Comments by "fialee8" (@fialee8) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. First off, she doesn't appear to executive living in a tiny apartment, and terribly crooked teeth.
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  2. It is interesting the side of the man who knows the nightclub women are just whores and each person are just micro business transactions. There are a few simps which are not socially aware who thinks they can be saved (but they can't because they don't want to change). However, the reality is that she wants to be a whore, and in society, there is a place for them, and they are needed. Men should not think he can save her... and she should also be realistic, that she will never get a decent man.
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  3. Finding a partner is easy... just keep lowering your requirements until someone says yes. Honestly, if they aren't ugly, mentally ill, have an addition (spending, gambling, etc), and is nice to you... what else is really that important?
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  4. Older men to date younger women might marry that person. However, an older woman who dates a younger man, that man will not marry that woman unless she's extremely rich, and allows him to have sex with other younger women.
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  5. Social media and gaming. It created unrealistic expectations for women, and gaming provided a distraction & community that men never had before. No one to blame but the government, because they encouraged and supported all of this... thinking it would undermine the West (US, EU), which it did. However, just like the unintended consequences of the one-child policy, the unconstrained use of social media and gaming has also drastically impacted PRC negatively.
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  6. Men who have successful conditions have one criteria... that the woman is younger than 25yo. If they can meet that condition, then they may be a match... if they cannot meet that condition, please move on. Successful men do not care about a woman's education, work, or wealth... those attributes do not make for a good partner or mother.
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  7. The reality is that no one cares what you, the person who is looking for a job. What counts how the person hiring thinks. Life is not fair, and yes, you can maybe pursue legal action... but that's not going to get you a job, nor any job in the future once other companies know you have a history of filing lawsuits. What I've found is that when looking for a job unemployed, that carries a huge stigma, of which why aren't you working today... no other company finds any value in your work? Vs if you are currently employed, looking for a job is a lot easier... since you are less stressed about finding work... you have money coming in each payday... and if the company you are applying for, they see that another company values your work, which makes you more desirable. In addition, if you are currently working, and they want to hire you, they may be willing to pay you more... since you aren't desperate for a paycheck.
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  8. Students who are smart take internships during their summer break at university. during each year... so yes, new college graduates could have three summers of experience when the graduate. Also, most college students interview for jobs during their last year of school so when they graduate, they can start working right away. If someone waits till after graduating to find a job, of course all the other students already secured jobs prior to graduating.
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  9. For the woman complaining about men gaming... having a gaming wife, is likely a man on the other side. An no, cooking, cleaning, and taking care of kids is NOT a hobby. If this is a "hobby", then she should take up that hobby, and I'll gladly buy a new vacuum cleaner, and mop for her birthday.
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  10. If she is answering an interview question, and thinking they should be worried about someone poaching her? Umm... lady, you are unemployed, no one is poaching you. If you are that entitled and delusional, any company that hires her will likely be out of business, as they hire terrible employees.
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  11.  @helahola  You do not understand Chinese women mothers. They are the ones who are losing face among her peers... not her father. Also, if the man didn't have at least some minimal prospects (wealth), including enough filial piety to take care of elderly parents (both his, and potentially hers), I guarantee her mother would not make such a referral. No Chinese parent is going to recommend a spouse who won't be taking care of them as they get older.
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  12. You need a better AI writer. An unemployed man may feel aggrieved... and losing a job won't double that, he's not working already.
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  13. The person in the purple jacket is hilarious... asking if the other person is a man or woman. Why? Because I was thinking that exact same thing of them... i couldn't tell if they were a man or a woman (I was leaning towards man due to the eye brows).
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  14. The true lesson here is that if you get invited to something... go, even if you don't want to. Show up, smile, and leave early if you get too bored. Once you decline, you will never get another invite. Who's fault is that? This is a true statement that people need to learn early in life.
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  15. Dude it an ultra simp. Just get a divorce or annulment... and sue for your 180K back!
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  16. If a woman can't handle her own career (making more money), finances before getting married (being in debt), and having a large savings & investment accounts... why would anyone hand over their money to such a person? Do they have a brain tumor or something?
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  17. LOL... what delusion is that a younger man would want to "marry" and older woman? The younger men only wants boom boom... and once someone younger girl comes by, see ya!
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  18. The guy should test them before taking the girl, and besties to a meal... if they don't have a four or five way orgy before dinner, then no meal.
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  19. The Hello Kitty lady if crazy and delusional. One thing she is right a woman can be like a fox... since a fox is a sneaky thief.
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  20. As you point out, when you are young, you talk about stupid, trival things, or about chasing girls. As people get older, people's priorities have changed... marriage, money, work, GF. The illusion of "pure" friendships are fake relationship... if you want these friends, it's easy. Just go to a bar, and buy strangers drinks... they will be your friend as long as you are buying them drinks (of course, they will never buy you drinks).
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  21. "Passionate" = sex all the time.
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  22.  @4evertrue830  The house is not paid off because she keeps spending money, so hey borrow money from the equity. They just leased a new car for her. He cannot say no to her.
