Comments by "Elaine R" (@elainer8288) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. I agree 100%. I think it is because without discipline, our mind drowns. Every depressed person is always someone with no discipline. I agree about the "drug dealers" too.
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  2. ​​There are many good videos, but I think it is strange that he never talks about love. It is as if it doesn't exist.
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  3. I think so. It is better to try that than threatening to cheat or any kind of agressive and selfish behavior.
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  4. ​ @Roman_4x5  Want someone to like you: When they voluntarily do something nice for you, find a way to reciprocate.
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  5. Women like men who like to do things to make other people happy. This is a big part of being a really successful men.
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  6.  @michaeldowd5545  Good point! I said exactly what a lot of women would like. You can say exactly what you think men would like and women will read it. I think you are absolutely right saying women should keep the same attitude as in the beginning too.
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  7. That's really terrible. But I think in this case, maybe they didn't choose a woman who really loved them. That's the mistake in this case, I think. Being a good husband is not the mistake. Choosing a woman who doesn't really love them is.
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  8. Very good comment. It applies to everybody.
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  9. ​ @ringoheinrich7021 Hypergamy is bs. If that really existed, there would be a lot of single men that could not get married. Not what hapoens in most states.
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  10. Many comments of men here saying this is manipulation, and other things too are clueless. Try to understand the other person instead of interpreting everything as manipulation. In many videos of this channel I see this comment.
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  11.  @ElimEx1  My God! This is so pessimistic and not true at all. A lot of women think men don't fall in love and just care about sex. You just have to find a high-character person who loves people in general. They are the only ones really able to love you too.
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  12. Bullies are psychopaths and we are all victims of them someday one way or another. I'm happy you are free from these bastards. They are still being bad to someone in their lives. We have to be around people who love us only and get away from the human garbage that bullies / psychopaths are. Be happy you don't have one in your family because they are the worst! Being around loving people is the best thing everybody can do.😊 Wish you all the best!
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  13.  @claraisnotmebutilikeit  Although it is, a lot of men in the comments seem to think Dr. Taraban is talking about all men...
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  14. I agree with you. And I'm a woman. We need to be happy in our own company too.
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  15.  @angelamwatts  It's really disgusting. Some even hide the wedding ring. The guy that hit on my sister, dropped his wedding ring on the floor before going in the sauna and she heard the noise. The fact that they were in their honeymoon and we would see them at breakfast in the morning made it all creepier.
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  16. 1,2 times a week seems pretty normal to me.
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  17. Fantastic comment. Exactly.
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  18. ​ @robiocraft Come on... No women are very interesting or funny? There are a lot of funny and intelligent people in this world. You need to meet more women. 😊
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  19. To all men: I admire how more in control of your emotions you are in general, how more disciplined and focused you usually are with your work, your capacity to be so much less dramatic and make problems smaller by removing that aspect of it, your protective attitude towards everybody and how more objective men are in general, more than women.
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  20.  @Marking_The_Way  I agree. It's very rude, and even if it's a joke it definitely goes against you because it shows you don't care what happens for taking such a big risk. Most women wouldn't like this joke.
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  21. I'm sorry that happened. But don't stop being like that. This world needs more men like you. 😊
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  22. We will never know if we were someone's first choice or not. But should be with someone who makes us feel we are.
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  23. Excellent!
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  24. People who are honest don't need to say this.
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  25. ​ @RameshbabuKoonan  But I didn't say anything about what you are saying. I just said a woman wants her boyfriend / husbando to be their best friend. How is that abusive or offend anybody?
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  26. That's bs. I would never say anything and find extremely disrespecful. It's amazing how 1 guy says any bs about women and everybody thinks it's true. Generalizations are usualky not very smart.
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  27. He didn't mean any of this. He meant women are less likely to cheat if they are happy in the physical aspect of the relationship, while for men no matter how happy he is physically in the relationship, it doesn't change the likelihood of them cheating.
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  28. ​ @obviouslyasockpuppet  I'm not referring to that either.
