Comments by "sharper68" (@sharper68) on "The Damage Report"
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@Anthony Gordon The idea that men are not matterlistic and women are is silly on the face of it. Men control almost all the resources on the planet and always have, it is not unreasonable the half of the population that has tradionally been forced to take what they got would reach out for more given a chance, maybe you crave to have no power over your finances or comfort but the idea is bizarre to me
Times have changed and the fact woman work and have jobs today changes the power dynamic of tradional relationships, I would argue the change is good for all as it allows us to choose what we would be and what we value instead of society choosing it for us. Those who need simple black and white rules as to what they should do and who they should be are the ones struggling. I want and demand more from my partner than sex and companionship, so should every man. If you have no ability to be introspective, to be empathic, to care about her as a person, then you will struggle as you are not well equiped for a modern relationship.
If you do break the mold and find a way to appreciate her as someone you like and not just a maid and whore you will do just fine. You will have a happier, stronger relationship than your grandparents did even if they stayed together til the end. If you want a relationship that is more traditional, it exists out there for you. I posit these are the relationships that struggle most. In the past, they were held together by the women having no options. That time is not coming back.
I see more freedom and less cookie-cutter roles as a good thing. I value the individual contributions of men and women as people instead of the cardboard inflexible chactures that defined their roles in the past, The parallel stat that many men have no close friends is the canary in the coal mine to me, if you can not form basic friendships It should be no shock you have trouble with romance or long term relationships. These lonely confused people need to look at themselves first before complaining about all women.
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