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  23.  @weirdboyrox  More like pay for services, and keep it transactional.
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  24. First off, these guys have to look at the mirror more often. If you are honest, how many times has a woman asked you out first in your whole life that is not a relative? If the number has been zero or once in 20 years, what makes you think they'll start today?
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  25. The woman with glasses is delusional, and needs to check if she has a brain tumor. She's older, barren, poor (can barely afford 86 yuan), exhausing, and demanding and can't find a man. Now, with an added bonus, she is sick. What man would want to marry, let alone date, a woman who has nothing to offer, but their burdens?
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  26.  @manifest2203  You apparently don't understand dying earlier is not a good thing.
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  27.  @manifest2203  Given the man typically makes most of the money in the household. If the spouse isn't going to take care of him in his old age... why get married at all. And once again, you do not understand the dynamics.... men die early, and don't even make it to the old age home where women just lounge around and gossip. Granted, it's like a death camp waiting to die... but at least they are alive (unlike the guy).
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  28. Any woman to call themselves "high quality" means they are actually low quality.
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  29.  @squiggs1002  True. A very good pre-nup is advised, which also plans for children, and split custody (or whatever arrangements you want) up front and child & spousal support. Plan for the worst, but hope for the best.
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  30.  @squiggs1002  If someone is getting married, something is better than nothing. As for abuse, that has to be documented, and substantiated. It's the risk someone takes.
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  31. That second older woman looks like the one in the video in the marriage park. Even with beauty filters, she was not good looking... without filters, I'm surprise the cats and dogs aren't scared to look at her face.
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  32. The 88,000 yuan girl is way too immature to get married. She is still tied to her mother, and can't make a decision for herself.
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  33. Show me the proof a 45yo barren woman married a 23yo CEO!!! I think this was a woman's wet dream. There is only two scenarios where I can see this happening... that the 45yo woman has $1B+ USD in the bank, or her father has $1B+ USD in the bank.
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  34. As a dried up woman, I think you need to pay ME 380K yuan to date ME.
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  35. If the 34yo woman is so happy being single... why is she wearing make-up and lipstick? Who is she trying to impress... maybe a man?
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  36. The problem with the second woman is very clear. The men are very honest to her... but she calls them narrow minded. It's time to look in the mirror. She obviously is delusional if a woman can have kids at 60yo. For the men, run... don't walk away. She is clearly not a fun person to be around, but more of a demanding older woman with no value (but in her head, she is still a princess).
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  37.  @spencerian  A dinner at an upscale restaurant can easily run $300+ person if there is a free flow of higher end alcohol. A nice bottle of wine can easily run over $300+ and you only get 4-5 pours. High end whiskies can easily be $100+ per drink. Plus, in America, there's prob ~8% sales tax plus another 20%-25% gratuity (tip).
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  38.  @BennyC-qg6rd  Micky D's yes... Five Guys prob not. You can prob get out of Micky D's for less than $35 USD per person ($18 meal, $6 milk shake, $4 apple pie, $5 tax). Five Guys... $50+ USD per person ($25 meal... assuming no extras, $8 shake, $8 dessert, $8 tax).
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  39. ] [nm ,While this person has ambition... but he has a fatal flaw, very very stubborn. In each story, it's his personal decisions which caused his own failure...including not taking other's advice, pursuing "get rich quick" farming schemes, and likely keep spending, and worse, borrowing money when the venture is failing. The narrator is right... he should marry his GF, who's stuck with him through the tough times... as he'll never ever find such a woman at 41yo, no assets, and deep into debt. No normal woman would want to marry such a guy.
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  40. 43yo?!?! That's grandmother age.
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  41. How much of a place someone can get for 10,000 yuan rent a year? In a cardboard box under a bridge?
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  42.  @InDadequate  Prob three cats minimum.
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  43.  @comet392  You need to look up the definition, it's not sexist, it's reality.
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  44. That 38yo very very plain woman who only dates young men who makes her heart race... I wonder how many men have been between her legs? 200? 500? 1,000?
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  45. Chinese people in general love formalities, but are often blunt and crass. While there are nanners to "show face"... but when it's mostly in private or not among friends, they are classless, rude, and demanding. Plus, the older they get, the more rude they become. If a woman demand a man to be 1.75M tall, make 300k yuan, own a house & car... then the man can demand a woman that is 21yo, cooks, thin, pretty, is nice, cleans, and willing to raise children.
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  46. In America, if someone tries to kick your door down... you shoot to kill.
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  47. The reason why your blind dates aren't as good as your ex-husband is... what man want's to raise another man's child? You are dating what you are worth... do not look down at these men if they are willing to raise your child.
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  48. Young, pretty, obedient, and sex. What's there not to like?
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  49. If she feels uncomfortable because someone might be looking at them... they would be should come to the USA. A person with a beard and wee wee can use a woman's restroom, shower, changing room, etc if they "identify" as a woman.
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  50. What idiot would want to marry an older woman with another man's child?!?!
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