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  29. ​ @Aribbonofsoundmen  Come on, that's not such a difficult thing to do. Mostly young and immature people do this. (not apologize)
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  30.  @fineless  Sometimes we also apologize to be nice and show appreciation or to show that we are being careful with that person to avoid any misunderstandings. There are good and bad people men and women. You have to see if somebody has a good character or not. Not believe in words, but actions. We can't be narrow-minded and say "I don't trust any man" or "I don't trust any woman". We have to develop the ability to judge people's character.
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  31.  @celiajames600  In this channel, there are many pre-conceived ideas about women. Maybe it is because being Dr. Taraban such an adorable handsome and intelligent hard-working man, he ends up having a lot of options and dating younger women who are immature women because all the characteristics he describes seems to be from immature women. Maybe that's why. He also seems to be one of the guys who is under the impression that women are primarily interested in a guy's money, when, in reality, a man so full of qualities like him, would have a lot of women interested even if he wasn't successful and had a simpler job.
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  32. As long as they reciprocate and aren't selfish.
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  33. Great arrangement!
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  34. What about male body count? No one ever even mentions. 😅 I wonder if there are men with high optionality with relatively low body count because they don't enjoy being promiscuous.
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  35. Me too. I just want a man that is hard-working and middle class like me. I don't care about money. Just want to be with someone who is attractive in my opinion, intelligent, has a great sense of humor and a gentleman.
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  36. What? This is absurd. A lot of women work and are middle class and just want a hard-working men like them. Most women are not psychopaths just interested in money looking for rich men. You can find more high-character people like this girl you said. There are still a lot of good people in this world. 😊
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  37. Excellent comment.
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  38. Very interesting video. I think it applies to other kinds of relationships as well. It's a good a idea to try that to calm down a nervous and loud person so that an actual conversation is possible later. I have a friend who was able to do that with a very angry husband.
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  39. ​​ @paccawacca4069  But aren't we here to give our opinion and make comments and try to understand other people's point of view??? Why do you think it is bad if a woman starts working again after the kids grow up and are spending most of their time at school?
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  40. Very good! More women need to read this!
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  41. ​ @brianmeen2158  I agree.
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  42. She won't take cheating no matter what level of attraction. If you cheat, you become disgusting and unnatractive. Period.
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  43. I love to cook and I like to do some cleaning and organization. It is part of life. The problem is being financially dependent and not being appreciated. This is what a lot of women are tired of. It is not a matter of pride. They don't want to go through what they saw their mothers and other women going through.
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  44. I agree.
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  45. Better safe than sorry. Women have to keep that in mind in the kind of world we live in. The risk of not having that is too high.
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  46. Not true.I'm here trying to understand the male perspective better. And I know a lot of women that are curious and care too. Maybe your friends didn't feel comfortable asking you as a men.
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  47. ​ @mudblood9699  But she had this rules for a reason. So she is basically going against what she likes. I just want to say to men that they shouldn't measure attraction this way and be disappointed if the answer is no. It doesn't mean the attraction is not high. There are better ways to know the level of attraction. I think this has nothing to do with it.
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  48. ​​ @Straga_Severa_  What is your source? This is not what I see or heard. All psyquiatrists I heard always said the opposite.
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  49. ​ @rhinoskin7550  I agree. The best option not only for a man is to find a well-balanced person who has a job they like and their own goals in life. These disciplined people are always more balanced, calm, and rational compared to the ones whose lives are a mess. All people with depression, agressive, etc are always people with no discipline.
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  50.  @TheAdditionalPylons  Maybe sugar babies think like that. I think there are only two options: work, help pay the bills and share housework and childcare or do housework and childcare. If married to a wealthy man, he can get a maid to help, but she should at least cook and take care of the kids. I think some women are angry that they work and share the bills and the man still thinks all the housework / childcare should be done by the woman too. Or that if they want to work and study and share the housework with the whole family after the kids grow up, they don't let them. But not working and not doing anything is crazy.
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