Comments by "Trinh Nguyen" (@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. That sounds like one of my sister in law’s. She only cares about making herself look good and neglects her kids.
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  2. I think all men want good women not gold diggers. Who would want a gold digger?
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  3. Why can’t the women spend on their men too? Let’s be fair here!
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  4.  @exvex5108  Yes, that was how some of my brothers are so they decided to stay single. They are scared of women like these gold diggers.
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  5. Not all men are like that but yes, some are like that. There are good and bad men just like there are good and bad women.
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  6. Not all women are the same but these women are like that.
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  7. I agree and I feel it is more challenging for the men, especially when they expect the man to be the breadwinner.
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  8. I agree! This is ridiculous!
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  9.  @orinnoco2919 I agree and that needs to change!
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  10. What a rude thing to say!
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  11. It definitely depends on your luck because my second brother is very successful and never had a wife. He married late to an average looking woman who was already divorced with a kid. Of course my family was highly against it so he eloped. She basically is now sitting back and enjoying the fruits of his hard labor. She refuses to contribute financially even if she has money which is totally messed up. I am now older and my man is way younger than me, so I help him as much as I can. It is important to always be supportive of each other and to help each other out in every way possible. If there is not a balance then there will be big issues down the line. My man is not successful yet but I promised to be with him through it all. That is a true partner and not someone who is with anyone just to reap benefits. What if anyone experienced financial difficulties? Would you just leave them? There is saying which is so true. A man’s true character is tested when he is rich and a woman’s character is tested when she is poor.
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  12. No, they think the zodiac stuff is taken seriously by many Chinese.
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  13.  @starwalk3r Yup, you always have a choice.
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  14. Exactly and my late parents were extremely strict with me to make sure I did not turn out like this.
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  15.  @bunbohue369 I agree and this dude’s story just doesn’t add up,but he yells at others for not believing him. Go figure!
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  16. Very well said! If anyone married or entered a relationship just for money and materialistic benefits, then it will not be everlasting. That is why love and having genuine feelings and connections are always important for a lifelong relationship and marriage.
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  17. I agree and it is not just the amount, the purpose behind it. A marriage that is based on money and materialism will never be happy or everlasting. All guys need to steer clear of women and their greedy families.
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  18.  @leof. Exactly and true love is priceless. The materialistic stuff comes and goes fast.
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  19.  @botmoderator3405 Exactly and very well said! But sadly many women place such high value on themselves like the men owe them something. I am a woman myself but I am different from most of the unrealistic and demanding women since I had a good mom that taught me well.
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  20. I am a woman and agree with you, but if any guy is lucky to find a good woman, then you should cherish each other.
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  21. I wonder where divorced and widowed women and men fit into these categories? I dated 1-2 widowers with kids. They were older than me and are nice men. But they left me without a word.
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  22. That goes for men too.
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  23. Very well said and this should not only apply to Chinese women but all women. You need to love, understand and grow together and not just base it all on materialistic stuff. True love and connections are priceless and no amount of money can buy that. Of course money is needed to live but it shouldn’t be the only or most important thing. You need to be their partner and be with them through thick and thin, not just use them for benefits and stuff. A marriage with no love is very cold and calculating which is not going to last or become blissful.
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  24. Yup and some of my brothers who are still single have chosen that path.
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  25.  @Brandanmayhew You don’t need to be Chinese to know that. But the message they are sending across is pretty true.
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  26.  @ActiveAussie2024 True to some extent. It depends on your luck.
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  27. That was one of the many reasons why my parents rarely allowed me to wear make up.
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  28. Not all men want kids believe it or not which is why the worldwide birth rate is so low now. Plus, if you can afford it ,there are many other ways to have kids. There was this one single Chinese guy who was wealthy had triplets through a surrogate. He just had to have his kids even without a woman.
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  29. That is how I am too. I had a wonderful mom that taught me very well.
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  30. Exactly and marriage is not everything as we can see with the high numbers of divorces.
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  31.  @semibiotic It doesn’t matter the age of the bride, but this whole dowry BS needs to go.
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  32. Yes, unrealistic expectations are a big no no for women and men too.
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  33. I agree and what he did is a good way to test women to see their true colors.
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  34. I had a feeling that the economy would decline fast just like how fast it grew. The bigger they come the harder they fall.
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  35. I was single until my late 30s because romantic stuff was never a priority for me. I had school and other things to focus on. There is more to life than romantic love.
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  36. Yup and women should make their own money so they will not need to look for a man with money.
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  37. I watch TV series a lot so it is great to see real footage of how life was for people during the Qing Dynasty.
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  38. I agree and that shows how greedy she is. She claims to already have money but yet still wants more. That is why women should make their own money so they can look for love and not just for money only.
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  39.  @Ric_Roar  Exactly!
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  40.  @Chucky-w It is better to be alone rather than with these bad women anyways.
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  41.  @j.p.5716 What a load of BS! That is why many men are waking up and not putting up with the nonsense and selfishness of many women like these women. You see where this old school thinking has led to? This new school thinking is what will make things better! I am a woman myself but always help out my man. I have all brothers and 3 of them are married and 2 of them are more modern and help my brothers out financially like how it should be. The other one who is divorced and left over with a kid and act like these women, so that brother is suffering now. This video and Chinese women and their unrealistic expectations are proof of the old school mentality NOT working and needs to change!
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  42.  @user-yb6tk1ru6x It is not about being worth it or not. It is just wrong to take family and friends along when you are on a date. It should be just you and him. The woman should also offer to pay at least her share instead of having the guy pay for it all.
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  43.  @حجيمحمد-ط2م Yup, or just a simple snack and a stroll in the park is enough.
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  44. Yup, but sadly many women and some men as well just take and take what they can.
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  45.  @4evertrue830 Not always true but generally can be. Look at the president of France. His wife is 24 years older and he really loves her and married her. She was married with kids too not just older. If you are truly in love then you just are.
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  46.  @TheDragonofRevelation It depends on the situation.
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  47.  @krockettz3231 Good point!
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  48. So true! It is all over the world.
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  49. Why? They can make their own living.
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  50. You are hilarious and clever! I would have only given them a $1 dollar bill.
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