less profits.
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  36. One thing these women in their 30's feel left over, and can't find someone. They need to think ahead when they are in their 40's... will they be better off or luckier? If they think it's bad in their 30's... it's 10x worse in their 40's... and 100x worse in their 50's in actually finding a single person. If they want to be a cheap concubine, they their options are a little better.
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  37. For the 27yo... given you've had BFs before, that means you've been used quite a bit. Please keep your high standards till you are 60yo, and let men off with your demanding princess ways so they won't live a life of misery, and can enjoy happiness.
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  38. 540,000 yuan sounds like a lot of money... until you hear that the average home in California is $773,239 USD, or 5,412,000 yuan. And that's just for the house, no furnishing, no taxes, no remodeling.
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  39. The woman with bow in her hair, and chain necklace. Why are you blaming your husband, when it's your friend is coming over, and YOU trust her more than you trust him. It was fine when she was married... but now she's purposely around more often after the divorce. She is looking to steal your husband... and YOU are letting her do it by not being more attentive to his needs. What is your "bestie" doing that changes his personality to happiness... and why aren't you doing it. I suspect your "bestie" is telling you to punish your husband until he's more attentive towards you, which is basically the opposite of what you should be doing.
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  40. I suspect that "delivery girls" must have a bad reputation for being promiscuous, and/or very demanding, and/or very money hungry. These girls work in an industry that is prob 98% men... and if she can't find a date or serious BF, then something is wrong. There must be many fathers are delivery riders who may want to find a GF for their son.
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  41. That guy at 7:00.... he looks so angry and mad, he's going to punch the camera!
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  42. They are dreaming for an 11/10 man.... which they will never find. They should just buy a six pack of cats, and call it a life.
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  43. One of the reasons why men die younger than a woman is because off all the nagging, badgering, and complaining from the woman.
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  44. The first problem is graduating at 24yo! They should be graduating with undergraduate at 21yo... maybe a master's degree at 23-24yo. If they are 24yo with an undergraduate degree in film, dance, art history, or underwater basket weaving... they get what they deserve.
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  45. You can thank social media for destroying society. Social media and entertainment has set up unrealistic expectations in finding a spouse, and how married life should be. Being married isn't all fun, exciting, and carefree 100% of the time... but social media and entertainment says it is, and if it isn't, leave the marriage. Eventually, the cause societal collapse.
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  46. LOL... I would just break out laughing if she asked me to buy a gold bracelet on a first date.
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  47. The future mother in law woman may seem nice... but what it really means is that she's deeply involved in her daughter's life, pamper her to no end, and will make the husband a living hell.
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  48. OK... this may be a comedy skit, as the bald friend has been in many many videos himself ranting about women. So that is strange.
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  49. At the end of the day, one cannot fully trust anyone completely... not family, besties, or co-workers. Depending on the situation, and timing, anyone can make a spontaneous decision. While you can trust someone 99%... but always keep in mind, there's that 1% you can't always count of them to make the right decision. People's basic nature is to help themselves first, and others are a distant second.
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  50. Dear sister... don't believe that you are worthless if you are divorced and have kids. In fact, you are less than worthless, but more of a burden. What successful man would want to raise another man's child? If your child is a son, would you want them to marry an older divorced woman with children?
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